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Praise God, i'm satisifed.
Thanks! It went pretty well.All the best with your move. We did that recently; it can be stressful.
Exactly!
One or two verses suggest that women should be silent in church - but look at other areas of Scripture where we see women prophetesses, deacons and evangelists. Where women met with Jesus, received his healing, his word or a revelation and then went to tell others; the woman at the well, Mary Magdalene who was chosen, in place of a man, to be the first witness to the resurrection, Phoebe, the deacon, Lydia and other women who faithfully held prayer meetings in Philippi and may have been co founders of the church there, all those women who were co workers with Paul and were commended for their work for the Gospel.
Women were part of Paul's ministry. He made tents alongside Priscilla and Aquila, must surely have known that they taught Apollos and later greeted the church which met in their house. He wrote a letter to a church he had never visited, Rome, and gave it to a woman to deliver. He told people in that church how much he appreciated women's ministry. He instructed women in another church in prayer and prophecy - that WHEN they did these things, they were to cover their heads. In yet another church he spoke of two deaconesses; even though at that point they had a disagreement, yet they were faithful workers in the Gospel. As I said, that church, Philippi, started after Paul visited the city, found some women at the place of prayer, and converted, and then stayed, with them.
Knowing all this, and that as a Jew he would have been well aware of the roles that Miriam, Deborah, Huldah and Esther played in the life of his nation; why would he, in one of the last letters that he wrote, suddenly say "I want women to be silent and not have authority"?
There is no female deacon in the NT.
All of the other examples you gave go to just how involved women can be in the work of God WITHOUT USURPING male authority.
Paul did not contract himself when he talked about women being silent/under male authority. We can infer that because of Paul's COMMAND, that all those other examples (in the NT) you gave were acceptable because they were different than the idea of deaconship/eldership/teaching with authority in the church. The office of deacon/elder/preacher in the church is different than being a a general servant ("diakonos") of God, or evangelizing to lost souls outside of the church. Paul said what he said because of important God's hierarchy of authority is. He wasn't opposing or disregarding things that he once found acceptable...the things that are acceptable for women to do have certain regulations/applications. That's where the distinction comes in--we shouldn't assume that Paul only commanded silence because of the immediate culture...because then he would have contradicted himself since he praised women for their service at other times. You have to look at things from the opposite end of the spectrum.
And it's interesting you bring up head coverings. I believe the bible teaches they are also still relevant and essential today. My wife wears one when she prays along with men.
So 1 Cor. 11 teaches that women could prophesy and pray in the church, but the REGULATION of that kind of service had to be done SHOWING SUBMISSION to men/Christ/God...hence the head-coverings!
It all makes sense.
Intro to head-coverings:
It has everything to do with every Christian/scriptural discussion ever.Maybe they do; don't see what that has to do with this thread though.
Our flesh, both the mind's ego and the body's desire for comfort, constantly get in the way of our spiritual growth with God. Head coverings (for example since we just mentioned it) is one of the biggest testaments to how we don't dedicate enough time in exegesis or submission to God's word because of our flesh's weaknesses. Thanks be to Christ that we can overcome our imperfections.
You're right, it is up to God...hence why he spoke about it through Paul! Therefor, church's should not be deciding what women qualify for...only scripture.Granted.
But many churches have decided/agreed that women DO qualify for this aspect of God's work. Ultimately it's up to God; it's his work, he is the One who calls and he wants people to serve him.
We wouldn't have the church if we didn't have the bible.
I would agree that they are choosing the better thing to serve God with more focus rather than having a family. It goes back to WHAT their role/service is...not that they don't have a family. They can serve God without being in the pulpit or serving as a congregational overseer. Your first paragraph gave a lot of ways that God can be served, without breaching Paul's (God's) command.And what of the women who are putting God first by obeying his call to be preachers and Ministers? YOU don't believe them; the church does.
Making a way to do what is right is not the same as stopping them. He gives all men/women who have bibles an equal opportunity to read it to a point of familiarity and understand it.And yet earlier you said that God is leaving women in the "sin" of preaching and will punish them on judgement day. If he will always make a way to do what is right, why doesn't he stop them before they get anywhere near a pulpit?
And maybe right now, God's scripture being transcribed through me is making an outlet for you to know the truth so that you can make other women (that you may know) to fix the error of their ways.
The flesh is weak. We are all tempted by different things.
God allows us to be "given over" to our degrading passions. (Romans 1:26): now I'm not saying that this is a degrading passion as in the context of Romans 1, but the principal of GOD LET'S PEOPLE HAVE FREE WILL remains for all time.
And I wouldn't be surprised if many female preachers, at least in their beginning, had troubles with their conscience regarding that service. Maybe I should talk to some and find out.
If I can't read about it in my bible, then I won't believe it.Yes.
And sometimes he tells women to go out to work and men to stay at home. Sometimes he calls women specifically to preach and be Ministers in the church. It happens; fact.
That is my foundational source.
I see you ask a lot of specific application questions. Don't worry about all the specific applications (at least not unless you yourself are currently in a relevant one). Don't use other people's situations as evidence for why something should be binding or not.That might be the ideal; it doesn't always happen.
