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Are women inferior to men?

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Continued.

Unless, or course, we think 'we' are more capable of determining God's will than He.

Of course not - and he is much better at understanding his will than we are.

The entire purpose of the Bible is a source we can turn to in order to discern the 'truth'. QUOTE]

The entire purpose of the Bible is to reveal God, his nature and his plan of salvation.

Since we cannot place our faith in 'men', God gave us His Word so that we can 'know' the answers to questions that 'men' cannot be trusted to offer.

There are an awful lot of things that the Bible doesn't tell us - like where does God want us to live, what job should we have, who should we marry, what church should we join, not to mention questions like "what does the Greek say in this verse and what does it mean?" "what was the custom in those days about ....?" "Who were these false teachers that were around at the time? What were they teaching?" Regarding these latter questions, we need to trust others to tell us the answers, unless we are language experts, and knowledgeable about the customs of the time. Regarding the former questions, we have to trust that we can listen to God, getting rid of our own ideas and prejudices, and/or use the common sense that he gave us.
 
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So in essence I'm discussing issues of faith with those that don't even accept what we are offered in the Bible??????

No wonder we have such a difficult time coming to agreement.

If your belief is that you can pick and choose the parts of the Bible that you place your faith in, that would void whatever parts you don't like, agree with or understand. Pretty iffy 'faith' from my perspective. Sounds more like creating a 'faith of your own' instead of being 'followers' of that which has been revealed.

So where does this concept of 'some of the Bible is true' and 'other parts are just the ideas of men' end? It would seem to me to be the 'perfect' means of accepting what one 'likes' and discarding that which one 'doesn't like' or agree with.

Now it's not merely a matter of interpretation of what is offered, but choosing which things are 'of God' and those which are 'of men'????? Good luck with that folks. Which among us is 'more inspired' than Paul, John or, heck, Christ Himself? For that is basically what is being suggested. That 'we' are capable of determining which of Paul's words were directly inspired and which weren't. Which words of Christ Himself were 'true' and which were 'not'. Would anyone here indicate that Christ's words were inspired by the 'culture' of the Jews?

I believe exactly what Christ stated. If one of your hands offends you it would be 'better' to cut it off than end up allowing that hand to guide you to death. But it would seem that some think that they should only 'turn the other cheek' until they get angry or decide that it's no longer prudent. Yet we are not told to 'only' turn the other cheek as long as you 'feel' like it. What if the promises of God were offered in such a manner?

The 'idea' that Paul, in regards to the 'place' of women in the Churches, is offering 'personal opinion' instead of the 'inspired word of God' is utterly eliminated by these words:

36 What? came the word of God out from you? or came it unto you only?

37 If any man think himself to be a prophet, or spiritual, let him acknowledge that the things that I write unto you are the commandments of the Lord.

38 But if any man be ignorant, let him be ignorant.

So, if anyone here believes themselves to be a 'prophet' or even 'spiritual' so far as the 'truth' is concerned, let them acknowledge that Paul's words are the commandments of the Lord. Not 'allegory', his 'opinion' or 'personal interpretation' of that which inspired him, but the commandments of the Lord.

But if any be ignorant, let them be ignorant.

Blessings,

MEC
 
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You know, I've noticed a surprising tendency among believers who don't believe that the Holy Spirit moves today on the same way today that He did during the time of the apostles- they, almost to a man, all seem to think that women are inferior to men and shouldn't open their mouths in church.

I'm sure there are exceptions to this, just as I am sure there are those who believe in the gifts of the Spirit and still treat women as inferior, but its still an interesting correlation.

Why, it's almost as if the same spirit that denies the gifts of the Spirit is also trying to deny women the ability to speak.

Oh, wait.

It is!

Being 'under obedience' does not make one 'inferior'. It actually shows one's acceptance of God's commandments.

Blessings,

MEC
 
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And concerning 'culture'.

Which do you suppose more closely resembles God's will: the culture of Israel at the time of Christ, or our 'culture' today?

