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Recent content by Aileen

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    How do u know if ur called to fulltime ministery?

    Excellent reply from Bro. Sam. Those who think God is asking them to become involved in a spiritual ministry should consult the leaders of their church and begin preparing (Bible School etc). God speaks personally to us, He doesn´t use messengers to give us messages. Our church leaders help...
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    Finding it difficult to let go & move on

    Dave, I forgot to mention that y husband was a young widower of 29 when we married.
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    Finding it difficult to let go & move on

    Hi Dave, I don´t know if what I write will be a help to you or not. Plesase don´t think that no woman would fall in love with you because of what you think is undesirable baggage. Would your son accept a new mother figure? That question can´t be answered ahead of time. All children...
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    family members

    Hi, There is no reason why you can´t date this woman if you would like to know her better as there is no blood relationship.
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    help with my marriage

    Hi, Hope your situation has improved and that you have found employment. A marriage is team effort........sometimes as in your case it´s the woman who has a job so the man should take over the running of the home. Have you spoken to your pastor? All the best.
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    Going to every-little-thing?

    Hi, You have a genuine desire to support your husband and for that I congratulate you. Sit down with your husband and discuss which meetings you accompany him to. Sunday services and prayer meeting should be a priority for you but you don´t have to accompany him to everything. You say it´s...
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    Husband refuses to see my family

    Your relationship with your mother is your decision. How often you speak with her is for you to decide. She is your mother so I don´t think you should break off all contact with her. However when she starts to talk about your husband you should interrupt and tell her that subject is off bounds.
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    Tremors

    I suffer from the same, have done for several years, my mother did too, so I understand. The neurologist recommended a small glass of red wine every day which helped and a month ago he told me to take a strong cup of coffee in the morning....so far it´s working. Best wishes
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    A widower wants to move on with life

    Best wishes to you. May the Lord give you the desire of your heart and that you will soon meet the perfect woman for you. You sound as if you are ready to move on and have gotten through the grieving process.
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    Are you dressing up for Halloween?

    Am I an alien? Am I out of touch with civilisation? Never in my life have I seen or heard of adults dressing up at Halloween. When a child I´d dress up and with friends and our favourite game was to knock on doors and run away. Way back then that was considered very daring. Obviously we...
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    Two Years with God and 48,000.00$

    I suggest you speak with your pastor and ask his advice. If you do go to work OM you will need the support of the church where you are members. What ministry are you presently involved in? Keep studying the Word and serving in your church and the experience gained will benefit any future...
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    Who are you.

    Well put, Drich.
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    Who are you.

    Of course I experience emotion and 'feelings', I´m human and as they are a response to what I read in the Bible I can´t separate the two. Security, protection, empowerment, wonder, awe, gratitude, acceptance, privilege. Wow!!! I don´t experience all of those emotions at the same time...
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    Who are you.

    Sorry, I would disillusion you and also give scripture. I base my beliefs on who I am in Christ, not on my feelings or thoughts, but on what God the Father assures me is my position in Christ.
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    Do you ever feel...

    Hi, You are married, God knows that, and the priority he has given you is to put your marriage and your husband first. That´s your great and wonderful calling, my dear. God wouldn´t burden you with a call to go to Israel when your husband isn´t on the same spiritual wave-length because He knows...
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