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I'm a 35 (soon to be 36) year old woman who is currently confirmed and attending an LCMS church. My family were members of WELS in the early 1990s growing up, and I always have fond memories of those days. I think my family took a turn for the worse when they left, and so I've hoped for more conservative ways, especially as I've gotten older and seen the efficacy of firm lines drawn in the sand.
With that in mind, while I've had good experiences at the local LCMS church I go to (which seems to be one of the more truly conservative LCMS churches), I'm more concerned about some of the behavior and beliefs I'm seeing from the younger generation of LCMS members, especially online in places like "chats." "Pastors" are allowing youth to run wild, swear at older members in their "online chats," and nothing is done about it -- in fact, the behavior of the youth is rationalized and defended! Those of us in our upper thirties and older are told not to invoke our age and experience in discussions on deep topics because it "provokes" younger members, who are then allowed to cuss us out, say they don't give an [expletive] about what we say, and we're even told to "shut up." I don't see 1 Timothy 5 being applied properly in such a situation.
I understand the primary doctrinal differences between WELS and LCMS, and I'd be more than happy to accept and subscribe to these -- I don't care if I'm allowed to vote, so long as I receive more respect from younger members, in a more conservative setting. I believe in firm demarcations between older and younger members, and that 1 Timothy 5 should be upheld. Seeing "pastors" rationalize disrespectful behavior from youth, is not something I expect from conservative branches of Christianity.
So are younger members expected to respect older ones within WELS? Are these 1 Timothy 5 mandates and principles upheld consistently by pastoral authorities? Will I see more conservative and orderly behavior here than I have in some more liberal LCMS circles?
Thanks for helping me with any of these questions!
With that in mind, while I've had good experiences at the local LCMS church I go to (which seems to be one of the more truly conservative LCMS churches), I'm more concerned about some of the behavior and beliefs I'm seeing from the younger generation of LCMS members, especially online in places like "chats." "Pastors" are allowing youth to run wild, swear at older members in their "online chats," and nothing is done about it -- in fact, the behavior of the youth is rationalized and defended! Those of us in our upper thirties and older are told not to invoke our age and experience in discussions on deep topics because it "provokes" younger members, who are then allowed to cuss us out, say they don't give an [expletive] about what we say, and we're even told to "shut up." I don't see 1 Timothy 5 being applied properly in such a situation.
I understand the primary doctrinal differences between WELS and LCMS, and I'd be more than happy to accept and subscribe to these -- I don't care if I'm allowed to vote, so long as I receive more respect from younger members, in a more conservative setting. I believe in firm demarcations between older and younger members, and that 1 Timothy 5 should be upheld. Seeing "pastors" rationalize disrespectful behavior from youth, is not something I expect from conservative branches of Christianity.
So are younger members expected to respect older ones within WELS? Are these 1 Timothy 5 mandates and principles upheld consistently by pastoral authorities? Will I see more conservative and orderly behavior here than I have in some more liberal LCMS circles?
Thanks for helping me with any of these questions!