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Recent content by 325is

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    There is always a chance....

    Alright well some of you may remember my last post about my wife wanting to get a divorce. We have been seperated since september 26, 2005. Over the past months I have been seeing a Christian counselor which has helped me alot through the bad days. After Christmas I decided to pretty much give...
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    someone asked why I still want to save my marriage...

    I feel for you, and thank you for the post. I am in a similar situation, and I through being patient and trying to work on myself I have come a long way in just the past few weeks. You may want to seek a christian counselor, as it has helped me a lot. Another thing that really helps me is to...
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    My wife has a plan to fix things, but it involves getting divorced..

    MsJL, what you wrote there really made me think about how I have been acting when it comes to my problems. I don't accuse my wife for the way I acted towards her, but I did have the mentality that she would act out of spite. With that thought in my mind, there is no grey area, I am either ok or...
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    My wife has a plan to fix things, but it involves getting divorced..

    searchingforGodlyanswers- thank you so much for your words of advice and thoughts. i hope that others who have read this thread can benefit from what you have said. It looks like my wife is going to be talking to someone this week about getting started in the divorce process. I am trying to stay...
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    My wife has a plan to fix things, but it involves getting divorced..

    This isn't easy for me to do, but here it goes...The worst episode we had went like this....My wife and I had been arguing over something that neither of us can't remember.(it may have been going out somewhere)Well we both had this nasty way of saying things just to hurt the other when we were...
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    My wife has a plan to fix things, but it involves getting divorced..

    Both of us are pretty stubborn, and neither of us liked to be on the losing end of an arguement.(Very bad mindset to have) She would push my buttons and be spiteful just to get me fired up. Like screaming at the top of her lungs in my face, saying "hit me" which I never punched her, threatening...
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    My wife has a plan to fix things, but it involves getting divorced..

    Well both really, I mean I want my wife to be happy. But at the same time I want to be the one to do it. I just got off of the phone with her and she is being pretty difficult to deal with. I think I am going to just leave her alone for awhile and see if that helps.
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    My wife has a plan to fix things, but it involves getting divorced..

    Wow...To respond to a few things, and give a little background about myself here we go....I was saved when i was in Junior High, I believe 8th grade, my wife was also saved I believe around the same time. I lived a decent life until I went off to Florida for College, and i got involved with...
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    My wife has a plan to fix things, but it involves getting divorced..

    That seems like a great idea, but I don't know if she will be willing to do that. This is so painful, I know i can make her happy with me, like things were before all the drama. Back to prayer....
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    My wife has a plan to fix things, but it involves getting divorced..

    I trust my wife completely, and i know she isn't up to anything, we still talk on a daily basis and whatnot. I think she just sees it as a why out from the pain and stress she is going through.
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    Ohioan Thread

    Any of you attend Far Hills Community Church in Montgomery County?? I have been attending there for over two years, and every service I have attended, I have felt like pastor John picked the message for my ears and heart. Check it out if you are in the area, or make a trip one Sunday, it is...
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    My wife has a plan to fix things, but it involves getting divorced..

    She feels that getting a divorce is the only way she can forgive me for my actions. I know that we can work things out, it just seems she has this thought in her head that there is only one way to accomplish what she wants. I have tried to get her to talk to someone at the church, but she seems...
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    I live in my own bed of pain...

    I too am going through a similar situation, maybe we could chat and give one another some support. Pm me if you are wanting to share our problems. And congrats on staying strong, I know first hand what it feels like to ruin a family, and then when you finally wake up and open your eyes to the...
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    My wife has a plan to fix things, but it involves getting divorced..

    please help me out here, anyone.