On the topic of suffering...

[david p]

Suffering .. what is it and how does one get into it and how does one get out of it if in it?

There is a practice called sadomasochism.

One prefers to inflict and the other prefers to be inflicted.

But how is one who does not partake of this become involved in this sort of inflict/inflicted?

DSM-5 302.83(F65.51)​

Sexual Masochism Disorder DSM-5 302.83(F65.51) - Therapedia


Milder forms of masochism between consenting adults, sometimes also referred to as "BDSM" or dominant and submissive, are not classified as disorders by the DSM-5. Diagnosis occurs when certain criteria are met.


If the patient is not experiencing anxiety, guilt, shame or other negative feelings related to masochistic sexual desires, it I considered a sexual interest, not a disorder.


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What are your own feelings towards knowing that there are others in the area that do have these practices in their private lives?

Affected or not?


But suffering asks for an outside helper to help the sufferer leave/depart out of the suffering circumstance.

So it shouldn't be too difficult for proper authorized persons to assist with the requester's/requestor's request.

So why then is there a non helped sufferer if that person is not self involved with masochism or bondage?


So with business practices .. can an upper management person also need to be affected by those who have these disorders/interests?


What is, what are the guidelines for private sexual engagements that are considered non detrimental to others not directly involved with/and/or needing to be within some parameters of health, as in a healthy corporation.


... To enjoy inflicting upon another
And
.... To enjoy being inflicted upon
But even if not within a sexual arousal or interest.

Obsessive-compulsive personality disorder​

• Focuses too much on details, orderliness and rules.
• Is not flexible about morality, ethics or values.

Obsessive-compulsive personality disorder is not the same as obsessive-compulsive disorder, which is an anxiety disorder.

Personality disorders - Symptoms and causes


In other words can Church fall into the above category if not being compliant with others' personal lifestyles?

But is Church supposed to be a sort of foundation and standard?

Can a home fall if the set foundation or standard is altered without proper agreement to/with the home?


Is the U.S. upon certain foundations and standards?

Is sadomasochism, is BDSM, is obsessive compulsive personality, within U.S. foundations and standards?

Obsessive-compulsive personality disorder​

• Focuses too much on details, orderliness and rules.
• Thinks everything needs to be perfect and gets upset when perfection is not achieved.
• Cannot finish a project because reaching perfection is not possible.
• Needs to be in control of people, tasks and situations.
• Cannot assign tasks to others.
• Ignores friends and enjoyable activities because of too much focus on work or a project.
• Cannot throw away broken or worthless objects.
• Is rigid and stubborn.
• Is not flexible about morality, ethics or values.
• Holds very tight control over budgeting and spending money.

What happened when farm work was altered into factory work?


Requestor or Requester? Which is correct? - One Minute English


How have requestors been neglected towards/with concern towards world wide concerns?


Catastrophic 73% decline in the average size of global wildlife populations in just 50 years reveals a ‘system in peril’


But can a Church help in anyway to a world wide need?

Maybe not to the world wide but maybe to their own home/Church?

But where does the direction modification(s) come from? ESPECIALLY, if not having home/Church to be a requester nor requestor with-in?

Hmm.. within a home.. would I be able to keep myself within a home which might...[be]...

• Focuses too much on details, orderliness and rules.
• Thinks everything needs to be perfect and gets upset when perfection is not achieved.
• Cannot finish a project because reaching perfection is not possible.
• Needs to be in control of people, tasks and situations.
• Cannot assign tasks to others.
• Ignores friends and enjoyable activities because of too much focus on work or a project.
• Cannot throw away broken or worthless objects.
• Is rigid and stubborn.
• Is not flexible about morality, ethics or values.
• Holds very tight control over budgeting and spending money.

without needing to become a sufferer?

Because if as a non home, or even a home, owner adult, these, if believed upon, would lead me into a personality disodered category, would I be able to enter into another home which might have these within without having myself need to suffer because of association?


