I could say wanting kids to the point of not marrying/divorcing someone over it would mean you are in sin since having kids has become your idol. Just as a spouse wanting constant around the clock sex would mean they made sex their idol.
Actually the bible does not say that anywhere. However if one wants to say that then one could also say sexes primary purpose is pleasure and bonding. Its one thing that surpasses most things in terms of bringing a couple even closer. Or I suppose you could say sex has two functions then. But neither is required in the bible. I mean a sexless, childless marriage probably wouldn't be for most people. But again, its never commanded we have sex or have kids.
How do you know if God placed it? I mean most people love kids of course. But I find alot of womens feeling about kids is based on what goes on around them. For example when my wife sees a new baby on facebook, she has that urge to want a kid again briefly. Just as if I see lets say a tasty food online, it makes me want to go eat that food. Then again I am not God so maybe He did give us the instinct to want kids. Though I do find it odd He didn't give it to men. If the purpose of marriage was kids, then obviously He would have gave men the instinct to want kids.
Going back to my one point though, womans urge to do alot of things goes back to the urge to bite that apple. Not saying woman can't have self control, but even from the start woman seems to have had an issue with "wanting". Again, not saying men are different. Men have urges too. However Eve was drawn to the apple first. |
Again I'd say its just a cherry picked verse taken out of context. If you read the whole section, its about filling the earth at a time when there is practically no one on earth. This is often the problem with many christians. They pick one single verse (or even part of one) to fit their view instead of realizing many things in the bible have whole sections dedicated to what the single verse is talking about.
For example heres a random verse:
Exodus 1:16
“When you are helping the Hebrew women during childbirth on the delivery stool, if you see that the baby is a boy, kill him; but if it is a girl, let her live.”
Ok, since its a random verse I guess it is saying any Hebrew women that has a boy, we should kill the boy right currently? You may say "But there is more to it than that, its part of a bigger section about something else!". And my response would be "Exactly!". When verses are used by themselves, we can make almost any verse fit a view we may have.
As for the earth being filled. It is filled. There are people everywhere. And supplies are slowly dwindling. But as stated, that verse was meant for that time.
As for kids, you say they are the building block of society. Some say they are our future. Our history. Our everything. But that cannot be true since the point of our current lives is to spread the "good news" and save people. Not to have kids, or to buy a boat or to cure cancer. Granted curing cancer would be good. This is why I say people overly focused on kids are making an idol of it. When I die God will not judge me and say "You had no children, you are in sin!". He will want to know (well He already does know) how many I saved. If my harvest was plentiful or if my land was barren.