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Recent content by 49erfan

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    lesbianism might be permissible?

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    Discussing sex with youth and young adults

    Hi, I have worked with youth and college groups in the past and probably will in the future. I have been asked "So we can't have sex, but how far can we go?" What do you think of a layered approach to boundaries? Do not remove less than one layer over the female’s chest (bra) and do not...
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    Ovarian Cancer - now breast cancer too

    From Jessica Brown: I was diagnosed several months ago with ovarian cancer. I've had quite a few problems having successful treatment. I've recently started chemo again and today I have learned that the cancer has spread. I have breast cancer now. I don't really know what the treatment...
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    Underwear

    Men: what type of underwear do you wear? Ladies: what type of underwear do you like your husband to wear?
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    Bible reading?

    Do you and your spouse read the Bible together? If so, what are you currently reading and what version do you use?
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    URGENT! CF had a security loophole, so all members must change their passwords!

    Thanks for explaining this. I was wondering why I needed to change my password after 381 days. That seemed like a strange point to be required to change it.
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    Going on a cruise

    Hi, My in-laws are taking the whole family on a cruise in October. :cool: Sounds great right? Has anyone taken a small child on a cruise? Our daughter will only be two. Any tips?
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    Married to the Kellys

    Why did this show get cancelled?
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    Summerland

    I like the surfing footage.
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    Who Wants To Marry My Dad?

    Is anybody watching this show?
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    Favorite Cartoons of all time

    Super Friends (especially the season with the Legion of Dome).
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    Best Thing

    She took care of all of the little details for our vacation. Things like packing for herself and our daughter. Buying snacks for the road. All of the little things that I would have struggled to find the time for and therefore would have delayed our leaving when we wanted to.
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    How many of you had a Traditional Marriage?

    Our wedding was very traditional. It was in the old church in Colonial Williamsburg.
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    Right Spot??

    My wife miscarried in 2001, and we had a beautiful baby girl in late 2002. Keep praying, God is listening.