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    Adultery - Unable to Hear a clear answer from God - Help Please

    your comment has truly been a blessing! Thank you so much for your encouraging words and jewels of wisdom you have shared with me! I pray God put his desires on my heart, for his word to be rooted in me and truly the commandment of love and forgiving is easier said than done and who can lie to...
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    Adultery - Unable to Hear a clear answer from God - Help Please

    Appreciate your very thought and detailed response. Yes it’s sound fishy and it’s a crazy “favor” to do for a friend, I met the friend and as crazy as it sounds I believe it for the fact that she was the person who helped him when he had no one else so he did it to reciprocate the favor , I...
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    Adultery - Unable to Hear a clear answer from God - Help Please

    thank you for your input. he married his friend and divorced her. He married her to do her a favor. (Crazy favor sure). And he’s not a believer so marrying and remarrying is not a big deal (I guess) .. anyways he went to court it wasn’t in the woods.. but my dilemma comes from the fact this was...
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    Adultery - Unable to Hear a clear answer from God - Help Please

    Yes he was divorced , but they were friends he married her to do her a favor… she helped him out when he most needed it so he reciprocated the favor.. but yes according to our marriage certificate he’s divorced.
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    Adultery - Unable to Hear a clear answer from God - Help Please

    Thank you much for your feedback!
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    Adultery - Unable to Hear a clear answer from God - Help Please

    That is my thinking too, it wasn’t a legitimate marriage but then again according to our marriage certificate he’s a divorced man. I hope I get filled with more wisdom , and I am holding on to James 1:5 and Matthew 7:7 , ask and if you shall receive. Thank you kindly for your input!
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    Adultery - Unable to Hear a clear answer from God - Help Please

    thank you so much for your feedback I appreciate it and will meditate on these verses and will check out the article.
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    Adultery - Unable to Hear a clear answer from God - Help Please

    I am unsure if his previous marriage is a valid marriage in the eyes of God. No I’m not trying to find a way out. It wouldn’t be an easy decision but I also don’t want to lie to myself or be a coward if this is indeed adultery.
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    Adultery - Unable to Hear a clear answer from God - Help Please

    I didn’t explain myself very well .. thank you for your input. We decided to get married and it wasn’t until we went to the court to get married that he “casually mentioned” he was married before (or as it shows on our marriage certificate documents, he’s divorced) as he actually married this...
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    Adultery - Unable to Hear a clear answer from God - Help Please

    (Edited) Hi and thank your for reading this. I’m married and when I went to court to get married with him, my husband told me he was divorced, this marriage was not an actual marriage (he married his friend do do her a favor, as she had helped him in the past so he returned the favor)… I...
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    Seeking Guidance Please - Dealing with Resentment

    Hi everyone , I am married to a non believer, who has a daughter but doesn’t live with us. Met her when she was 4. Her mother passed away, when she was 8 and now she’s 10 years old. She lives with her grandmother. She’s hours away and we make an effort to go see her multiple times a year...
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