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Thank You God for another day of life with You!! :hug::hug::hug::hug::):):cheer::cheer::cookie::cookie::custard::custard:

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I am sure you'll find him one day, as God has a plan for everybody.
Pray hard & trust.
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Does anyone ant to do Story Proofreading?
Thank you Learning!! [Hugs] :hug::hug::hug::hug::cookie::cookie::custard::custard:
 
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While I wait for my True Love/Soulmate, I will be listening to these beautiful songs by Gwen Stefani. :hug::hug::hug::hug::):):cheer::cheer::cookie::cookie::custard::custard:

Now that I remember, weren't you briefly interested in someone on here? Could that still be an option?
 
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Now that I remember, weren't you briefly interested in someone on here? Could that still be an option?
Yes there was a Man I was interested in from here but he told me he only sees me as his friend. :cookie::cookie::custard::custard:

But I feel happy to know that my Soulmate could still be out there somewhere!! I still believe in True Love!! I am grateful to God Our Creator!! :hug::hug::cheer::cheer::):):cookie::cookie::custard::custard:
 
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Now that I remember, weren't you briefly interested in someone on here? Could that still be an option?

I think it would be good for both. She needs someone gentle and kind and he needs someone who’s loving and understanding who’ll believe in him. But what do I know. ;-)

~bella
 
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Now that I think of it (blame @.Mikha'el.), I’m surprised you haven’t been approached. You’re naive but there’s a genuine want to love, serve and follow. Those are the qualities most men are seeking. If you’ve got that in tow and love the Lord the rest is gravy. That’s the hardest part to find. Whatever you lack you can work on together and that’s part of his job.

I don’t comment often but I read your posts. A lot of men are waiting on miracles when the one they need is in their face. But an honest man knows his weaknesses and when he encounters a woman who offsets that or silences his demons he grabs her.

I have great respect for effort even when it’s misapplied. It tells me a lot about their character and how they handle adversity. You fought for that relationship more than once and that’s an important quantity in a bride. He‘s going to make mistakes. No one’s perfect. And forgiveness is an unsung quality no one mentions as is perseverance.

You can turn a duckling into a swan if you know what you’re doing. But you have to see it first. You’ll be okay. ;-)

~bella
 
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I think it would be good for both. She needs someone gentle and kind and he needs someone who’s loving and understanding who’ll believe in him. But what do I know. ;-)

~bella

You seem to know who this is. I do not other than knowing it ain't me. But I will not ask because it's not my business. It was good that @GodAndChocolateVanilla had the nerve to put herself out there though. I thought she had been too hesitant to say anything. :)
 
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Now that I think of it (blame @.Mikha'el.), I’m surprised you haven’t been approached. You’re naive but there’s a genuine want to love, serve and follow. Those are the qualities most men are seeking. If you’ve got that in tow and love the Lord the rest is gravy. That’s the hardest part to find. Whatever you lack you can work on together and that’s part of his job.

I don’t comment often but I read your posts. A lot of men are waiting on miracles when the one they need is in their face. But an honest man knows his weaknesses and when he encounters a woman who offsets that or silences his demons he grabs her.

I have great respect for effort even when it’s misapplied. It tells me a lot about their character and how they handle adversity. You fought for that relationship more than once and that’s an important quantity in a bride. He‘s going to make mistakes. No one’s perfect. And forgiveness is an unsung quality no one mentions as is perseverance.

You can turn a duckling into a swan if you know what you’re doing. But you have to see it first. You’ll be okay. ;-)

~bella

Actually, I do seem to have found someone on here. This came as a total surprise for she was someone I had befriended out of concern for her. I do worry the distance could just be too much for either of us to overcome though, and that is a source of great frustration. :(
 
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You seem to know who this is. I do not other than knowing it ain't me. But I will not ask because it's not my business. It was good that @GodAndChocolateVanilla had the nerve to put herself out there though. I thought she had been too hesitant to say anything. :)

I have a hunch but I could be wrong. I’d ask why it isn’t you but it’s Shabbat and I’m behaving. You have a way with sensitive souls. ;-)

~bella
 
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Actually, I do seem to have found someone on here. This came as a total surprise for she was someone I had befriended out of concern for her. I do worry the distance could just be too much for either of us to overcome though, and that is a source of great frustration. :(

See, I spoke too soon. But I wasn’t completely off base. You don’t have to have all the answers or figure things out right now. Distance can be overcome by quality time. It’s not about the length or frequency. It’s the constancy that makes a difference. You’ve shown a lot of patience and concern for many which is a precursor for love and a mark of empathy and attentiveness which women need.

Spend time in prayer together. Make it a ritual of sorts. It will help you weather the distance and strengthen the bond. I hope it goes well. :)

~bella
 
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Now that I think of it (blame @.Mikha'el.), I’m surprised you haven’t been approached. You’re naive but there’s a genuine want to love, serve and follow. Those are the qualities most men are seeking. If you’ve got that in tow and love the Lord the rest is gravy. That’s the hardest part to find. Whatever you lack you can work on together and that’s part of his job.

I don’t comment often but I read your posts. A lot of men are waiting on miracles when the one they need is in their face. But an honest man knows his weaknesses and when he encounters a woman who offsets that or silences his demons he grabs her.

I have great respect for effort even when it’s misapplied. It tells me a lot about their character and how they handle adversity. You fought for that relationship more than once and that’s an important quantity in a bride. He‘s going to make mistakes. No one’s perfect. And forgiveness is an unsung quality no one mentions as is perseverance.

You can turn a duckling into a swan if you know what you’re doing. But you have to see it first. You’ll be okay. ;-)

~bella
Thank you so much bella. [Hugs] :hug::hug::hug::hug::):):cookie::cookie::custard::custard:
 
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They say opposites attract. I wonder how true that really is? ^w^ =3

Based on my experiences, I want someone similar to me. After what has happened the past 5 years, my future husband and I have to be on the same page.
 
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Thank You God!!!! :hug::hug::hug::hug::cookie::cookie::custard::custard:

I still believe in True Love even though I have not had it happen to me yet, but I know it will be worth the wait!!!! :cookie::cookie::custard::custard::cheer::cheer::hug::hug:

I will continue waiting for the Man that is my true Soulmate from You, God!!!! :hug::hug::cheer::cheer::clap::clap::cookie::cookie::custard::custard:



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Being with the wrong person in Marriage is MISERABLE!!!! :cookie::cookie::custard::custard:

I do not want to be with the wrong Man ever again!!!! :cookie::cookie::custard::custard:

I pray no one has to be with the wrong person ever again!!!! :cheer::cheer::cheer::cheer::pray::pray::pray::pray::clap::clap::cookie::cookie::custard::custard:


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