Really? That is what you are going with?
		
		
	 
I’m not the one who said it, love
	
		
	
	
		
		
			Maybe the Tesla people should sell the Tesla and buy themselves a 12 year old car. Now they match you and are living within their means.
		
		
	 
Super judgy comment on your part that makes a lot of assumptions. Maybe their car is paid off, so trading it in so that they can better cosplay as a broke person makes you feel better, but should people be making financial decisions on the performance of poverty you expect of them? Maybe it was gifted to them and they have no payments. Maybe you’re the one making the bad financial choice to pay interest on a loan on a depreciating asset and they’re the smart ones who’ve made better vehicle choices than you. Maybe you’re telling on yourself with your bad car buying habits and projecting it on them.
	
		
	
	
		
		
			Dawn on me? Maybe it should dawn on you that more people than you think are in fact gaming the system. There are two sides to the argument but you just want to dress me down to support ONLY your side.
Lol or maybe they are gaming the system?
Sure, you can believe that.
		
		
	 
So your default is people are gaming the system, so those who aren’t should not be fed right along with them, because you saw a news article and determined too many of the cars were too nice.
Would you have felt better if the showed up like Dickens-era beggars, with rags and tin cans? 
	
		
	
	
		
		
			There are no zip cars in Houston.
		
		
	 
30 seconds and I can see you’re wrong. So it seems like you’re not quite the know-it-all you purport to be on cars.
		
		
	
	
	
		
	
	
		
		
			Gnashing my teeth? Drama much?
You can believe that. Or maybe they own them by selling their benefits? Or maybe they are drug dealers using the car as a crack rental? Or maybe the car is stolen?
		
		
	 
So your fundamental belief is that people are bad. Anybody who you look at and judge to not look poor is a lying, system-gaming, car-stealing, crack dealer.
Again, you’re announcing your bias, not much else. 
	
		
	
	
		
		
			Doubt that. When you have no money to eat you have to make it work. Been there done that. There is always public transportation which is much cheaper and there are programs to help the poor pay for it.
		
		
	 
You doubt it. Why? Because looking at a car you can determine with a certainty better than the officials that examine their finances if they deserve benefits? Public transportation is not universal, and in a car pickup line for food, so you really think there is a bus, train, subway, or trolly that will wait in line so they can access it, then help them hoof it back to their doorstep?
	
		
	
	
Well, I can because having extensively worked with people in these situations, I’ve seen it. So far we’ve established your information base is “no they aren’t,” “they’re criminals, probably,” “they don’t look poor so they don’t need it,” and “yeah right.”
	
		
	
	
		
		
			And? Can they afford it? Can they eat while owning it? What did they do before the Teslas came out?
		
		
	 
Before Teslas came out, they didn’t drive, actually. Or hold a job. And collected benefits. Then they got a Tesla, a job, and off benefits. Before that, they were one of those people collecting food pantry food while not looking suitably broke enough for you. Or they were taken by a family member, also in a car that didn’t look suitably poor enough for you. 
	
		
	
	
Then you have zero idea of what you’re talking about.
	
		
	
	
You clearly don’t if you’ve not had to apply for any, nor had direct family members under your care who had to. You just know what you’re told from people who want you angry, not informed.
	
		
	
	
		
		
			Are you using your random left leaning pro social behavior belief to justify that every one just needs a handout regardless of actual need? There are a plethora of programs to teach people skills that will allow them to earn a living. Like the saying goes, feed them a meal and you feed them once, teach them how to fish and they will feed themselves forever.
		
		
	 
No, actually, I’m using the benefit of the experiences I gained during my 780 hours working a homeless shelter last year, and the 646.27 hours I’ve spent this year. I’m relying on the knowledge I had when I helped in a food pantry when a major employer in our town suddenly closed. The situations I saw while handing out over 500 loaves of bread I made this year, the letters I’ve gotten in my mailbox from people who are in need who got the loaves. The stories I’ve heard pairing people in need with services via volunteer weekends at church. 
Every Monday, Thursday, and Saturday after Nov first you can find me handing out bags of food to the temporary shelter residents who leave the shelter at 8a just to get back in line to get in that night. 
You yourself are closer to needing food stamps than being part of the 1%. I don’t forget that because I know most of us are 3 paychecks or less, one medical crisis, one disaster away from ruin. I don’t mistake my hard work and luck as me being better than those who have less than I do.
	