Okay

Yet still. The suffering. How does one get into, get out of; suffering; respectively without fornication being a factor. But not implying that fornication is acceptable.

Okay . still missing the mark...

How does one get into a circumstance that another suffers in and without having knowledge of how to get out of...

Or should I learn how to be accepting with being inflicted?


What, or rather, Who is perfect?
Mark 10:18 in reference


We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union,...

https://constitution.congress.gov/constitution/preamble/


Okay . while in a circumstance of missing the mark...

Why is Church not fixing its own missing/errors? But while attempting to remain in a more perfect union?


So either church needs to fix its errors or the preamble needs to be amended because permission to inflict upon another has not been granted. This way the inflicted would have that possibility and opportunity of moving out of suffering. And such were the States before the central banking system and the need for Country wide changes to individual States' monetary ways.

So again.. the 1912 presidential election with the U.S ' very first constitutional ineligible elected President. What happened in 1913 was under a constitutionally ineligible President and onward.


World War I: Summary, Causes & Facts | HISTORY


Federal Reserve Act - Wikipedia

Can a Church or can a home fix world wide concerns? Maybe not but they can change their own Church or their own home.

For those without a Church and without a home, I hope they are given the possibility of leaving/departing out of evil and suffering. A free choice would be allowed.

Some don't mind being under bondage but not all don't mind..


Genesis 1:1 (KJV)

 

[david p]

As I entered into a local convenience store I saw a male that I had seen earlier in the week. His face seemed a bit battered. And when I left the store I asked if he was doing okay.

I recognized that the redness on his face was sun produced..

'I'm doing okay', he replied. 'You, are you okay today', he asked back.

'its the same everyday', I responded.

'Okay, son', he farewelled.

So.. I'm thinking of how I'm going in for my new job tomorrow. I have to get this and that ordered, I have to have these and that prepared .

But I get a call earlier today telling me to 'take' tomorrow and the next day off due to hour cuts...

It's the same everyday...



I get to look at a vacant studio unit that I was going to be able to afford. And with the help of a local rapid rehousing assistance funded program being able to regroup and regain didn't seem out of reach.

Just as hope began to be seen again I get a text. 'sorry. Funding ran out. Don't know when the next will come in. We won't be able to assist'.



A few months ago I get hired for a local fast food eatery. I get a letter inviting me to invest in their corporation. Yum yum. Sounds treaty but couldn't right then.

A week passes and no call or info on the app of my first day. I think I peeved the assistant for asking more than once about the start day... 'I'll let you know when', she reprimanded. Still a week and a half, an investing letter invitation and still no information of when I should 'get to work'.

I had to retract my application.

 

[david p]

Genesis 1:1 (KJV)

Galatians 4:21-26
"Tell me, ye that desire to be under the law, do ye not hear the law? For it is written, that Abraham had two sons, the one by a bondmaid, the other by a freewoman. But he who was of the bondwoman was born after the flesh; but he of the freewoman was by promise. Which things are an allegory: for these are the two covenants; the one from the mount Sinai, which gendereth to bondage, which is Agar. For this Agar is mount Sinai in Arabia, and answereth to Jerusalem which now is, and is in bondage with her children. But (J)erusalem which is above is free, which is the mother of us all."



To the house churches which are in Galatia...


ekklésia: Church, assembly, congregation
Original Word: ἐκκλησία
Part of Speech: Noun, Feminine
Transliteration: ekklésia
Pronunciation: ek-klay-see'-ah
Phonetic Spelling: (ek-klay-see'-ah)
KJV: assembly, church
NASB: church, churches, assembly, congregation
Word Origin: [from a compound of G1537 (ἐκ - among) and a derivative of G2564 (καλέω - called)]

1. (properly) a "calling out"
2. (concretely) a called out assembly of citizens
3. (specifically, of Christ) the community of the Redeemed of Christ whether being on earth or in heaven or both
{used only of people, not a location, structure, etc. Of Christ, used only of the Redeemed, not of the unredeemed in their midst}


Galatians 1:2 "And all the brethren which are with me, unto the churches of Galatia:"


Tell me, ye that desire to be under the law, do ye not hear the law?
For it is written, that Abraham had two sons,
the one by a bondmaid, the other by a freewoman.
But he who was of the bondwoman was born after the flesh;
but he of the freewoman was by promise.