For it has been supposed that the 'culture' of the time had an influence on the writings of the apostles. If so, would 'their culture' be more 'in tune' to the will of God or 'ours' as it exists presently?

Blessings,

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So in essence I'm discussing issues of faith with those that don't even accept what we are offered in the Bible?????

No you're not.
But it sounds like I might be essentially trying to discuss/explain exegesis with someone who doesn't agree with it, and thinks that any study of the Bible is just "picking and choosing the bits that you like."

It's insulting and wrong to suggest that people who study the Bible like this don't believe it.

If your belief is that you can pick and choose the parts of the Bible that you place your faith in, that would void whatever parts you don't like, agree with or understand.

But that isn't my belief, so that's ok.

So where does this concept of 'some of the Bible is true' and 'other parts are just the ideas of men' end?

I didn't say that.
Do you not understand about exegesis? Or is it that you believe we have to accept Scripture literally, word for word, and have to apply it all to our lives today, irrespective of the issue?

Now it's not merely a matter of interpretation of what is offered, but choosing which things are 'of God' and those which are 'of men'????? Good luck with that folks. Which among us is 'more inspired' than Paul, John or, heck, Christ Himself? For that is basically what is being suggested. That 'we' are capable of determining which of Paul's words were directly inspired and which weren't. Which words of Christ Himself were 'true' and which were 'not'.

Sorry but either you don't understand what I said, or you don't want to try to understand.
 
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And concerning 'culture'.

Which do you suppose more closely resembles God's will: the culture of Israel at the time of Christ, or our 'culture' today?

For it has been supposed that the 'culture' of the time had an influence on the writings of the apostles. If so, would 'their culture' be more 'in tune' to the will of God or 'ours' as it exists presently?

Blessings,

MEC
I'd say the culture of Israel at the time of the Gospel's writing would have been rather contradictory to the will of God, seeing as He, you know, sent the Roman's to burn the entire city of Jerusalem to the ground. So, you know. Probably our time.
 
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It all can be believed. But we pick how we want to
apply, which parts to our lives, minute by minute.

While I agree with the conclusion, my question would be: "Should it be this way"?

For that is what I seem to continue to 'hear' others 'say'. When the words of Paul are crystal clear and then someone says that they aren't. I can't help but question 'why'? Why would someone indicate that the words are anything 'but' clear?

Obviously your conclusion is obviously the answer.

Some people just don't 'like' what they read and insist that it means something different. And if that doesn't work, they add: 'well, you have to take the 'culture' into consideration to understand that it really doesn't 'apply to us' now days.

And that, to me, is an utterly contrary and contentious concept. If God doesn't 'change'. Then His Word doesn't 'change' either. It's people that change. God's word is just as powerful and intact today as it was the day it was inspired. Culture doesn't have anything to do with it unless you believe that God has a 'culture'. And the idea that I 'need' to understand the 'culture' of the time the books of the Bible were written in order to understand what God intended to reveal is just as contrary and contentious as the idea that God has 'changed'.

Let me offer this: Why would 'anyone' place their faith in a God that can 'change'? I would offer this as well: one of the attributes of God is that when He reveals something, it is the 'truth'. And the truth doesn't 'change'.

Blessings,

MEC
 
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While I agree with the conclusion, my question would be: "Should it be this way"?

For that is what I seem to continue to 'hear' others 'say'. When the words of Paul are crystal clear and then someone says that they aren't. I can't help but question 'why'? Why would someone indicate that the words are anything 'but' clear?

Obviously your conclusion is obviously the answer.

Some people just don't 'like' what they read and insist that it means something different. And if that doesn't work, they add: 'well, you have to take the 'culture' into consideration to understand that it really doesn't 'apply to us' now days.

And that, to me, is an utterly contrary and contentious concept. If God doesn't 'change'. Then His Word doesn't 'change' either. It's people that change. God's word is just as powerful and intact today as it was the day it was inspired. Culture doesn't have anything to do with it unless you believe that God has a 'culture'. And the idea that I 'need' to understand the 'culture' of the time the books of the Bible were written in order to understand what God intended to reveal is just as contrary and contentious as the idea that God has 'changed'.

