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Donald Trump's Story of his Helicopter Ride, is Fiction

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The only reason Trump brought it up at all is that Harris is his opponent. Willie Brown and Harris once were a couple.
Nate Holden was not in a relationship with Harris.

You are beating a dead horse here.
 
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Are we sure Nate Holden didn't say anything negative about Harris?
Was Nate Holden involved with Harris, politically or personally? ( I dk)
The question, and Trump's made up story, was about Willie Brown because of his past involvement with Harris
 
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The only reason Trump brought it up at all is that Harris is his opponent. Willie Brown and Harris once were a couple.
Nate Holden was not in a relationship with Harris.

You are beating a dead horse here.
I thought this being proof that Trump has dementia is the reason why it's such a big deal in the media. Trump just trying to score points against his opponent is pretty bland.
 
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So there's no chance you would ever confuse one person with another?
No, not as they were then. I may or may not recognize them today as they've aged, but who they were and what they looked like at the time, I still vividly remember.
 
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No, not as they were then. I may or may not recognize them today as they've aged, but who they were and what they looked like at the time, I still vividly remember.
What happened, if I may ask many years ago for you? You do not have to state it, if you do not want to.
 
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Was Nate Holden involved with Harris, politically or personally? ( I dk)
The question, and Trump's made up story, was about Willie Brown because of his past involvement with Harris
My question was mainly tongue-in-cheek. Harris' involvement with Brown has been political fodder for years.
 
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No, not as they were then. I may or may not recognize them today as they've aged, but who they were and what they looked like at the time, I still vividly remember.
The question I should have asked is: So there's no chance someone else would ever confuse one person with another they were in a scary situation with decades ago?

When it comes to you personally, you could have a photographic memory for all I know.

But what I do know is there are lots of people who's recollection of a traumatic event can be confused because of the fact that it was a traumatic event.
 
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So then what's the big deal in this particular case?
What would make it a big deal, would be Trump or his supporters acknowledging Trump's lie. He denies and his supporters justify it.
 
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Are we sure Nate Holden didn't say anything negative about Harris?
In 1990, when the helicopter crash happened, Kamala Harris was a junior prosecutor in the Bay area and Nate Holden was a city councilor in LA. There is no reason to believe he even knew she existed at the time.
 
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In 1990, when the helicopter crash happened, Kamala Harris was a junior prosecutor in the Bay area and Nate Holden was a city councilor in LA. There is no reason to believe he even knew she existed at the time.
I should have remembered Poe's Law and added an emoji or two:

"Are we sure Nate Holden didn't say anything negative about Harris? ^_^:p".
 
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What happened, if I may ask many years ago for you? You do not have to state it, if you do not want to.
About three incidents in particular. A couple were military incidents involving Communists guerillas in jungles that made me remember that as an intel guy, I should have been sitting at a desk somewhere. But the earliest was in high school, when when my homies and I from our middle-class 'burb had made the unwise decision of accompanying a girl to a house party in the 'hood...and leaving the party we were surrounded by a bunch of the locals: "Ain't you boys a long way from home?" I think that one was the scariest. But I'll always remember the guys I was with.
 
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The question I should have asked is: So there's no chance someone else would ever confuse one person with another they were in a scary situation with decades ago?

When it comes to you personally, you could have a photographic memory for all I know.

But what I do know is there are lots of people who's recollection of a traumatic event can be confused because of the fact that it was a traumatic event.
If they were with strangers they may not remember those faces. If they were with acquaintances, I'd expect them to remember...unless they were suffering dementia. And even people suffering dementia tend to retain long-term memories better than short-term memories.
 
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About three incidents in particular. A couple were military incidents involving Communists guerillas in jungles that made me remember that as an intel guy, I should have been sitting at a desk somewhere. But the earliest was in high school, when when my homies and I from our middle-class 'burb had made the unwise decision of accompanying a girl to a house party in the 'hood...and leaving the party we were surrounded by a bunch of the locals: "Ain't you boys a long way from home?" I think that one was the scariest. But I'll always remember the guys I was with.
Dang, that sounds scary. I am lucky to not have gone through those events. Which war were you in?
 
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If they were with strangers they may not remember those faces. If they were with acquaintances, I'd expect them to remember...unless they were suffering dementia. And even people suffering dementia tend to retain long-term memories better than short-term memories.
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