God is the Creator of all things He is not the cause of all things. I strongly disagree with your entire understanding of causality because everything is not the result of a domino effect, not when your dealing with sentient beings capable of making choices. The choice one person may make can be completely different than the choice another person might make in the same situation and even the same person can make different choices in the same situation. A premeditated choice can often be completely different than a spurt of the moment choice in the same situation. How many times have you made a choice only to think later that you should’ve done it differently? God does not cause all of this decision making process, if He did we wouldn’t have so many problems in this world and in this life.
If God did not cause it, what did? Your claim that sentient beings capable of choices
are somehow outside the chain of causation is a claim of self-determination. Well, I'm sorry, but it is mere assertion, and, frankly, absurd, to claim that your control of your own choices is uncaused. And if you specifically reject that God (first cause) causes your choices, then you have appealed to the self-contradictory notion of causation by chance.
Or are you going to claim absolute spontaneity for yourself?
Yes I did when you said that everything that happened, happened because God caused it to happen. So when the shooting in Uvalde Tx where a boy shot & killed 19 elementary students happened God did not cause that guy to shoot anyone. If God caused him to shoot those kids then the shooter wouldn’t be responsible for their deaths, God would. Your reasoning on this subject is illogical.
Wrong again. If God caused it, as he causes all things, he is the one to determine fault. We are at fault if we choose to sin according to our inclinations. You can't make the blanket statement that if God causes it, he is to blame.
Take that notion to its logical extreme: Is God to blame for the deaths of the millions in the flood? Is God to blame for the default state of sin into which we are born? NO! Not blame. Did God do those things? Most certainly he did. But God does not sin, nor act contrary to his own perfect and pure nature. You cannot judge God, and certainly you cannot judge him according to your conception of love and justice. You are under the command, not above it.
Yes really and let me show you an example. My decisions are not completely random. If some asks me a million times can I shoot you in the foot my answer will always be no. It’s never a random answer like mere chance would be. Now roll dice a million times and see if you roll the same number every time. It’s never going to happen because that is mere chance, it’s a random unpredictable result.
Now you are making my point. Yes! your decisions are not random. But you are wrong about the dice. "...it's every decision is from the Lord" Prov 16:33. There is no such thing as chance: it is only a stand-in for, "I don't know."
Thus, when you claim that God does not cause your decisions, your objection is really due to the fact that you think it has to be one or the other —that your decision and his decision are mutually exclusive— but they are not. Your only recourse then, is to appeal to chance, but "that dog don't hunt". Only first cause can be self-determining.
I have shown that by showing that I didn’t cause my son to disobey me by choosing to have a son knowing that he would disobey me before he was conceived. Just like God knew that we would sin before He created us, His creating us didn’t cause our sin, it was an inevitable side effect of free will which we absolutely must have in order to choose to love God.
That doesn't work, because God is First Cause, above all things and from whom all things come. You are not. Nevertheless, if you knew your son would disobey you and you chose to have him anyway, you are one of many causes of your son to disobey you.
Further, if freewill is given you by God, he caused that, and its assumed side effect, sin.
You say, "free will which we absolutely must have in order to choose to love God". That is mere assertion. Unsupported. Also, it is a vague use of 'free will'. Do you mean mere robotic choice? Yes you must have choice in order to choose to love God. Do you mean choice according to your inclinations? Yes, you must be inclined to love God, to choose to love God. Do you mean uncaused choice? No, you cannot, uncaused, do anything.
It gets even more complicated, when you make such a statement: You have not even shown that you
can choose to love God, apart from God's causation. Romans 5, and Romans 8, and Ephesians 2, among many other passages, would seem to disagree with that.
What is causation by chance? Can you give me an example of this?
No! I cannot! That is my point. There is no such thing as Chance! I agree the notion is absurd that your choices are caused by chance, but what else can you appeal to, if you reject that your choices are caused, not only by you, but by God —are you going to claim personal sovereignty? Are you another First Cause? Even you will admit that your will and ability to choose is given to you by God, and not by chance.
Again, "chance" is a construction in our minds. "'Chance' is a placeholder for, 'I don't know'". It does not exist.