Let me offer this: Why would 'anyone' place their faith in a God that can 'change'? I would offer this as well: one of the attributes of God is that when He reveals something, it is the 'truth'. And the truth doesn't 'change'.

Blessings,

MEC

Paul was under the influence of the Holy Spirit.
But he was a mortal man and applied scripture
as he saw fit at the time.
 
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When the words of Paul are crystal clear and then someone says that they aren't. I can't help but question 'why'? Why would someone indicate that the words are anything 'but' clear?

But they aren't "crystal clear"; that's the whole problem. If they were, then I suggest that all those God loving, Spirit filled women who are ordained, wouldn't be. I don't believe that Christians who love God, long to serve him, seek his guidance, are born again and love God's word would deliberately disobey the "crystal clear" teachings of Scripture and the commands of the God whom they love. Some people seem to answer the question of why there are women Ministers/vicars today with the dismissive statement "they're just disobedient, feminists or whatever". That is an insult and not good enough. It's not good enough to dismiss hundreds of spiritual women who desire to serve God has led them to preach/be ordained as selfish, self seeking, disobedient followers. Not that you're doing this, but some do.

So what are these "crystal clear" verses of Scripture?
1Timothy 2:11-15, maybe?
A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet. For Adam was formed first, then Eve. And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner. But women will be saved through childbearing – if they continue in faith, love and holiness with propriety.

"A woman should learn in silence and submission."
Absolutely correct. Everyone should learn in silence; you can't hear what's being said if you're talking while someone else is.
"I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet."
Ok, PAUL did not allow a woman to teach a man - so why did he let Priscilla teach Apollos? Yes her husband was with her, but she still taught. Scripture doesn't say how much of the teaching she did; it may have been very little or almost all of it. Nevertheless, she taught.
And the next question is, how is being ordained, being Minister of a church or even just being a preacher, assuming authority over a man? I don't believe that it is - so to make the connection, "women can't be Ministers because Paul did not allow them to assume authority over men", would be wrong. I don't know what it's like in your church, but in mine, the Minister does not have authority over people - he/she does not tell men how to live, where to live, what job to have, who to marry, how much money to give to the church, how to use their gifts or anything else. Sermons are not about "You must do as I say in my church because I'm in charge". Any Minister who thought like that should be disciplined - it is not their church, but God's, and he gives them everything they have, including the authority and right to be there and the privilege of serving his congregation.
"For Adam was formed first, then Eve."
That's not crystal clear; what does it mean? That Adam had authority over Eve just because he was created first? That doesn't follow. Everything was created before humans were; we were the last to be created, yet God gave Adam and Eve authority over all the animals. That tells me that it is not the order of creation that gives authority, but God the Creator. Which is what I just said; GOD gives authority.
"And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner."
What does that mean? Is the argument being made that women cannot be ordained because Eve was deceived by the serpent and sinned, therefore women are gullible? If so, it's a lousy argument. Eve was deceived, yes. Adam deliberately disobeyed a command from God. He KNEW what God asked of him, he had heard God speaking to him personally, yet he still disobeyed. Eve had not heard God speak in this way - she hadn't been created when God spoke to Adam - and was deceived by the serpent. That suggests to me that she didn't know God's will and so was tricked into doing wrong. But it is not correct to imply a woman cannot be ordained because Eve was deceived. Adam was wilfully disobedient, yet no such restrictions are put on men. I don't want a Minister who knows God's will but who preaches/teaches the opposite, thank you. If that was all that was on offer, I'd rather stay at home and miss church altogether.
"But women will be saved through childbearing – if they continue in faith, love and holiness with propriety."
So what does this crystal clear verse mean then? Salvation is nothing to do with childbirth, otherwise only women would be saved. I don't believe that anyone would say that a woman cannot be saved until she has children, so what did Paul mean?

