The Tenth commandment simply states: Thou shalt not covet. It speaks of nothing else. The Apostle Paul continually states the Christian cannot be justified/ righteous by observing the law. He is not nor can he be referring to the law we often term the legalistic law, for that law could be faultlessly obeyed, therefore you could be justified by obeying it alone. Paul stated he as a Pharisee faultlessly observed that law(Phil3:6) as I imagine did the Pharisees of Jesus day,yet Christ said they did not know God. The problem was always the moral law of the Ten Commandments. But you have to fully understand what that law entails!
In romans ch7 Paul gave an example of why he had to die to the law(of righteousness) the example he gave was:Thou shalt not covet. one of the Ten Commandments. Many laws you can keep outwardly before others, but thou shalt not covet relates to law concerning the inner man, law that only you and God need know you break. No one on the inside lives a perfect life, that's the reality. The idea that a seventh day Adventist immediately and always resists every inward temptation, covetous thought that comes to them is ludicrous. In fact, in my experience sda members are those I have most found guilty of breaking the tenth commandment. I could explain why, but they would not be willing to listen.
Sadly, most on these websites are not interested in discussing worthwhile spiritual truth, or being honest about the reality of theirs and others lives, they only want to reel off pat head theology which is mostly devoid of reality.
However, thou shalt not covet is inflexible. You either covet/desire nothing you should not desire, or you are guilty of breaking the commandment. Making, or seeking to make excuses for breaking it is something that can never lead to worthwhile discussion, or growth in the Christian life. But I expect little of value from these websites these days.
But every cloud has a silver lining. Glad to read your posts
God bless