Well, I think it is God the Spirit, or the Holy Spirit, which is the bride of Christ, but which Spirit is supposed to be dwelling in us, etc, and I most certainly agree that a lot of teachers "mess it up" when they think it is supposed to be like an earthly marriage between a man and a woman in this fallen world or reality here, etc...
Thing is, marriage and sex are not the result of a fallen world, they were created in a very good world.
There was an original plan, be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.
God created His imagebearers to rule the Earth, to be the highest things He created, to represent Himself to all creation that does not have the blessing of being able to know Him personally, they know us instead. He did not create us to be a choir.
So with new testament kind of sort of steering away from that original plan.. no marriage, no be fruitful and multiply.. and.. at least some teachers teach that we just become a choir.
That would mean the original plan was changed, and that's frustrating. The rock you build your foundation on shifts? How is your home eternally secure then?
The way at least I have always wanted to see it, and with some exceptions do see it.. is a restoration to Eden, with improvements. That means God is indeed the rock, the foundation, and your home is eternally secure built on it, because God made a plan, and He's sticking to that plan, and doesn't change it to be a different plan.
But if He changes it... that's faith shattering is what it is. Now you're dealing with someone indecisive, and nothing is secure. I hope you can see how important that aspect is. It's less about the particulars, and more about the idea that God changes His mind and alters the plans. It turns from "Jesus Christ the same yesterday, today, and forever" to "I have altered the deal, pray I do not alter it any further *heavy breathing*".
and the problems with the exceptions in the "restoration of all things" ... is that they point at God changing plans.
I don't like that.
I think why Jesus said there would be no marriage in heaven, is because hopefully there will not be sexual desire or lust anymore, etc, but that that gets gotten rid of when we are changed, etc, and I don't think there will be a need to procreate anymore there either, etc, but all of that, and all of those thoughts/concepts/ideas, will be done away with when we are changed, etc, so then, how can the one and only marriage that does happen there, but only happens once and for all of the rest of time there (in heaven), be like that of an earthly marriage between a man and a woman here, etc, because I don't think that's at all what is, or means, or will truly be like, etc, it is just simply the union of the bridegroom (Jesus) and the Holy Spirit that dwells within us, etc, and is just simply a joining or a reconciling or partnership between them/us that will last eternally there, etc, and I think it's very very sad that many pastors/preachers/teachers get it twisted and all but turn it into some kind of gay-like thing, etc, because that won't exist there, etc...
3 points
#1. we never needed to procreate sexually. God could have just created hundreds of millions of men, like He did angels. So procreation was never the sole reason for sex and marriage. God specifically created female as the solution to Adam's loneliness. It goes far beyond just procreation and far beyond just having more people in general to be friends with. The partnership was complimentary, not exactly the same, but complimenting each other. Men and Women are specifically different in ways that meet up, and the union is stronger than the sum of its parts. Sex itself is not just to procreate. It's an expression of love, and a means of intimacy. That is why the biblical term is to "know". It's not just "he went up into her and she conceived seed" it's "he went into her, and
knew her"
So even without any procreation needs.. they fulfill other things, intimate companionship, and romantic love. Romantic love cannot just be brushed aside as unimportant and just say "oh well, there's Agape love that's better".. an entire book of the bible is written specifically about romantic love. It's important enough that God wanted it preserved in His word even though His name is never mentioned in it.
#2. and on bearing children itself. God never intended for it to be a painful experience. The pain of childbirth was part of the curse. We have NEVER experienced what God intended for procreation to be.. and if God has truly changed His mind on this.. then we never will.
I can look at one passage in the Old Testament that suggests this idea is false and that we will experience it as God intended from the beginning....
Isaiah 65
17 For, behold, I create new heavens and a new earth: and the former shall not be remembered, nor come into mind.
I just wanted to highlight that while many people think this is about the Millennial Kingdom, I'm not so sure, because here it specifies the new heavens and new earth.
18 But be ye glad and rejoice for ever in that which I create: for, behold, I create Jerusalem a rejoicing, and her people a joy.
I wanted to highlight that this eternal singalong where everyone just stares at Jesus and sings.... not what God had planned, at least in the Old Testament. We're not just rejoicing in God, but also in what He creates. It will however, be properly processed in thanksgiving to the God who created it.
19 And I will rejoice in Jerusalem, and joy in my people: and the voice of weeping shall be no more heard in her, nor the voice of crying.
20 There shall be no more thence an infant of days, nor an old man that hath not filled his days: for the child shall die an hundred years old; but the sinner being an hundred years old shall be accursed.
21 And they shall build houses, and inhabit them; and they shall plant vineyards, and eat the fruit of them.
22 They shall not build, and another inhabit; they shall not plant, and another eat: for as the days of a tree are the days of my people, and mine elect shall long enjoy the work of their hands.
23 They shall not labour in vain, nor bring forth for trouble; for they are the seed of the blessed of the Lord, and their offspring with them.
24 And it shall come to pass, that before they call, I will answer; and while they are yet speaking, I will hear.
25 The wolf and the lamb shall feed together, and the lion shall eat straw like the bullock: and dust shall be the serpent's meat. They shall not hurt nor destroy in all my holy mountain, saith the Lord.
"and their offspring with them" suggests that there will continue to be procreation on the New Earth. God certainly doesn't save children just because their parents are saved on this fallen world. So it's not that.
So.. old testament teaches a restoration of an Eden like Earth.... but if the "no marriage and no procreation after the resurrection" is the truth and we haven't misinterpreted it....
then that's a dramatic change of plan.
and something I would have shaken the stuffing out of a Sadducee's head to get them to get more clarity from Jesus on.
and finally
#3. The idea of just losing a desire as a means of satiating a desire... what a horrible line of thought to travel down. Is losing your appetite ever fulfilling?
I've never found losing my appetite to be a pleasant experience I rejoiced in. To have a sexual desire never be sated, just lost as a single man? That's nothing to rejoice over, and yes, some people go their whole lives unmarried, so don't just take it for granted.
In the past, God has supplied for needs by creating the means to sate the need. Adam was lonely, God created a companion. Man needs food, God creates food and drink to sustain him. Jonah was out sitting in the sun feeling sorry for himself, God created a tree to shade and comfort him (yes He later took it away to make a point to Jonah, but still).
But in Eternity.... God no longer provides for needs and good desires, He just takes them away?
I mean.. that isn't what He promises
Revelation 22
17 And the Spirit and the bride say, Come. And let him that heareth say, Come. And let him that is athirst come. And whosoever will, let him take the water of life freely.
I mean what I get out of that verse is that God still provides for needs... not takes them away.
But, yeah, I wish Jesus would have said more about it himself directly or in his own words as a flesh and blood man here, while he was here in the flesh here, etc...
God Bless!
Yeah, I know I'm supposed to believe the bible is sufficient in all things.. but it leaves me wanting more clarity. To have been there to actually ask Jesus questions myself.
With regards to homosexuality itself.. yeah okay, I can get that doctrine other places.. but on other topics there's somewhat of a radical expansion of the law to levels not previously given. So it'd be nice to know fully His doctrine on it.
and also clarity to relationships, so that Jonathan Cahn wasn't talking about Jesus inviting you into His tent on your wedding night to Him in a way that sounded like sexual intimacy.
Lord have mercy that was vile to hear out of the lips of a man.