		
	
	
		
		
			Great to hear.
Facebook is someone’s opinion who is just as wrong as you. You decided to attack me because I think differently as you but you missed the fact that I stated in my earlier post that I have NO problems feeding the needy. I have NO problems funding programs that help the needy. I am in favor of the government using the emergency money to continue the food stamps program. I stated the efforts of my church, where I’m a deacon and very much involved, of keeping a food pantry opened seven days a week. But instead you assume that I am a heartless person that you can speak down to.
		
		
	 
Pointing out you’re making assumptions, being judgmental, and maligning a swath of Americans as cheaters, frauds, and criminals is not a personal attack. If you feel shame over hearing how your words sound, that’s a sign that you need to examine your views, not that people should not question you over viewpoints because it feels mean to answer for them.
I find it suuuuuper interesting that as a deacon who helps in a food pantry that your malign the people who come to your door seeking help. I wonder if a print off of your comments landed on the front door with your name on it if they’d feel safe getting food, or that your space is a safe one, or that you’re in a position to have spiritual leadership. In any church I was in, somebody speaking like that would get them in serious trouble as it so flies so blatantly in the face of Biblical directives. 
	
		
	
	
		
		
			Well, you might want to look at yourself in the mirror before judging others. When is the last time you worked at a food bank or food kitchen?
		
		
	 
Physically worked? Not in a long time; I have Crohn’s disease and working a large kitchen line with others who rely on me for service is rough. I need bathroom access. I make my food at home or work and bring it where it needs to go.
That all being said, I used the Instacart donation service last night to send $200 to an underserved pantry in my region, tipping the driver 30%. Last night, I added fresh-baked bread, crackers, cookies and box mixes that use only water to make to the little free library in my front yard. Today, only 2 loaves were left, so I am thawing more, and I added cinnamon rolls, homemade meal replacement cookies, two flats of water, and some crackers. 
That’s on top of the donation (soup, bread) I took to the children’s hospital house I took last night. It’s my standing routine to run some meals up there using food I was able to score cheap, or food leftover from work that isn’t enough to use but can’t be donated as-is, or food close-to-date I can bake and send off. I also realized people at the ICU at my hospital are too far from food to leave and get it so I asked permission to leave a crockpot up there or, barring that, a fridge and microwave. Stay tuned.
	
		
	
	
		
		
			When is the last time you volunteered to take care of the homeless?
		
		
	 
Specifically? Thursday, from 1ish until 3ish. I made 12 chicken pot pies. Next time I’m back? Tuesday, probably 7am to do a quick dropoff. Then I’ll make and assemble meal kits (15) with breakfast, lunch, dinner, and snacks to hand out to the people in line waiting for it open. This week it’s focaccia BLTs, meal replacer cookies, oatmeal apple bars, sourdough cookies, muffins, and biscuits with cheese, two bottles of water, and one propel powder. Then I’ll be back Thursday. So far, I’m at 645ish hours. Hoping to beat what I did last year. I’m hoping to make 1k loaves of bread, but will probably cap off at 800. I’m at almost 3,000 cookies, though. I’ll clear 5k cookies this year. I don’t know how many muffins. 
I also do rando pizza nights in my front yard, open to the public. I have the dough, sauce, cheese, and Ooni I use to bake it off, BYO toppings. I have one this week. 
	
		
	
	
		
		
			When is the last time you made a donation to a charity?
		
		
	 
Does the Instacart count? If so, yesterday, $200. If not, $100 on the first to an organization I’m not allowed to mention. If that doesn’t count, $100 to our local MOW on 11/1. Those are just my standing first of the month donations. I make other donations as needed, but actually prefer to make/donate goods, and save my money for over-tipping service industry people and cash-gifting people during the holidays for services. Having worked in the service industry, I feel like it is more effective to give directly to people. Though for fun, I do hide gift cards in my little free library and front yard. 
So, I feel comfortable saying that I do my part, and I do so without auditing if they are engaging in suitable performative poverty before getting it. Having been comfortable, broke, broker than that, ok, broke, comfortable, ok, and comfortable again, I know that not everybody who has need looks like they do. Frankly, some of them who need it most look better than those who look far worse.