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So im in cps and my person taking care me has a kid and shes says im going to hell bc i

use the name Jesus

im crying right now

And i been doubting so thats worse

Eleos is right, no human can judge the eternal destination of another human.

Jesus loves you and knows your intentions and what is caused by your illness.
 
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Ik and ask me last night to do a bible and today she ask if I wanted to do it right now she’s starting to ask me a bunch of questions like a lot been A little while later I don’t know how the discussion started but she say im going to bc i use the name jesus she says its worg and if I don’t change it before I die guess where I’m going and After she Seen my upset she was like do you want to pray I said no then she asked do you still want to do the Bible study and I said it’s up to you but i don’t want to go go hell
 
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People can say all sorts of things ....that doesn't mean they are right.
The Word of God is our only standard for truth....

1 Peter 1:23 Being born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible, by the word of God, which liveth and abideth for ever.

Incorruptible is incorruptible ...You have that seed within, it was given by grace not by works ...nothing you do or say will cause you to loose it...

Ephesians 2:8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
 
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ik but im i Wrong for not wanting pray with her I just got me so mad and so sad

Wrong? …I don’t think so …I don’t know the situation, but I do know it’s hard to pray immediately after a emotional response like being mad and sad. Emotions are strong and typically it takes controlling your thinking and getting somewhat peaceful….
 
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but i don’t want to go go hell

If you are trusting in Jesus as your Saviour as John 3:16 says you are not going to hell.

If your ocd or intrusive thoughts cause you to say or think things you find distressing or offensive.
They will not cause you to go to hell.

Jesus knows you. He knows all about your ocd and what it does. He knows when your ocd causes you to say ' bad ' words.
He knows when you say or do things you shouldn't do and that will not send you to hell.

Jesus' love for you is so wide that you cannot go around it.
His love for you is so high that stars in distant galaxies cannot go over it.
His love for you is so deep that the bottom cannot be found.

Jesus will not send you to help because you said ' bad ' words.


If you are still worried by past or present sins.
Thank God for Jesus' love and for his forgiveness of All your sins.

Don't worry about past sins, praise God and thank him for Jesus.
 
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I use the name of Jesus Do you think she’s right
Have you used it as a "swear" word...or in some other way? That makes a difference, not that you're certainly bound for hell for doing this anyhow.

Anyway, I'd recommend not "talking religion" with this other person who seems to have some very unusual religious ideas.
 
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