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Recent content by Addy

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    Hello All

    i'm hanging in there :) Right now I am just focused on my health. I am severly anemic. Does my husband still drive me crazy. YES. :0 LOL Some things never change.
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    My husband looks at women in front of me

    Did he have this behavior before you were married or did it start lately.
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    Hello All

    Awww, hello there. After all that steam, and I am still not preg. lol
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    Hello All

    Wow I just came back and read this comments. So much time has passed. And still no baby.
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    PLEASE HELP - lies will cost me my family

    Whew. Looks like a toehold became a foothold. At least you are taking the first step and admitting your lie now so that it will not become a stronghold. Thank God for that. You are in my prayers and thoughts. I know that this has been a big burden for you. But as we all know hiding...
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    Heavy on my heart

    If it is heavy on your heart. Let us help you with your burden. There might not be a solution. But there is always damage control.
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    What to do

    Here’s my problem…my Christian friend who has always been like a mentor to me, now wants very little to do with me. *** I think you should talk to him. You'll never know why he is avoiding you until you just come out and ask him what the problem is. I know he’s disappointed in me because...
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    how do you deal with the heartbrake?

    Snowflake, I hope all is well. How are you doing? I'm not buying it that he feels you are to needy... As a husband he is to support his wife. It is not like you are a roommate. Either he has a lot of growing up to do, or he is not telling you the entire story. Keep praying that God...
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    How to forgive ...?

    Yeah, that is a hard pill to swallow. A few months ago my husband told me he could not respect Christians because of blah blah blah. He did not say my name directly, but the implication... It hurt me to the core. How could anyone not love me, a child of God, especially my closest ally, my...
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    hi new here and need some input

    I could continue on and see if things change but after being together for one year i see things change for a little bit but then backslide for him. ***The only thing that can change him is the Holy Spirit. And he will do it in his time. Lord only knows how long that might be. I know i need to...
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    Hello All

    We do not neglect the training of our children in the Lord because a mate doesn't like it. ***Amen. I truely fill I would be in trouble with God if I did not do my best on this one. If the man will not teach children about the Lord, it falls by default for the woman to do it, with or without...
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    Hello All

    Do you respect your husband's wishes not to raise a child to believe the Christian theology? *** No, actually, I do not. If he would not have changed his mind on this, more than likely, it would have been over or no kids. Do you respect his desire to exercise spiritual leadership in your...
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    Hello All

    Update: So far so good. He has been keeping to his word about trying to get preg. But he is driving me crazy with his mouth. Today I when downtown to feed the homeless and hand out money. He just had negative comments. Arrgh. Sometimes I just want to pop him in the eye!!!! Please continue...
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    UY Gauntlet

    If you can, don't go any further. You are asking for a lifetime of pain. It is like quicksand, it does not hit you until you are fully in it. Take it from us, listen to our stories of pain as suffering and conflict. I only wish that I could go back and change my decision.
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    At what point has he abandoned our marriage?

    ***Addy, I hope you find a church where you are comfortable and can look forward to going each week. I have a church home. I have just been working two jobs and kept missing Saturday service for one reason or another. He acted like he was trying to get on my nerves with it. Im sure he...