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Why is there so much hatred and perverted pornography and over stimulating garbage on the internet ?

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What is "overcome the flesh" and
" carnal nature" ?
It basically means acting like an animal. Having sex with multiple partners. In the Bible marriage was for life. This is best for the kids when the mom and dad stay together and do not divorce. The kids turn out better, they get a better education and a better job and do more to help their parents in their old age. But for some reason people want to divorce and make a mess out of things. The kids have to decide do they want to live with daddy and his new girl friend or mommy and her new husband. Sometimes they feel abandoned like neither parent cares about them.

In the west civilization began in Mesopotamia between the Tigris and Euphrates river. In China The Yellow River Valley, also known as the Huang He Valley, is considered the birthplace of ancient Chinese civilization. The valley is home to northern China's main river and is at the center of thousands of years of Chinese history. The areas around China's second-longest river were also home to the oldest dynasties of ancient China.

As we all know the food in the middle east is different from the food they eat in China. We mostly eat wheat and china mostly eats rice.
 

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It basically means acting like an animal. Having sex with multiple partners. In the Bible marriage was for life. This is best for the kids when the mom and dad stay together and do not divorce. The kids turn out better, they get a better education and a better job and do more to help their parents in their old age. But for some reason people want to divorce and make a mess out of things. The kids have to decide do they want to live with daddy and his new girl friend or mommy and her new husband. Sometimes they feel abandoned like neither parent cares about them.

In the west civilization began in Mesopotamia between the Tigris and Euphrates river. In China The Yellow River Valley, also known as the Huang He Valley, is considered the birthplace of ancient Chinese civilization. The valley is home to northern China's main river and is at the center of thousands of years of Chinese history. The areas around China's second-longest river were also home to the oldest dynasties of ancient China.

As we all know the food in the middle east is different from the food they eat in China. We mostly eat wheat and china mostly eats rice.
I don't know why you'd cut n paste something
totally irrelevant about China as if I don't know it
or about the " fertile creacent" ftm.

But since you mention China. I will add to it
and say we have a far more complex and
sophisticated understanding of human nature
than in Christian teachings- like that God made
us with a bad nature but commands us to be
something else ...which is, frankly, just weird.

"Sex...like animals" doesn't make sense as an Issue either.
We are animals.
Some other animals are quite promiscuous, some mate for life. Way more " moral" than people.
Or dolphins.

Also we are very aware of great differences in human societies. Western society is very mixed up, and.yes, many people don't take marriage seriously. Divorces are messy and often disasterous. That's your collective choice. Not some " flesh" prob.

Other societies deal with human nature in far more humane ways, with far better outcomes.

As anyone with some knowledge of cultures around the world well knows.

Western society × Bible rules ( those few Christians choose to try to follow) doesn't work very well.

That's not the fault of human nature.


And as to the "overcome" part, yes. Agreement!
There is much to " overcome" though we see it as
coontrilling and using human nature , not trying to force it out.

For example
Laziness and industry are ends of a continuum in
human nature. Take control!
We are taught self discipline, putting into practice
the principle of " as twig is bent so the tree is inclined".

If we were to think of failures of self discipline as a
"Sin" it might be summarized as " self indulgence is the father of all evil". Indulging in harmful temptations, knowing its wrong, but doing it anywy!

No priest declaring forgiveness is going to cure the
harm.

Does it not seem weird to you that " god" would make you one way then demand you be something else?
 
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No doubt about it they are working overtime to destroy minds.
Yep, so true. Massive companies, modern Hollywood, internet entertainers. All are in a dark symphony to bring people away from God. We must use discernment.
 

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I don't know why you'd cut n paste something
totally irrelevant about China as if I don't know it
or about the " fertile creacent" ftm.

But since you mention China. I will add to it
and say we have a far more complex and
sophisticated understanding of human nature
than in Christian teachings- like that God made
us with a bad nature but commands us to be
something else ...which is, frankly, just weird.

"Sex...like animals" doesn't make sense as an Issue either.
We are animals.
Some other animals are quite promiscuous, some mate for life. Way more " moral" than people.
Or dolphins.

Also we are very aware of great differences in human societies. Western society is very mixed up, and.yes, many people don't take marriage seriously. Divorces are messy and often disasterous. That's your collective choice. Not some " flesh" prob.

Other societies deal with human nature in far more humane ways, with far better outcomes.

As anyone with some knowledge of cultures around the world well knows.

Western society × Bible rules ( those few Christians choose to try to follow) doesn't work very well.

That's not the fault of human nature.


And as to the "overcome" part, yes. Agreement!
There is much to " overcome" though we see it as
coontrilling and using human nature , not trying to force it out.

For example
Laziness and industry are ends of a continuum in
human nature. Take control!
We are taught self discipline, putting into practice
the principle of " as twig is bent so the tree is inclined".

If we were to think of failures of self discipline as a
"Sin" it might be summarized as " self indulgence is the father of all evil". Indulging in harmful temptations, knowing its wrong, but doing it anywy!

