I'll ask the same question as before. What's your definition of kindness/love? In my definition, kindness seeks to minimize suffering.
Because anything less leads to a blatant logical contradiction. This requires a bit of explanation.
Why do you select a Bible in your own language? Which still leaves you several choices. Why do you then narrow down your final choice to the one that most clearly and precisely conveys to you the meaning of original Greek or Hebrew? I'll tell you why. Because it is totally inappropriate to select a Bible misleading us about authorial intent. Bear this fact in mind as the discussion proceeds.
As a student of the Bible, I must avoid contradicting myself. Ok so how do I myself, Mr. Jal, define love? As kindness (a dedication to minimizing suffering). For me, therefore, anyone who deviates from my definition must be classified as unloving and unkind. And the same is true for all the virtues (patience, honesty, merit/worthiness), meaning a deviant would be classified, on my terms, as impatient, dishonest, and unworthy.
So if God deviates from MY definition of these virtues - if such was the authorial intent - I need to look for a Bible that describes Him with the most precision, and thus as unloving, unkind, impatient, dishonest, and unworthy. That's the first problem.
The second problem is that the biblical promises become inherently self-contradictory. The promises take the form, 'Be encouraged because God's love is everlasting." But if God's meaning of 'love' deviates from MY definition, such verses aren't cause for hope but cause for alarm. They are terrifying and cause for utter despair. In a nutshell, if God's definition of virtues isn't the same as mine, all Christian hope is thereby undermined.