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Why is there so much hatred and perverted pornography and over stimulating garbage on the internet ?

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Our main "weapon" is the Blood of Jesus. Revelation 17:14 b " they have washed their robes and made them white in the blood of the Lamb." The robe here is actually a reference to our flesh.

The reference to washing robes in the blood of the Lamb signifies spiritual purification and redemption. It’s a powerful reminder of the transformative and redemptive power of faith.

As the hymn says: "what can set me free from sin? Nothing but the Blood of Jesus." We struggle in the flesh to overcome the flesh so we know that does not work. Only the Grace of God can do a work in us to deliver us and set us free from sin and corruption.

Joy. Do you have an argument that can be accepted in the public forum of a heterogeneous society, or do you just want to your will? God is much more patient than you, apparently.

If you want to make an argument in *this* public forum of the USA, then you have to show why porn is detrimental to the individual/public welfare. I think those arguments exist, but quoting scripture is a fools errand. Anyone who does it to make their point shows they have no idea what matters, and they certainly don't know how to succeed in convincing others.
 
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Be honest. We will not be surprised.
We talk about the 1,000 year reign of Christ. What we have now is man's attempt to govern himself by rejecting the Law of God.

1 Samuel 8 "7And the LORD said to Samuel, “Listen to the voice of the people in all that they say to you. For it is not you they have rejected, but they have rejected Me as their king."

In the Ark was manna, Aaron's rod that budded and the commandments. This represents the rejection of God's provision, leadership and law.

Isaiah 9 6 is a very popular verse in Christmas cards: "For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace."
 
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I thought what I said might be ridiculous, but you've topped me. I guess we're done.

We talk about the 1,000 year reign of Christ. What we have now is man's attempt to govern himself by rejecting the Law of God.

1 Samuel 8 "7And the LORD said to Samuel, “Listen to the voice of the people in all that they say to you. For it is not you they have rejected, but they have rejected Me as their king."

In the Ark was manna, Aaron's rod that budded and the commandments. This represents the rejection of God's provision, leadership and law.

Isaiah 9 6 is a very popular verse in Christmas cards: "For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace."

You preach to the choir, and they ain't even listening. Sad.
 
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you have to show why porn is detrimental to the individual/public welfare.
I have a book called: "The Joy of Intimacy" by Rabbi Manis Friedman. Briefly love and sex was designed to produce intimacy. In the 60's with woodstock we had free love or sex without intimacy. Porn is based on sex, not love, not intimacy. Just going from person to person and not really establishing any sort of connection. This makes people very lonely but drives them on even though their relationships do not really satisfy them.

“INTIMACY IS AN ART. It’s not something that just happens. It must be learned, cultivated, and practiced carefully if it is to flourish.”
― Manis Friedman, The Joy of Intimacy: A Soulful Guide to Love, Sexuality, and Marriage

 
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Our main "weapon" is the Blood of Jesus. Revelation 17:14 b " they have washed their robes and made them white in the blood of the Lamb." The robe here is actually a reference to our flesh.

The reference to washing robes in the blood of the Lamb signifies spiritual purification and redemption. It’s a powerful reminder of the transformative and redemptive power of faith.

As the hymn says: "what can set me free from sin? Nothing but the Blood of Jesus." We struggle in the flesh to overcome the flesh so we know that does not work. Only the Grace of God can do a work in us to deliver us and set us free from sin and corruption.
Amen to this. Jesus is the guy who can save us, and set us free of our sins.
 
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It is gross, why would anyone want to be interested in it?

I apologize, but this sentiment always screams out hypocrite to me. Eight billion people in the world and it surprises you that people are interested in sex. To paraphrase Shakespeare, "Methinks thou doth protest too much."

I'm pretty sure that people are still interested in the same stuff that they were interested in two thousand years ago.
 
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I have a book called: "The Joy of Intimacy" by Rabbi Manis Friedman. Briefly love and sex was designed to produce intimacy. In the 60's with woodstock we had free love or sex without intimacy. Porn is based on sex, not love, not intimacy. Just going from person to person and not really establishing any sort of connection. This makes people very lonely but drives them on even though their relationships do not really satisfy them.

“INTIMACY IS AN ART. It’s not something that just happens. It must be learned, cultivated, and practiced carefully if it is to flourish.”
― Manis Friedman, The Joy of Intimacy: A Soulful Guide to Love, Sexuality, and Marriage


You can't be serious. What does that dude know about any of it? Has he ever had sex with multiple people? No. Does he have experience? No. What does he know? Nothing. Would you accept someone's testimony of God if they had never experienced God? Of course, you would not. Only a fool would. So why do you acquiesce now? If you want to know if sexual deviancy is a problem, talk to those you have placed in that category.
 
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What does that dude know about any of it?
Friedman is the most popular rabbi on YouTube, with over 450,000 subscribers as of February 2024. How many subscribers do you have? Married for 45 years to his wife, Chana, Rabbi Friedman is a father of 14 children ages 27-45.
 
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Well, that's why you're a bad American. Let me guess, you cotton to a theocracy or some sad shade thereof? Christian nationalist, maybe? Be honest. We will not be surprised.
I don't like it that there is pornography.
And i am utterly disgusted by those who think the problem
Is that they might see it and corrupt some of their
precious spiritual purity.
It's all about them.

Not a flicker of concern for the women and girls who
endure the hell of kidnap, trafficking, slavery, daily rape,
forced drug addiction and ugly death.

But In a fantasy world none of that is ever true.
All the girls are " legal" age, volunteer, well paid,
and then find god and are saved. Wise loving wives and mothers.

Bans such as we have in China come at a terrible price.

My mild protest got me beaten and jailed.


Those who find freedom overstimulating are a
sorry bunch unworthy of their ancestors, and
deserve no freedom. At all.
 
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I apologize, but this sentiment always screams out hypocrite to me. Eight billion people in the world and it surprises you that people are interested in sex. To paraphrase Shakespeare, "Methinks thou doth protest too much."

I'm pretty sure that people are still interested in the same stuff that they were interested in two thousand years ago.
Yep. Every accusation hides a confession.
 
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You can't be serious. What does that dude know about any of it? Has he ever had sex with multiple people? No. Does he have experience? No. What does he know? Nothing. Would you accept someone's testimony of God if they had never experienced God? Of course, you would not. Only a fool would. So why do you acquiesce now? If you want to know if sexual deviancy is a problem, talk to those you have placed in that category.
Come now. Sex for grasshoppers and the shark is
DESIGNED to promote love and intimacy.

Same for oak trees and the erstwhile trilobite.
 
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Not a flicker of concern for the women and girls who
endure the hell of kidnap, trafficking, slavery, daily rape,
forced drug addiction and ugly death.
This is where the rubber meets the road. When people endure the worst of suffering and yet we are told that God will cause all things work together for good. How can that be possible?
 
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Come now. Sex for grasshoppers and the shark is
DESIGNED to promote love and intimacy.

Same for oak trees and the erstwhile trilobite.

I like that. If only Captain and Tennille had given us "Trilobite Love" instead of "Muskrat Love."
 
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Come now. Sex for grasshoppers and the shark is
DESIGNED to promote love and intimacy.
I have studied this for many years. What was special about Adam and Eve and why were they husband and wife. What was God's plan and purpose in this. There is a study on the Prairie Voles that mate for life. This is all based on a hormone in the brain. The same hormone that is produced when women bond with their child.
 
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made proper arrests.
They do not arrest people in China they get sent to a re education center. After that if they do not reform them the become organ donors. Our Chinese student was more afraid of the re education centers then people are worried about jail here.
 
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