No priest declaring forgiveness is going to cure the
harm.

Does it not seem weird to you that " god" would make you one way then demand you be something else?
Humans aren't animals that's a lame excuse to excuse evil behavior.
 
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It basically means acting like an animal. Having sex with multiple partners. In the Bible marriage was for life. This is best for the kids when the mom and dad stay together and do not divorce. The kids turn out better, they get a better education and a better job and do more to help their parents in their old age. But for some reason people want to divorce and make a mess out of things. The kids have to decide do they want to live with daddy and his new girl friend or mommy and her new husband. Sometimes they feel abandoned like neither parent cares about them.

In the west civilization began in Mesopotamia between the Tigris and Euphrates river. In China The Yellow River Valley, also known as the Huang He Valley, is considered the birthplace of ancient Chinese civilization. The valley is home to northern China's main river and is at the center of thousands of years of Chinese history. The areas around China's second-longest river were also home to the oldest dynasties of ancient China.

As we all know the food in the middle east is different from the food they eat in China. We mostly eat wheat and china mostly eats rice.
Parents get divorced because they can't make the relationship work.
 
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Humans aren't animals that's a lame excuse to excuse evil behavior.
I won't try to address your ignorance of biology,
but do very strongly denounce your utterly false,
and mean - spirited accusation against my character.

Shame on you, oh Christian!
 
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Parents get divorced because they can't make the relationship work.
ONLY God can make it work so we HAVE to trust in HIM>
I have a good marriage because with God's help she is able to put up with what I put her through.
 
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"Sex...like animals" doesn't make sense either.
We are animals.
That is why we need to be born again and a new creation in Christ.
The old person we were does not understand God's plan and purpose.
 
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It would seem to me that the bad outweighs the good on the internet there's too many evil people and evil videos and photos it's all too much.
I don't know what it has never been filtered, like a national server that can rout all internet information into a main server which then filters content before it gets to individuals. I know there is software that does more or less the same but that doesn't stop the majority. Especially young people with iphones.

Not just porn but violence and extreme content and especially radicalist content that is turning young people into extremist. Not just Islamists but also many local groups who push radical ideology.

The problem I see is that we as a society have not even come to a unified position that much of what we see is radical or unhealthy. Its even regarded as a Right to express such content. The dilution of morality and truth where everyone is allowed for the sake of inclusion.

I think the WWW and especially social media coming in around early 2000's its completely changed our psyche and way of life. Now we create narratives and fake news and this influences reality. People are not sure anymore of whats what. Influencers, Podcasts, subjective realities all being pushed like they are reality.

We knew that the internet was causing people to detach from society, from face to face interactions. Now it seems after many years a virtual reality is being created and people are becoming insensitive to human engagement, see people from a distance where they see people like objects. This has led to much hate and now we are seeing this unreal world spilling out into the streets.
 
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I don't know what it has never been filtered
It is filtered, you have to turn the filter off to see that garbage. The government does not regulate it because the supreme court is corrupt. At one time there was a lot of money in porn. Hustler magazine was able to convince the court to make it legal so they could make their money off of it.

Dan Coats got the Senate, Congress and the President to agree on a law to control porn on the internet but the supreme court struck it down because they say it is free speech.
 
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That is why we need to be born again and a new creation in Christ.
The old person we were does not understand God's plan and purpose.
That makes no sense re the simple biology of
human beings as animals.
 
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I am gonna say something controversial: It is demonic influences.
It’s capitalism. It’s all about making money. There is no deeper reason.
 
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It’s capitalism. It’s all about making money. There is no deeper reason.
You are an atheist, so you do not understand that there is a dark spiritual element to this, my brother. But yes, it is mainly capitalism.
 
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It’s capitalism. It’s all about making money. There is no deeper reason.
Demonic influences. God v devil.

It's a belief based on belief in belief.
Zero evidence.

And not everyone buys the story.
 
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It’s capitalism. It’s all about making money. There is no deeper reason.
No, not technically.

Capitalism definition - an economic and political system in which a country's trade and industry are controlled by private owners for profit.

Free market
definition - an economic system in which the prices of goods and services are determined by supply and demand expressed by sellers and buyers.

In the case of pornography, the demand precedes supply as no intelligent capitalist would supply products that no one demands.

So, we are back to fallen mankind as the root cause of pornography.
 
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I will add to it
and say we have a far more complex and
sophisticated understanding of human nature
than in Christian teachings- like that God made
us with a bad nature
but commands us to be
something else ...which is, frankly, just weird.
Nope. As, you do not understand the theistic beliefs as it relates to human nature, please do not tell us that the atheists in China know better,
 
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Not a flicker of concern for the women and girls who
endure the hell of kidnap, trafficking, slavery, daily rape,
forced drug addiction and ugly death.
But don’t you see?

1 Timothy 2:15 But women will be saved through childbearing—if they continue in faith, love and holiness with propriety.

These women have sex for reason other than producing Soldiers for Christ. They are bound for Hell so you don’t have to worry about them.
 
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