Which things are an allegory:
for these are the two covenants;
the one from the mount Sinai,
which gendereth to bondage,
which is Agar.
For this Agar is mount Sinai in Arabia,
and answereth to
(J)erusalem
which now is,
and is in bondage
with her children.
But (J)erusalem
which is above is free,
which is the mother of us all.


So if Abraham was not a faithful one person husband but had children through other wives while being married to the 'freewoman', what saith the 'Law' of free and being in bonds? And this to those gathering in Galatia...

What wouldn't be kept under a certain kind of 'standard', or 'bond', as far as 'free and bonded' be if there was, if there were no standards of sexual intercourse?


But.....
"Tell me, ye that desire to be under the law, do ye not hear the law? " ????


What is he trying to relay? To be free sexual humans?


So what else does this sort of 'law' apply to?

There were 30 humans in a room trying to accomplish their 'work'... But each was needing to accomplish their 'own work' which they were working on... Not all shared in the same 'task' needing to be accomplished.

Without a certain kind of 'law' though, being 'free', not all respected each others' space which was needed to work within/around. But these 'free persons' seemed to not mind/not care that they were violating another's personal space within which the individual needed/sought to finish a task/work...


Who, from where cometh such persons, and more than only 1?


Do these really co-mingle?

Well, what is occurring with the sex education for 4th graders?


Tell me, ye that desire to be under the law, do ye not hear the law? - Galatians 4:21

Does 4th grade sex education not affect suffering?


Why would current Christians find this verse something to excuse with rather than to instill with?


yourteenmag.com/teenager-school/school-grade



A paraphilia is intense and persistent sexual arousal or attraction to anything not sexual by nature.[3][4] It has also been defined as a sexual interest in anything other than a legally consenting human partner.[5][6] Paraphilias are contrasted with normophilic ("normal") sexual interests,[7][8] although the definition of what makes a sexual interest normal or atypical remains controversial.

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paraphilia


Example:

Anililagnia

Attraction by young men to older women.[14

List of paraphilias - Wikipedia


Example:

Hebephilia

Children in early adolescence

Different from

Pedophilia

Preadolescent children; also spelled paedophilia.[2][6

Pictophilia

Pornography or erotic art, particularly pictures.[4][19

Zoophilia	Non-human animals.[2][4][19]
Zoosadism	Inflicting pain on animals, or seeing animals in pain.[82

How would a person with a paraphilia affect another without a paraphilia if they were both in the same contained space?

How would a convicted legal offender affect a non convicted legal offender if they were both in the same contained space?

So there really isn't any difference regarding 'discrimination' of a non paraphiliac or a non convicted legal offender if both were to have similar emotions... etc.... But should business owners not be allowed to discriminate as to who and who is not allowed in their place of business? Does a business NOT have a right to choose upon 'suffering'? These are within the 'norm' spectrum of lives, per se.. Those that might have suits and ties, or at least knows another who might, rather than those who don't associate too much with suits and ties.

How do these persons who do not associate too much with/around the suit and tie lifes deal with having 'offenders' or 'paraphilias' around them; within their own personal space?

A mechanic shop..
A private business which is within a community wherein suit and tie lifestyle is within the 'minority' numbers...
A sport training camp or environment..
A park where the majority is non suit and tie related; even in distance relations.

etc....


Yet all these being 'norm'; of that environment.


So then the 'norms' depend upon the surrounding lifes.. Both in business and in public.

The excuse that certain types of persons are 'everywhere' cannot be used towards the 'norms' of a place wherein the majority is not of that 'certain type' of persons.

