Yes, we do. This is something that is hard for many believers, and non-believers, for that matter, to accept. For a human, it is implied in this that God's point-of-view is merely cold and factual, and not loving and soft.
I don't know how to soften the blow, except by appealing to God's mercy toward believers, and the necessary implication of his intentions in creating. For eg, that, "this life is not for this life". But here's the blow, as I see it:
God made certain things true, in order for there to be a Body of Christ, and a Bride for Christ (bone of his bone and flesh of his flesh), and a Dwelling Place of God. In order for this to happen, it has to be so that God has ordained that some things are opposed to him. Since that opposition implies destruction/contradiction of truth, it must be itself destroyed ("sooner or later" from our perspective). It is a cold fact, and as real a comparison to the LIFE that God is, compared to the life that we of ourselves deserve, to compare the clay to the Potter, who may justly make vessels suited for destruction and vessels suited for permanent use.
We consider ourselves worthy of respect by God, for some reason, as though by making us sentient and morally responsible for our choices it is not fair for him to destroy those of us who are not given the ability to obey. But the heart of God is so beyond ours, and that, not only in degree but in TYPE or KIND of existence, that we are unable to comprehend how it is 'fair' or 'just' for God to judge us by what we are.
Remember that God made Lucifer. And God did so, knowing what would come of it.
Potter, and clay.
"...like anyone else" is a figure of speech. It is not said to imply there is no actual difference, but only, "I don't claim to have arrived". It is an admission that while the "Old Man" is put to death in the believer, unlike his life in the unbeliever, he still must continually be put to death.