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I believe we all have. When Jesus commanded the disciples to go and preach the gospel to all creation, He was speaking to the disciples. We who believe are now Jesus disciples in this age.
Sadly, I believe that there are a number of things within most believers that give them reason not to speak out the Gospel.
1. Lack of belief
2. Lack of love for God
3. Lack of love for their neighbour
4. Misunderstanding of what the gift of evangelism is
5. Friendship evangelism is taught above proclamation
6. Proclamation evangelism not being taught
....there is most likely more.
1. Lack of belief.
If you saw a house on fire, you would yell and warn whoever is inside. You do this because you believe that people are going to burn to death. You would not let it be on your conscience that you did nothing. Likewise, though, if you truly believe in an everlasting punishment for unbelievers, you will warn everyone you saw. But most believers never warn of the coming judgement.
I believe that we should all have a passion to verbally share the Gospel. If we believe, then it would be wrong for us to simply allow the lost to come under condemnation and go to hell. That would be terrible. That would be like looking at someone drowning, and there is a buoyancy ring beside you but you cannot be bothered to throw it. In fact, there is a law against this. It is called Depraved Indifference. If someone knows the good they ought to do and does not do it, and someone dies, then a person can go to jail for not acting to do what is right. And if man’s court recognises this injustice, how much more will God recognise it on the day of judgement. “If anyone, then, knows the good they ought to do and doesn’t do it, it is sin for them.” James 4:17. We are to do as Jesus said and preach the Gospel to as many people as possible.
Sadly, I also believe that many non-believers see our lack of evangelism, and this gives the unbeliever evidence that our God is not real. Our absence of action shows our level of belief. So, our actions, or lack of, give the unbeliever evidence that many who profess to believe, do not fully believe that there is a Hell. If they did believe, they would be horrified and do whatever they could to stop others going there.
"It has always been difficult to understand those evangelical Christians who…say they serve the Lord, but they divide their days as to leave plenty of time to play and relax and enjoy the pleasures of this world. They are at ease while the world burns."
A. W. Tozer
2. Lack of love for God
Jesus commanded us in Mark 16:15 "Go into all the world and preach the Good News to everyone."
“The one who has My commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me.” ….
John 14:21
If you truly love Him, you will do as He has asked of us.
3. Lack of love for their neighbour
If you truly love your neighbour, you will hate for them to go to hell. You would do anything to stop it. You would warn them. Also, the more you love someone, the more you will be willing to risk it all for them. So if you are afraid, pray for more love for God and also more love for your neighbour.
4. Misunderstanding of what the gift of evangelism is
The gift of evangelism is often misunderstood. Many believe it some special type of speech that God has given to an individual that when people hear, they will believe. But this is a wrong understanding.
The gift of evangelism is an inward gifting. So, it is for the church. Those that have this gift will go out and evangelise, but their actual gift is for equipping the people in the church to evangelise.
Ephesians 4:11-12 "So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up."
5. Friendship evangelism is taught above proclamation.
Most pastors are afraid to go into public and tell people the Gospel. They may say the Gospel in church but not in public. So, they choose to do it an easier way which is friendship evangelism. This is taught a lot in churches while, the proclamation of the Gospel is very much secondary. There are a few issues with Friendship Evangelism. First, it slows down the proclamation of the Gospel. If we truly believe that the Gospel is the power of God unto salvation, then we would tell as many people as possible. But with friendship evangelism, we get alongside someone and then, when we think it is right, we finally say the Gospel. This can take months, if not years to get to this place. So, the proclamation is slowed down massively. Satan loves this.
Also, if we do get alongside someone, we invite them to church and we can end up filling the church with many who only believe because their friend believes. Their faith is really only based on our belief. And since the church is filled with weak believers, the pastor then does sermons to suit this type of congregation. Thus, the true believer only ever gets milky sermons and struggles to grow. With this cycle, the church will only ever get weaker and weaker.
I do believe that we are to do friendship evangelism, but really, I do not believe that we are taking up our cross with this style of evangelism and it should never be put before proclamation evangelism. Friendship evangelism is just who we are. We are nice people.
NOTE: There is now any verse in the bible that teaches friendship evangelism. That is to go and make friends and wait until you are comfortable to say the Gospel.
Quote: "If he joins the fellowship, what was his reasoning? Friendship or has he come under the grace of God?"
6. Proclamation evangelism not being taught
This very much ties in with the previous point. Proclamation needs to be taught more. Many believers need training to be able to speak confidently to others. They may believe but they do not know how to say the Gospel. Though, if someone has the Holy Spirit in them, then they should have a drive to learn how to share the Good News with others. As with those in the upper room, the Holy Spirit gave them the words to speak. Obviously, they were given words to say in other languages because there were many from other countries there at that time. And so, the Gospel would spread from there. We may not speak in other languages, but the Holy Spirit can give us the boldness and the correct words to say.
An anonymous quote. "As pastors, we encouraged our people, we didn’t equip them. The Five Fold Ministries job is to equip the saints. Not to pamper them. We were so happy that we had a crowd that we forgot that we have an assignment to raise an army.
We are not being equipped in our churches