Example: The Castro in S.F. has a majority LGBT percentage. The norm there might be LGBT who have come 'out of the closet'. It might not be 'norm' if a LGBT in The Castro was not out of the closet...
... or something like that.

But would/could/should that 'non out' LGBT expect to be treated the same as another who was 'out'? How comfortable might an 'out' LGBT be with being friendly, being hospitable, being inviting, towards/with a non out LGBT in that same community?


Do these actually 'matter' or are they pure self produced over exaggeration?


The excuse that certain types of persons are 'everywhere' cannot be used towards the 'norms' of a place wherein the majority is not of that 'certain type' of persons.


A 'white' community cannot be assumed to be the same as an 'asian' community, for example...

a 'latin' community and a 'hispanic' community are not the same either.

The latin community in N.Y. does not always have an association with cinco de mayo even if they are of 'mexican' heritage. But if he or she was to go into a hispanic community, probability of cinco de mayo being celebrated differently would be more likely.


So how many groups of different/opposite of - practices might there be in a supposed free country as the U.S.? Church-satanism, hetero-homo, citizen-non citizen, etc....


But a more excellent way...
1 Corinthians 13:
"Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal. And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing. And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing.

Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things."

heautou: himself, herself, itself, themselves
Original Word: ἑαυτοῦ
Part of Speech: Reflexive Pronoun
Transliteration: heautou
Pronunciation: heh-ow-TOO
Phonetic Spelling: (heh-ow-too')
KJV: alone, her (own, -self), (he) himself, his (own), itself, one (to) another, our (thine) own(-selves), + that she had, their (own, own selves), (of) them(-selves), they, thyself, you, your (own, own conceits, own selves, -selves)
NASB: himself, own, themselves, yourselves, ourselves, one another, itself
Word Origin: [from a reflexive pronoun otherwise obsolete and the genitive case (dative case or accusative case) of G846 (αὐτός - himself)]

1. self (selves)
{him- (her-, it-, them-, also (in conjunction with the personal pronoun of the other persons) my-, thy-, our-, your-) , etc.}

What to do with no paycheck to look forward to to help with daily needs?



Do those 'opposite of' lifestyle(s) come with initiation requirements?

Are there requirements for church, satanism; for hetero, homo; citizen, non citizen; association?

 

[david p]

And so a question to health providers .

How much time would you assume it would require for a daily hallucinations believer who associated with hallucinations for 6 months to get back to a non hallucinating lifestyle?

And can hallucinations be induced without the usage of hallucinogenic drugs?


And a question for members of church..

If a dog returns to his vomit and a sow to his sod, how likely a non repenting recoverer?

2 Peter 2:2 "But it is happened unto them according to the true proverb, The dog is turned to his own vomit again; and the sow that was washed to her wallowing in the mire."


But seeing how certain interests are not always a disorder, such as dishonesty, of which if habitual and affecting others can be a disorder, how long of a time before that person returns to an honest way of daily living? A long time practicing thief, for example.



www.medicinenet.com/pathological_liar_vs_a_compulsive_liar/article.htm


So there is a benefit for not leaving far away from home and morals and honesty and a benefit for receiving Godly help to regain.


Which moves on to the next topic..

Matthew 5:13-16 "Ye are the salt of the earth: but if the salt have lost his savour, wherewith shall it be salted? it is thenceforth good for nothing, but to be cast out, and to be trodden under foot of men."

Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid. Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house."


Okay. But if entering into another city or town...
Matthew 10:11 "And into whatsoever city or town ye shall enter, inquire who in it is worthy; and there abide till ye go thence."


Okay.. so salt, light.. of the city/town... And when entering into another city or town, asking, inquiring who within is worthy...

Who was He addressing?

So who in your city is considered worthy to be trusted, to have time spent with, to be respected, to be cared for, etc.. ?

Those who have homes, families, responsibilities .. etc...

These are the salt, the light of that city.
He is referring to those by whom that city/town receives the tribute monies, taxes from.

Why would tax payers choose to have their own town/city in danger?

