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Well yes. Perhaps not from scratch. It drew from a range of ideas like Christianity and Enlighenment and the fundemental truth principles of Rule of Law and the freedoms we have come to know.I would change that to the nations identity and culture that it grew from scratch
Its the old end of days indulgence in self-interest that started in the Garden and is once again going global and testing those who claim they love all as self..So I agree national identity is vital. It seems all sorts of different identities are fighting for truth and supremecy.
Everyday, something new and mean stuff is coming from American online. For example that unemployed people drain the system. That's how I understand it from you. Now it's like your dream of a society where everyone works will never happen, a kind of utopia. The reason I'm writing is because my mother worked in a factory for 32 years or something, and got a medal, and my father has worked for about 30 years also in different places, woke up to the same alarm every day for 30 years, yet they are treated degradingly when we are out because they "just" go there.
Its fun to be mean perhaps, I never understand it, but americans have to kinda weirdos to put all this nonsense out there. I'm always treated well because I've sung so much, but I think it's a bit the opposite of what it should be, maybe then, I've learned a lot on my own, worked hard, but I think 30 years in a factory is tougher
nor do I agree that just because the rich does it, doesn't give anyone the right to do it too.
Shoplifting is against the law, and for good reason. And theft is morally wrong.
But if the wealthy are out stealing bags of gold, I'm probably going to be less worried about when a poor mother steals a loaf of bread to feed her kids. Especially if a big reason why her kids are starving and she's poor is because the wealthy are stealing the gold.
We should have the same level of requirements that Norway has. We would be a better nation
legalclarity.org
Individuals from outside the EU/EEA require a residence permit to live and work in Norway for more than 90 days. Several permit categories exist, each with specific eligibility criteria. Work permits are common for skilled workers with a job offer from a Norwegian employer. The job offer must align with the applicant’s qualifications, such as vocational training of at least three years or a university degree.
For those seeking to establish a business, a self-employment visa is an option. This permit requires the applicant to be a skilled worker with relevant qualifications and to present a viable business plan. The business must demonstrate the likelihood of generating an annual income of at least NOK 325,400 before tax, as of May 2025.
But I can't help but wonder... at what point do I have the right to tell that mother that feeding her children is wrong? That seems like an incredibly presumptuous thing for me to do... to assume that I have the right to judge the actions of someone who's shoes I've never walked in. Perhaps God has that right, but I'm not God.
If there's one thing that I can be sure of, it's my ignorance. So whether it's a mother shoplifting bread to feed her children, or a crackhead shoplifting iPhones to feed his habit, I always try to keep in mind that while I may be able to judge what's legal, I'll never be certain about just how good I am at judging what's moral.
So no, I'm not going to condemn a mother who resorts to theft in order to make sure her kids don't starve.
But yes, I am going to condemn the act of a rich person stealing gold and making life worse for the poor mother.
FYI, I seem to be having problems posting at the moment, so I'm going to try to keep this short and hope that it works.
Although I sincerely admire your compassion when it comes to the mother, I have to disagree with you somewhat when it comes to the rich man, because I don't condemn him either. Each of us is destined to live our lives under circumstances that are ours and ours alone, and it isn't for me to say that I'm somehow better than anyone else... because I'm not anyone else. I'm a weak, pathetic human being who just happens to prefer to live my life in the least confrontational way possible, and with an empathy that's barely above nonexistent. Yes, I know that we humans are supposed to hold ourselves to some higher moral standard, but my moral standard begins with the fact that I'm not you, and I'm not God.
Thankfully I'm trying to keep this short in the hopes that it'll post. Otherwise my grasp on sanity would no doubt become extremely questionable.
When does this simply become apathy? If I see someone murder your loved ones, do I say "Well, I'm not better than that murderer" and then just pretend like that's okay?
There's "Do not judge" and then there's moral apathy.
I'm sorry that it's taken me so long to respond to your post. I saw it not long after you posted it, and I wanted so badly to respond to it because it's exactly the type of thing that I would wonder about... and probably did for quite some time. But my day has been rather hectic and I just couldn't find the time. So now I'm staying up late to answer it, which means that my response might not be as clear or as eloquent as your question deserves. But here goes.
When we're young we're often overcome by the cruelty of the world. When we see a lion kill a baby gazelle, or a crocodile slowly drown a zebra, we have this overwhelming desire to want to do something, but we can't. That's empathy, and I would never want anyone to lose one iota of that.
But then inevitably someone older and wiser than us will point out that that's just a lion being a lion. He's struggling just as hard to survive as the gazelle is. In our naive eyes he's the villain, but he's only doing what we're all doing... trying to survive. When we're young it's easy to have empathy for the gazelle, and it's only as we get older that we learn to have empathy for the lion.
My point is, that having empathy for the lion doesn't negate our empathy for the gazelle. It doesn't make the cruelty go away... and it doesn't make the senselessness of the suffering go away. It only serves to temper the outrage with compassion.
It isn't that we're not to judge. It's simply that we're meant to do so with humility... for if we who haven't walked in their shoes somehow think that we're better than them it's only because of the grace of God, and the mercy we deserve is only as great as the mercy we give.
Right. Not circle of life but simple self-serving greed.