I wonder if we didn't look around to see what others have (which often morphs into idolization) wouldn't we be so much more content? Feminism is good at this. Sure there are some bad males out there and they hurt women but there are plenty of women doing bad things to men. I guess the real problem is financial as if the woman isn't financially solvent she may feel she is trapped and couldn't support herself and the children if she left. If she works her children don't see her most of the day and there's a chasm that grows. Then they don't respect and listen to her as much as before. This encourages the woman to lie and hide money for her escape. I wonder how many women have started businesses for the sole purpose of support when they leave. It might be much higher than we realize. A sad situation.
Getting back to looking around at others to see what we're missing, that always leads to discontent. Men are usually in control so women want that control. Its that fear of missing out thing that controls us so much these days. Yet when I see women at work and hear them talk amongst themselves in a break I never hear them talk about work. Its always about their children or family or home or friends. Or prospective men if they're unmarried. This isn't the case nearly as much with men. This says much about women working. This is what they spontaneously talk about after all.
When I see women in management they look not content at all, rather joyless. Are all men joyful in management? Of course not but a lot more seem far more comfortable in it.
To the women out there: Beware of the "fear of missing out" longing we all feel once in a while. Its a lie almost all the time. Focus on what you have and treasure that. That breeds contentment and a life without contentment is no life at all. No money can buy contentment. Look at the faces of people on the street in Manhattan. Most are very wealthy - you have to be to live there - yet their faces display angst, tension and stress. Its a constant striving against others. Now think of faces in small towns. You see beaming smiles, helpful attitudes and compassion. Who has a better life? Who looks forward to their day when waking up? "Lots of stuff" doesn't cut it. Never has, never will.
The Bible is a male centric book. But God, the author, is not putting women down. He wants women to more align themselves with mankind, with society. Doesn't mean they have to get married. Many upstanding women in the Bible weren't married. But it does mean humility. Not that men don't need a healthy dose of humility too of course. Feminism is not humble in the slightest. Its self centered to the max. Its all about "What can I get" and this is a 1 way road to psychological discontentment on so many levels.
Getting back to looking around at others to see what we're missing, that always leads to discontent. Men are usually in control so women want that control. Its that fear of missing out thing that controls us so much these days. Yet when I see women at work and hear them talk amongst themselves in a break I never hear them talk about work. Its always about their children or family or home or friends. Or prospective men if they're unmarried. This isn't the case nearly as much with men. This says much about women working. This is what they spontaneously talk about after all.
When I see women in management they look not content at all, rather joyless. Are all men joyful in management? Of course not but a lot more seem far more comfortable in it.
To the women out there: Beware of the "fear of missing out" longing we all feel once in a while. Its a lie almost all the time. Focus on what you have and treasure that. That breeds contentment and a life without contentment is no life at all. No money can buy contentment. Look at the faces of people on the street in Manhattan. Most are very wealthy - you have to be to live there - yet their faces display angst, tension and stress. Its a constant striving against others. Now think of faces in small towns. You see beaming smiles, helpful attitudes and compassion. Who has a better life? Who looks forward to their day when waking up? "Lots of stuff" doesn't cut it. Never has, never will.
The Bible is a male centric book. But God, the author, is not putting women down. He wants women to more align themselves with mankind, with society. Doesn't mean they have to get married. Many upstanding women in the Bible weren't married. But it does mean humility. Not that men don't need a healthy dose of humility too of course. Feminism is not humble in the slightest. Its self centered to the max. Its all about "What can I get" and this is a 1 way road to psychological discontentment on so many levels.