Then He's saying .
:16 "Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven."

to whom, again?

The salt, the light of that town/city

Safety is a good thing.


And what might that town/city be altered to if those salts and lights began to work and do unrighteousness?

They might need to lower that town/city standards of family, work, friends. etc...

And if the salts and the lights aren't seeking to pull each other down, who might be?




Hmm.. within a home.. would I be able to keep myself within a home which might...[be]...

• Focuses too much on details, orderliness and rules.
• Thinks everything needs to be perfect and gets upset when perfection is not achieved.
• Cannot finish a project in the home because reaching perfection is not possible because maintaining/maintenance is too difficult or not worth it. (Daily toilet scrubbing? Maybe ocd if on a daily basis?)
• Needs to be in control of people, tasks and situations.
• Cannot assign tasks to others/strangers.
• Ignores friends and enjoyable activities because of too much focus on work or a project.
• Cannot throw away broken or worthless objects because fixing them was not learned.
• Is rigid and stubborn.
• Is not flexible about morality, ethics or values.
• Holds very tight control over budgeting and spending money.

without needing to become a sufferer?
Because aren't these the salts, the lights? The worthies?

 

[david p]

A 'white' community cannot be assumed to be the same as an 'asian' community, for example...

a 'latin' community and a 'hispanic' community are not the same either.

The latin community in N.Y. does not always have an association with cinco de mayo even if they are of 'mexican' heritage. But if he or she was to go into a hispanic community, probability of cinco de mayo being celebrated differently would be more likely.


A Christian lifestyle is not the same as a secular lifestyle

But why?

Because secular does not include a standard of rightful profets/its.

What is the standard profit mark up for a good being sold? In secularism these profit mark ups go unresisted.

Ex: why can't a consumer choose which operating system they can have pre installed on a laptop?

What else?

Why has the shower heads been regulated to a certain pressure?

Why does Google with its executives and directors find the need to map and give an emotional definition key to every square mile?

 

[david p]

Galatians 4:21-26
"Tell me, ye that desire to be under the law, do ye not hear the law? For it is written, that Abraham had two sons, the one by a bondmaid, the other by a freewoman. But he who was of the bondwoman was born after the flesh; but he of the freewoman was by promise. Which things are an allegory: for these are the two covenants; the one from the mount Sinai, which gendereth to bondage, which is Agar. For this Agar is mount Sinai in Arabia, and answereth to Jerusalem which now is, and is in bondage with her children. But (J)erusalem which is above is free, which is the mother of us all."

So does this mean that Arabia finds The Law of God bondage?



newint.org/features/2014/03/01/middle-east-personal-politics



So, does Islam condone what The Law of God forbids?


Quran
chapter 1

1. In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
2. Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
3. The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
4. Master of the Day of Judgment.
5. It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
6. Guide us to the straight path.
7. The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who are misguided.

Quran in English - Clear and Easy to Read.


Surah 1: al-Fatihah – QuranOnline.net

 

[david p]

I had recently purchased a pair of under 50 doll(ar) shoes. Since the year the shoes stores began to dwindle to leave only a few, I've had problems with the shoes.

Regular walking shoes not found in athletic shoes stores but which were found in different stores became difficult to find.

Then if matters weren't already getting worse, Sketchers decide to have memory foam soles as the standard.

I stopped with Sketchers when I was left with no choice.

Sears used to be very nice to have nearby. Mattresses, appliances, glassware, dinnerware, beddings, etc...and shoes.. wide variety with wide sizes and not.

Not soon after, Doctor Martens began with their bouncy soles. The regular ones began to be called the original old doctor Martens.

Strangely though their regular old slip resistant soles began to not adhere to non slipping confidences.

So after emailing them I found out that the old was bought out by a new. The new 'original' tag was referring their new soles.

But when I required a new mattress I had strange popping noises coming up and out of the new mattress frame and set. Somehow though they were physically felt.

Not everyone is into what everyone else is into.

