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I Knew Charlie Kirk. He Was a Man of Intelligence, Charm and Goodness of Heart...

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I first met Charlie Kirk about four years ago when I was in Phoenix for a speaking engagement. He reached out and invited me to breakfast. I was deeply impressed by him that day. He was a man of great intelligence, considerable charm, and real goodness of heart. I reconnected with him just last year, after I saw him debate twenty-five young people who were, to put it mildly, hostile to his views...​


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I didn't know this about Kirk.


The evil that men do lives after them;
The good is oft interred with their bones;
 
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In moments like this, true leadership is not reactive—it is reflective. Here’s how we can respond:

• Pause and honor the human loss. Regardless of one’s stance on his politics, Charlie Kirk was a son, a husband, a colleague, and a leader to many. His death deserves solemnity, not spectacle.

• Reject violence as a form of expression. Leadership is about influence, not intimidation. We must reaffirm that ideas are to be debated, not destroyed.

• Model emotional maturity. Leaders must resist the urge to weaponize tragedy. Instead, we should use it to deepen our commitment to respectful engagement and psychological safety in our communities.

• Create space for healing. Whether you mourn Kirk’s death or wrestle with his legacy, there is room for both grief and growth. Leaders help others hold that complexity.


Psalm 37: 5-11

5 Commit your way to the LORD; trust in him and he will do this:

6 He will make your righteous reward shine like the dawn, your vindication like the noonday sun.

7 Be still before the LORD and wait patiently for him; do not fret when people succeed in their ways, when they carry out their wicked schemes.

8 Refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret—it leads only to evil.

9 For those who are evil will be destroyed, but those who hope in the LORD will inherit the land.

10 A little while, and the wicked will be no more; though you look for them, they will not be found.

11 But the meek will inherit the land and enjoy peace and prosperity.
 
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In moments like this, true leadership is not reactive—it is reflective. Here’s how we can respond:
That makes a lot of sense.

Whether Kirk died as the result of political differences with extremist groups, or merely as the victim of a disturbed kid acting on his own, we can act like Christians and avoid calls for revenge.
 
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