I'm female, 18, training to be a youth leader, and a male student-10/11th grade-confided in me a past sin that he insists he'll never repeat. When he told me not to tell anyone, I felt I should've said "I won't tell anyone as long as it isn't something that would be better for another person to help us out with, and if I do need to tell someone else I'll ask you first" which is what my pastor mentioned in a sermon once. But instead I stuttered "O-of course," my first failure of the night. Then after he told me, I wanted to suggest to him to bring this up with a male youth leader, but instead I spazzed out again and just asked him if he'd already talked to a male youth leader about this, which he said "Not yet, but I'm never going to do (sin) again, so." I also missed my chance to minister to him, encourage him, etc, but I felt that the issue would not be appropriate for me as a female to discuss with him. I guess the question is, what is the appropriate way for a youth leader to respond when in a situation like that with a student that is of opposite gender? Same gender? Close in age? Far apart in age? And do I follow up? Any advice would be great
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