 

[david p]

So although Holy God Almighty isn't established in any Country in entirety as He was in previous times, how can He benefit an individual who is within a more secular Country, per se?

How can He benefit an individual who is more trapped than willing within different circumstances of oppression?

But what is being deemed as oppressive if there are many who enjoy that circumstance?

The lack of common courtesy is a general but very simple example. Within micro and macro environments. Extending common courtesy is not the same as extending common respect; respectively, within their own unique environments. I might not be able to extend the common respect within unique environments but I can extend the common courtesy within that same unique environment in of which I might have not chosen to be within voluntarily and with knowledge.

But foundation laws can be a starting point of what the common courtesy might be if needing to get support from Law more than residents.


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A person called police or assistance. There was a person near enough to be spat upon exercising his free right of speech. But at past midnight the homeless individual felt threatened enough to call the police for lawful support.

What danger is the free right of speech placing upon you, the police asked.

Well, the other responded, at past midnight to exercise free speech which is being received as threatening cannot be assumed to be needing to be received with common courtesy nor common respect, at maybe around noon time, if everyone is trying to not be bothered, the other replied.


Within that unique after midnight environment exercising free speech was not a common courtesy or common respect which could be common in another unique environment after midnight



So if local State and Federal judges are not learned within a polytheistic way(s)' of living, then that judge should not excuse religious freedom as an excuse for practicing their unique religion. It could very well be within a unique religion to sacrifice life; either of animal or human.

It was common for of age males to teach not of age males in early democracy.


en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pederasty_in_ancient_Greece

But to be true to democracy requires differentiating between forced law and common law.


www.merriam-webster.com/grammar/democracy-and-republic



A common or a unique?


en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/1999_Honolulu_shootings

 

[david p]

So although Holy God Almighty isn't established in any Country in entirely as He was in previous times, how can He benefit an individual who is within a more secular Country, per se

So although Holy God Almighty isn't established in any Country in entirety as He was in previous times, how can He benefit an individual who is within a more secular Country, per se?

How can He benefit an individual who is more trapped than willing within different circumstances of oppression?

But what is being deemed as oppressive if there are many who enjoy that circumstance?

The lack of common courtesy is a general but very simple example. Within micro and macro environments. Extending common courtesy is not the same as extending common respect; respectively, within their own unique environments. I might not be able to extend the common respect within unique environments but I can extend the common courtesy within that same unique environment in of which I might have not chosen to be within voluntarily and with knowledge.

But foundation laws can be a starting point of what the common courtesy might be if needing to get support from Law more than residents.


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A person called police or assistance. There was a person near enough to be spat upon exercising his free right of speech. But at past midnight the homeless individual felt threatened enough to call the police for lawful support.

What danger is the free right of speech placing upon you, the police asked.

Well, the other responded, at past midnight to exercise free speech which is being received as threatening cannot be assumed to be needing to be received with common courtesy nor common respect, at maybe around noon time, if everyone is trying to not be bothered, the other replied.


Within that unique after midnight environment exercising free speech was not a common courtesy or common respect which could be common in another unique environment after midnight



So if local State and Federal judges are not learned within a polytheistic way(s)' of living, then that judge should not excuse religious freedom as an excuse for practicing their unique religion. It could very well be within a unique religion to sacrifice life; either of animal or human.

It was common for of age males to teach not of age males in early democracy.


en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pederasty_in_ancient_Greece

But to be true to democracy requires differentiating between forced law and common law.


www.merriam-webster.com/grammar/democracy-and-republic

Common or unique?

Startpage - Private Search Engine. No Tracking. No Search History.

 

[david p]

So if local State and Federal judges are not learned within a polytheistic way(s)' of living, then that judge should not excuse religious freedom as an excuse for practicing their unique religion. It could very well be within a unique religion to sacrifice life; either of animal or human.

Because even Judges have personal religious rights/rites.



And so to love one another statement with the do not judge statement....

Hmm. What about love your family and judge righteously to your family instead?