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Disclaimer: I count myself blessed to know a great number of reasonable, kind, compassionate people on the political left, people who unequivocally condemned the assassination of Charlie Kirk and who are consistent in their standards. This article is not about them. It’s directed toward the others.
During my first marriage, after a violent fight when my narcissistic ex headbutted me and hurled misogynistic slurs, he sent me an “apology” email.
It began: “I’m sorry I let you make me so angry.”
What followed wasn’t repentance. It was a list of demands: lose weight, dress hotter, and meet his terms. I was the one bleeding and humiliated, and yet he positioned himself as the victim.
That was the moment I realized: no relationship can heal if one side refuses to confront its own sins.
That’s exactly how I feel about my relationship with progressives in this country right now.
I’ve spent the last week grasping for words to articulate the seismic shift so many of us have felt in the wake of Charlie Kirk’s execution. It’s not an exaggeration to say it feels as if the ground itself has shifted beneath us. I’ve been stunned by how deeply it has pierced me — especially since I didn’t even agree with him on every position or priority. But here’s the truth: agreement was never the point.
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During my first marriage, after a violent fight when my narcissistic ex headbutted me and hurled misogynistic slurs, he sent me an “apology” email.
It began: “I’m sorry I let you make me so angry.”
What followed wasn’t repentance. It was a list of demands: lose weight, dress hotter, and meet his terms. I was the one bleeding and humiliated, and yet he positioned himself as the victim.
That was the moment I realized: no relationship can heal if one side refuses to confront its own sins.
That’s exactly how I feel about my relationship with progressives in this country right now.
I’ve spent the last week grasping for words to articulate the seismic shift so many of us have felt in the wake of Charlie Kirk’s execution. It’s not an exaggeration to say it feels as if the ground itself has shifted beneath us. I’ve been stunned by how deeply it has pierced me — especially since I didn’t even agree with him on every position or priority. But here’s the truth: agreement was never the point.
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Dear progressives, it's your turn to apologize
His death feels like more than a personal loss or even a political blow
