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Will be a month and met up with someone I changed their life around

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Will be a month tomorrow since my boyfriend and I started dating. It has been great and we have a great bond ever since. We both have been through hard times in our lives and he has been the best guy I ever dated. Treats me right and shows it.His family likes me and his daughter is happy we are dating. I changed her life around at age 16 and been getting to know her more as well. My kids whom are 28,24 and 22 see me much happier and also like my boyfriend. They have met his daughter as well and get along. Also met up with another young lady whom is 19 now today, I met her as a troubled teen at age 15. I help out speaking out to troubled teens, I was like them hanging in the wrong crowd. She was in the wrong crowd hanging around people doing drugs and alcohol including having unprotected sex. She did drink and smoke marijuana caught doing it twice including having unprotected sex. Once off stage, encountered me and sat down somewhere to talk. Said she wanted to change her life around and I was proud of her for that. Told her it takes heart and courage to do it, she did and one thing was to repair the relationship with her parents first. I was there for her on that and that went well. Ditched those people and met real friends that make the right choices in life. Two weeks after deciding to change her life around, found out she was pregnant with her now 3 year old son. Took responsibility and been a great mom ever since. I have a couple photos of us together, at her high school graduation last year and at her high school graduation party. I am still proud of her to this day, she is in school to do hair.
 

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Will be a month tomorrow since my boyfriend and I started dating. It has been great and we have a great bond ever since. We both have been through hard times in our lives and he has been the best guy I ever dated. Treats me right and shows it.His family likes me and his daughter is happy we are dating. I changed her life around at age 16 and been getting to know her more as well. My kids whom are 28,24 and 22 see me much happier and also like my boyfriend. They have met his daughter as well and get along. Also met up with another young lady whom is 19 now today, I met her as a troubled teen at age 15. I help out speaking out to troubled teens, I was like them hanging in the wrong crowd. She was in the wrong crowd hanging around people doing drugs and alcohol including having unprotected sex. She did drink and smoke marijuana caught doing it twice including having unprotected sex. Once off stage, encountered me and sat down somewhere to talk. Said she wanted to change her life around and I was proud of her for that. Told her it takes heart and courage to do it, she did and one thing was to repair the relationship with her parents first. I was there for her on that and that went well. Ditched those people and met real friends that make the right choices in life. Two weeks after deciding to change her life around, found out she was pregnant with her now 3 year old son. Took responsibility and been a great mom ever since. I have a couple photos of us together, at her high school graduation last year and at her high school graduation party. I am still proud of her to this day, she is in school to do hair.
Congratulations for finding the right person, and ditching bad influences in your life, and for changing the life of a teenager. :)

Amen to this, God can work wonders in our lives.
 
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I mentor the troubled teens as well and this is my way of giving back. What my late dad did gave me a wake up call at age 16, signed me up for a program for troubled teens to see what prison life is like. It was tough love from him and knew he had to do this after I got a minor in possession ticket. I have been there for her through it all. Her son knows me well too
Congratulations for finding the right person, and ditching bad influences in your life, and for changing the life of a teenager. :)

Amen to this, God can work wonders in our lives.
 
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I mentor the troubled teens as well and this is my way of giving back. What my late dad did gave me a wake up call at age 16, signed me up for a program for troubled teens to see what prison life is like. It was tough love from him and knew he had to do this after I got a minor in possession ticket. I have been there for her through it all. Her son knows me well too
Thank you for helping those in need. We need more people in this world like you.
 
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