Yes. But it's not always like that.
Sometimes the man can't handle it, or he doesn't know how, or he's not fair. Then problems begin unless the wife is really smart.
Actually, Yahweh knows perfectly how to accomplish as He Designed,
not dependent on the man's "ability" in the flesh or mind or spirit even,
as Yahshua (Jesus) is the head of the man, and the shepherd, and all in all,
and in accordance with Scripture, accomplishes all that is needed .
Now a good example on your side , so to speak, was Abigail and her husband. She honored him and was a good wife to him, even though he was a despicable husband and horrible man, not of faith. Yahweh divinely spared their lives by Abigail's faithful actions, and without her complaining at all, nor attempting to change him,
Yahweh Himself took him out of the way, so she could honorably be King David's wife as Yahweh Planned.
< runs hand over my hair now , thinking > .... well, how about that ! Yahweh delivered her, after some time, from a husband who like you posted didn't handle his own life nor married life honorably, if he knew how he didn't show it, and he was unrighteous.
Yahweh accomplished what neither the husband nor the wife was able to.