In the UK it's possible for a couple to meet at university. They may become engaged, as my nephew did, leave, owing £hundreds in student loans, get married and find a house together. Unless they have super rich parents, win the lottery or are left legacies from rich relatives, how are they going to afford to repay their student loans, pay a mortgage AND have enough for council tax, insurance, buying furniture and for daily living unless they both work? These days, cars and computers are a necessity, not a luxury. It shouldn't be that way, with all the poverty in the world, but it is. And this is before they even think of having children.
Supposing a man is made redundant but is desperate to work, so takes a lower paid job? They might still have a mortgage and young family, or they might have children who want to go to university, get married or buy their first house. How are they to afford that unless the wife takes a job as well?
I debate with atheists at work regarding God and they're always looking to point at some kind of problem going on in the world to denounce God's existence. Or they mention things "will people in obscure isolated tribes that has never heard of Jesus be sent to Hell?"...as evidence for why THEY shouldn't believe in God. It's IRRELEVANT. They have heard of Jesus, they have brains that can comprehend God's plan, therefor they need to believe in Jesus.
We could go through a lot of specific examples, but if we take passages like 1 Timothy 6:8 at face value, it's really easy to solve the answer every time.
We live in a physical world that ultimately means nothing. One day it will melt with intense heat according to 2 Peter 3. God never said we should get college educations, or that we deserve houses and cars. I'm NOT saying it's wrong to have these things...but it's all about priorities. A husband and wife can both work, while still fulfilling their roles under God.
I'll take your example and make it personal: My wife works, but it's part time and we don't have children...so she can be a keeper of the home and help generate income because we have a student loan too. But I would still make ends meet even if she didn't work. Right now we have 2 cars, I could get rid of one or both of them, or we could rent a cheaper place (no need to own a house and incur more debt), or we could not go out to eat once a week, or we could cut back on our grocery spending, etc., etc.
It can always be done...GOD WILL MAKE A WAY.
BUT IT INVOLVES US HUMANS BEING UNCOMFORTABLE. Most Europeans and Americans are near the top of the capitalistic/free market world. We like our EASY LIVES. We are super comfortable with how things are.
That doesn't make our lifestyles ESSENTIAL.
With food and covering, be content!
You're right. However, don't forget that many times people get into bad situations due to poor planning. And trying to take on things they aren't ready for.Why are you assuming that a husband and wife choose to work just so that they can have those things and live the good life? Some have to work to keep their heads above water. Two of my sisters-in-law wanted to stay at home with their new baby after their maternity leave; they couldn't afford to. If they had tried, they may have defaulted on their mortgage payments and lost their home. What good would that have done their family?
But sometimes that's life, and therefor yea, they might not have a choice and have to give their baby over to daycare or a nanny. So maybe it is better for them to work instead of being homeless or accumulating more debt.
But that still doesn't prove that it's acceptable in God's eyes to forsake their duties as wives.
They're just in a sucky situation.
But if they're Christians, theoretically...whether it was poor planning that got them into their mess, or just the chance of life, they should be able to go to the church and say "we need financial help so that we can serve in God's desired roles for us". And maybe the church helps until their husbands can make more money, or pick up a 2nd job, etc. to make it work without that assistance.
The church is supposed to aid its members (which probably doesn't happen enough).
Maybe it's just my misunderstanding but this seems like speculations.Paul hadn't been to Rome when he wrote his letter to the church there.
I'm sure that, as a Roman citizen, he knew all about Roman orgies and he had no proof that the church weren't being corrupted by them, yet he doesn't even mention it.
That example was besides the point. The point was: just because a text wasn't written to me and you specifically, or that Jesus doesn't appear to us individually, or because we aren't alive in the times when the apostles were preaching, etc., doesn't inherently mean that these biblical passages don't apply to us.
There is a HUGE different between Paul's cloak and "THE WOMEN ARE TO KEEP SILENT IN THE CHURCHES."Paul's letters were eventually circulated round the churches, but I am fairly sure that they would have glossed over any bits which were clearly not written to them. Like if Paul said "Barnabas will be coming to you shortly", Barnabas might already have been at the other church. Or if Paul said, bring my cloak and scrolls when you come to see me - they would not all have rushed off to do that.
We CAN learn from them all- exactly. We can learn that there is to be order in worship, that women are not to interrupt the speaker, ask questions or hold discussions among themselves and that people who speak in tongues and prophesy should do so only one at a time.
The apostle's teachings stem from the Gospel of Christ...and the Gospel is for ALL, for ALL TIME.
And part of that order is women being in submission to male authority of teaching.
No, I'm saying that the principals remain, and the fact that we need to apply them today remains, but sometimes the specific application can vary because the principal is not forsaken.Exactly.
That shows that you are not applying every word of Scripture literally but are looking for the truth/concept that is being taught and asking how we apply that. So why write as though the verses about women are a firm command for everyone today and that those who disobey are being mislead?
So I can be modest by wearing loose jeans and a t-shirt, but a woman can't not usurp authority/can't not serve as an elder, etc. WITHOUT breaking the principal.
The specifics i'm talking about are irrelevant to the principal. A man can preach with the help of a projector or just with a bible...as long as he's preaching God's word. The project doesn't break the principal of preaching the Gospel--it's just an aid.
Likewise, you can partake of the vine portion of the communion with one single cup or multiple cups...as long a we don't betray the principal or the limitations of the communion. For instance, using Mountain Dew as "the fruit of the vine" would be wrong because it's not fruit of the vine! Some specifics of application can be changed without interrupting command. Other specifics, cannot be changed.
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