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Years of severe depression

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Please don’t give up. You go on the mental health sites and you find people who have given up. Just buried in their own stuff. You may not see the point but at least you have a fighting chance now. You work, you play, you are accomplishing, you must be above water. So why incur even more loss of what you have built up over the years.

and Jesus what’s he gonna say at the end of your life. Ask for strength. Sure it’s hard. We are all carrying something.
 
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I don't know what to do anymore. I pray and work so hard, and it just gets worse, despite medication. I'm at the point of giving up on everything. What's the point of being depressed every day?
I am sorry to hear this, man. I struggle, as well. A few things that have helped me, a bit...
  • More home-cooked, natural food
  • Less sugar
  • Cutting out social media
  • More time in nature
  • Going for walks
  • Spending time in prayer first thing in the morning / having a simple prayer rule
  • Stopped watching the news
Take it one day at a time, and see if journaling is helpful, too. You're not alone and there are many Christians who struggle with depression. Find small things that give you joy and make things lighter. Identify the things that cause sadness or anxiety, and take the steps available to lessen those things. And go easy on yourself, too.
 
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I don't know what to do anymore. I pray and work so hard, and it just gets worse, despite medication. I'm at the point of giving up on everything. What's the point of being depressed every day?
Go and do good to others instead of focusing on yourself.
 
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If all you are able to do is pray for yourself & others, do that. Think of the Lord’s commandments ( Matthew 22:36-40) & the Lord’s Prayer ( Matthew 6:9-13). Put 1 Timothy 2:1-6 in this context & trust in the Lord ( see John 16:33).
 
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Gracious Heavenly Father and Lord Jesus,
Please help this one to stop being angry at himself, and to find meaning in his life. I pray for wisdom for the doctors who are treating him, that they might help him overcome his sense of meaninglessness. Help him to do things that are pleasing to You, that he might find meaning and joy again.
In Christ's Name,
Amen
 
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I pray that God would strengthen you not to give up and that God would take away all the depression you are experiencing and give you a stable state of mind. In Jesus' name, amen.
 
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