Hi,
I do apologise in advance if the title is somewhat vague or clickbait-y, but it's exactly how I feel right now in regards to my faith, my position with God, and life's situations.
Just a few weeks ago, a relative invited me to a brief Bible study at their house, and after we had completed the study, I felt convicted and in need of renewing my faith almost immediately. Listening to his testimony and his close relationship to God had me all excited because I wanted something similar and I wanted to pick up where I left off... Suffice to say, I've prayed and read my Bible almost every night since, and I've attempted to abstain from sin as best as I can because I wanted to take God more seriously.
Unfortunately though, my life's gotten somewhat worse in terms of relationships with my family, anxiety, depression, really minor thoughts of suicide and hopelessness. I feel left out and hopeless with no way to escape my bad thoughts and feelings. I don't understand?
I had a verbal altercation with my family a few weeks ago and I've prayed for it to get better every single night since, but it seems to be getting worse than anything, and the thoughts of that fight are on my mind every minute of every day. It makes me feel hopeless, lost and in need of direction because I feel like another dispute will happen again soon as they're slowly testing my patience and love for them.
Instead of focusing on my faith, like I should be, I sometimes go on for hours thinking of how to be prepared for the next fight, should it happen, or what had happened in the previous fight. The only thing that makes me feel somewhat better is leaving the house for a few hours, but then I have to come back because I can't leave permanently for personal reasons.
My chest/heart feels cold and uneasy all the time, similar to that feeling you get when you're about to do something risky, and I've shed many tears during prayer for forgiveness, guidance and help, but I get no answers nor do I see anything improving, and worst of all, my anxiety and depression are stacking up really quickly, and it's strange because I've never felt like this before nor have I had an issue with the family until recently.
I have no one to turn to because not everyone is bothered with my issues, and I don't feel like burdening my relative with my dilemma since he has his own life to work out.
Why do I feel like this? Why do I feel forsaken? I feel like a single lit candle in a dark room, with no hope or help anywhere around me, and soon my light will go out. It's gotten so bad that I envied someone who had died recently.
I've wholeheartedly prayed for forgiveness and help. I've cried for support and answers, and I've spent hours just sitting on my bed in the dark, hoping that something will happen to improve my situation with the family, but there's none to help.
I've prayed, fasted, and read the Bible every night. What else am I missing? What am I doing wrong?
I do apologise in advance if the title is somewhat vague or clickbait-y, but it's exactly how I feel right now in regards to my faith, my position with God, and life's situations.
Just a few weeks ago, a relative invited me to a brief Bible study at their house, and after we had completed the study, I felt convicted and in need of renewing my faith almost immediately. Listening to his testimony and his close relationship to God had me all excited because I wanted something similar and I wanted to pick up where I left off... Suffice to say, I've prayed and read my Bible almost every night since, and I've attempted to abstain from sin as best as I can because I wanted to take God more seriously.
Unfortunately though, my life's gotten somewhat worse in terms of relationships with my family, anxiety, depression, really minor thoughts of suicide and hopelessness. I feel left out and hopeless with no way to escape my bad thoughts and feelings. I don't understand?
I had a verbal altercation with my family a few weeks ago and I've prayed for it to get better every single night since, but it seems to be getting worse than anything, and the thoughts of that fight are on my mind every minute of every day. It makes me feel hopeless, lost and in need of direction because I feel like another dispute will happen again soon as they're slowly testing my patience and love for them.
Instead of focusing on my faith, like I should be, I sometimes go on for hours thinking of how to be prepared for the next fight, should it happen, or what had happened in the previous fight. The only thing that makes me feel somewhat better is leaving the house for a few hours, but then I have to come back because I can't leave permanently for personal reasons.
My chest/heart feels cold and uneasy all the time, similar to that feeling you get when you're about to do something risky, and I've shed many tears during prayer for forgiveness, guidance and help, but I get no answers nor do I see anything improving, and worst of all, my anxiety and depression are stacking up really quickly, and it's strange because I've never felt like this before nor have I had an issue with the family until recently.
I have no one to turn to because not everyone is bothered with my issues, and I don't feel like burdening my relative with my dilemma since he has his own life to work out.
Why do I feel like this? Why do I feel forsaken? I feel like a single lit candle in a dark room, with no hope or help anywhere around me, and soon my light will go out. It's gotten so bad that I envied someone who had died recently.
I've wholeheartedly prayed for forgiveness and help. I've cried for support and answers, and I've spent hours just sitting on my bed in the dark, hoping that something will happen to improve my situation with the family, but there's none to help.
I've prayed, fasted, and read the Bible every night. What else am I missing? What am I doing wrong?