Have you noticed that after Jesus rose from the dead He **appeared first to Mary** and He had her tell the disciples that He was risen?
John and Peter came to the tomb **before** Jesus appeared first to Mary. He could have appeared to them first, but He did not appear to them but to Mary after they had left.
And He told her to tell the disciples that He had risen and she had seen Him, and He had a message to pass on to them . . . for **her** to pass on.
So, if a woman has something to say to me, I listen.
But I may have known a few women who can teach and preach and pastor, but they do not live in Jesus Christ's "rest for your souls" > Jesus guarantees us >
"'Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.'" (Matthew 11:29)
So, I understand that Jesus will give us rest while we do whatever is really His calling for each of us. So, instead of telling a woman that Jesus will or will not call her to preach, I encourage her to submit to Jesus and discover what He has her doing in His rest for her soul - - - I mean, even at each moment, see what Jesus has you doing and this will add up to whatever Jesus really has called you to d

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Jesus ordained His twelve >
"that they might be with Him, and that He might send them out to preach" >
This is in Mark 3:14. So, their basic calling was not to preach, but "that they might be with Him". And if we are with Jesus, I would say we are sharing with Him in His peace. And part of our calling as God's children is to obey God in His peace >
"And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful." (Colossians 3:15)
So, first we are called to be with Jesus and submissive to Him in His own peace. Then discover what He has us doing with Him in His peace, as **His** meaning of whatever He really has called us to do.
I would say I have personally known some number of men and women who have been pastors and they were very controlling of their churches, but not in very good control of their tempers and their eating habits. It is written >
"nor as being lords over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock." (1 Peter 5:3)
"submitting to one another in the fear of God." (Ephesians 5:21)
Both men and women can be what I call "unsubject" . . . incapable of a mutually submissive relationship. They can not be >
"swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath" (in James 1:19)
And such unsubject people . . . men as well as women . . . can be pastors who are very controlling of others, but not in beneficial control of themselves.
Jesus . . . yes . . . has called people to pastor and to preach . . . while being "examples".
Now . . . if I am an example, this includes that I a man be a good example for ladies. And if I am their example, this means I am doing what **they** need to do. This includes how I am humble and gentle and submissive . . . with discernment, of course, so I am not going along with what is wrong and what God is not leading me to do.
And any time I listen to what a lady is saying to me, I am being submissive to her. She is not usurping authority over me, by having me listen to her. She is not **over** me but we are mutually submissive if both of us are being submissive to the Holy Spirit in how we share with each other.
And a lady in marriage has power, authority, over her man's body . . . right? If the wife has authority over her man's body, she has authority "over" him, I would think. 1 Corinthians chapter seven. This is good and rightful authority, not usurping authority "over" him. But there is mutual and sharing and caring intimacy deeper and better than physical pleasure and intimacy; so she is not only using him for pleasure she wants, but she is using authority to do loving good for him.
So . . . like this . . . in ministry which is Christian, there is not distant relating but we are personal with each other, with trusting, even, in God's way of loving. But trust is not blind, but we test and make sure with God about what God knows is "good" >
"Test all things; hold fast what is good." (1 Thessalonians 5:21)