A child is instinctive. They say what they mean without any consideration for what is appropriate, and they are drawn to what they desire and love.
All this obey, obey, obey, just makes this beautiful love story into some mundane demand that is a real turn off. If that all God can offer me, a demand that I obey him, then i would look elsewhere, but I know that is not it. Anyone that continues to just see obedience over love is stuck in the minor story that was only a temporary measure to show us we cannot obey him without his love alive in our hearts.
I mean seriously, forgive me, but i feel compelled to speak up. It is such a turn off.
I know the Word says obey, but it also says it is an impossible task without his Spirit alive in our hearts and driving us by his love.
That concentration of putting obedience before love does more damage to the gospel message of his immeasurable love for us.
The religious people of Jesus time deceived a lot of people too, and crucified him.