From Urban Dictionary:
When someone is a jerk enough to tell you that you don't have enough qualities to like what you want to like or be what you want to be, solely based on their opinions and experiences, even if they don't know as much about what said person aspires to like / be.
Person 1: I really like (insert band/artist here)
Person 2: Ok name every song, even the unreleased ones, how many words are in each song, and recite them word for word.
Person 1: um..
Person 2: FAKE FAN. You don't like them.
In the above example, person 2 is a gatekeeper, and they are trying to enforce their subjective opinion onto Person 1 as objective fact. This kind of behaviour is very common.
As I said morality is a rational enterprise so we can reason why premarital sex is morally right or wrong. Even if we get rid of the idea of marriage we can reason that a committed and monogamous relationship is better than casual sex.
We could also reason that sex outside marriage within a long term committed and monogamous relationship was better than casual relationships. So the person claiming that premarital sex is OK would need to have indepedent support for that claim.
Let me ask you the question again, since you didn't actually answer it.
If a person says that they think premarital sex is okay, are they objectively right or objectively wrong?
The answer I am looking for is a single word. It will be either RIGHT or WRONG.
But I have shown evdience that this is not how morlaity works. That morality needs to have an objective base outside humans to even be morality in the first place.
No you haven't You have repeatedly made the claim, that's all.
Thats why using preferences for TV shows or opinions is irrational and incoherent for morality. I have linked evdience to show how morality is impossible and irrational. Under subjectiuve morality a person is faced with the contradictory position of claiming something is really wrong outside themselves while trying to uphold the position that morality is like food preferences and not really true outside the subjective preference. Its impossible to do.
Do you remember when I have mentioned that word EMPATHY? Because it comes into play here.
If I see someone getting mugged, or anything else like that, I can't claim to objectively know if they think it is acceptabl;e or not, but I can make an educated guess based on how I would feel if I were in their situation. And since (as I've said countless times) we live in pretty much the same society, and since the morals we have are strongly influenced by the society we are in, I can be fairly sure that the morals I have are the same as the morals they have.
No moral objectivity needed. Subjective morality gives me everything I need to make the reasonable decision to go and do what I can to help.
But as I have shown that reasoning is incoherent because of your assumption that morality is like preferences for TV shows or food. This assumption of comparison has been shown to be a logical fallacy so in using it you are not making any coherent arguement.
Its only when we assume that there has to be an objective for morality that it falls into place and is rational.
Again, you have stated it repeatedly. You have not shown it.
The link was about subjectivity and objectivity with regards to morality. Take these 2 points from the link.
2. If subjectivism is true, then there is no possibility of anybody being wrong; there will only be differences of opinion and preference.
3. If subjectivism is true and ethical claims express nothing more than our own attitudes about a particular act or behavior, then genuine ethical disagreement would be impossible.
so the above point is about how under subjective thinking no one can really be wrong about their tastes or feelings. But under morality we need to establish a right and wrong.
However, if we get a shared moral viewpoint from the fact that we live in the same society, then we can still have agreement. And you'll find that most disagreement comes when someone states a position that goes against the moral viewpoint that comes from being in that society. TYhat's why if someone says rape is okay, then nearly everyone is going to disagree. But when it comes to an issue like premarital sex, a much smaller percentage of the population will say it's wrong.
But I have provided evdience that they are so its not my claim.
You've never given any specifics. You've intentionally AVOIDED answering specific questions, prefering to keep your answers fairly vague and general.
No thats what you expect because you ask for it. Yet you make your own objective claims that morality is subjective without any physical evdience. This shows that you also know that when it comes to morality there are certain truths but they are different kinds of truths. They are evdienced by the fact that you also appeal to them as though they are real truths when you implicitely make objective claims about what is what what isnt morlaity.
I don't know what you are talking about. I've never said there is any physical evidence for morality, be it objective or subjective.
Yes I agree. But forcing other people to follow those objective is actaully making it objective. If there are no moral objectives then forcing others to follow certain morals is unjustified.
That's rubbish.
If I force someone to live according to my subjective viewpoint, does that make my viewpoint objectively true? Of course not!
So its more than just living like morals are objective. When someone takes that moral objective position they are saying that all other possibilities are not allowed. In other words people are being hypocrites. They are living an incoherent moral position.
No, it's called shorthand. It's like how we speak of the sun rising and setting. Because it would just be too clunky to say, "Did you see the beautiful colours in the sky when the rotation of the earth carried us far enough away from the sun that the horizon rose to a position where it covered the sun?" No, we just say, "Did you see the beautiful colours in the sky at sunset?"
But you don't live like your husband doesnt love you. Otherwise people would act counter intuitive and be insecure, keep questioning their partner where they are going, who they are seeing. But that doesnt happen so we can be justified that our intuition is a good representation of how things really are.
Irrelevant. How I live is still a SUBJECTIVE experience.
Lol the thought did come up when I was writing this "I bet Kylie is going to like this".
Then let's not do it again, shall we?
I gave this in another post.
I mentioned this in the other post.
So what? If we are having this discussion here, you can present it in a reply to me.