1 Timothy 2:12 is often quoted when the subject of female ministers comes up. But it is not right to take one verse only, quote it out of context and build a doctrine on it. So what do these other verses, which are all part of Paul's argument, mean? And how do they fit into other Scriptural teaching? Women must be quiet - ok, so why does he allow them to pray and prophesy? Women cannot assume authority over men - ok, so why did God choose Deborah to lead the nation, and choose Mary Magdalene to go into a roomful of men and tell them that his Son had risen? How come Paul had female co-workers, who he obviously valued greatly?

Crystal clear teaching on this subject would be; "Jesus said, 'I will build my church, the gates of hell will not overcome it and a woman will never, ever lead it - not now, or in generations to come". Or "then God spoke to Paul and said, 'teach your churches and disciples that women are not allowed to lead; at no time, under no circumstances".
If Jesus, and Paul, had taught this, if the early church had not allowed women to serve at all, except maybe to provide hospitality and look after the kids, then I'd say that the teaching about women's role in churches was "crystal clear". But the fact is, they didn't teach or practice this.
 
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Strong in Him,

Once again, your reasoning is askew.

There are many 'things' offered perfectly clearly in the Bible that many 'proclaiming' to be 'followers' do "not" follow. Why do you insist that women who do not accept Paul's words pertaining to the 'role' of women in the Church make Paul's words 'unclear'?

You seem to be insistent upon 'equality'. The clay doesn't determine it's 'shape', it is the potter that takes the clay and forms whatever shape 'he' determines.

Your reasoning offered in every aspect seems to be more biased than those you oppose. You seem to have taken on an 'anti man' attitude that is reflected in almost everything you post. It's like you are insistent upon 'non' understanding of verses that 'are indeed' perfectly clear.

When it is offer that: "a woman shall be 'saved' through 'childbirth', this is directed TO women. Yet you indicate that if it's 'good for the woman' then it must pertain to the 'man' as well. Why? Why can't God treat His creation in any manner He chooses so long as it is done out of "LOVE"?

And I'm really confused where you find in the scriptures Priscilla having the role of 'teacher of men'. And if this 'one' example you offer is due to mis-translation, what then? If it could be clearly proven to you that Priscilla was 'not' a teacher of men, what then?

But how about this: How about we approach this from a different 'angle'. How about you tell 'me' what Paul's words pertaining to women remaining silent in the Churches means. If it was meant to tell both men and women to 'learn in silence', don't you believe that it would have been more general in it's delivery? So 'why' does Paul directly address 'women' with the words offered pertaining to authority and remaining 'silent' in the Churches?

Blessings,

MEC

You continually indicate that 'your way' is better or more preferable than God's way. That is, if we use the Bible as the source of our understanding.

What does 'fair' mean? For it would seem that you are more 'caught up' in what 'you' perceive as 'fair' than any sort of 'order' we have been given in understanding. I believe that if you could simply 'get over' the concept of 'everything needs to be fair according to my view' you may find it much easier to accept words that are offered as clearly as they could be.

Now, a question: What source of information can we use to determine the 'truth'. If a woman 'claims' to have been 'called by God' to be ordained, what source of information can we faithfully turn to to know whether what she speaks is the truth or 'untruth'?

You see, God does not want us to be ignorant concerning the things that we do or believe. But it's up to us to accept and follow what He has revealed.

David Koresh influenced many to believe what he 'said'. Jim Jones convinced many to believe what he 'said'. But if any of those that were deceived had placed their faith in God's Word as offered, none of them 'could' have been deceived in such a manner.

These people 'chose' to be deceived. They placed their faith in 'his words' rather than in God's Words. But I'll bet if you had asked any when they were alive, they would have adamantly defended each as if they were Christ Himself. Yet we can clearly see that both were utter deceivers. Nothing that they 'spoke' was inspired by God, the Father of Christ. So it's pretty clear that those that followed these two individuals found the words of the Bible to be 'unclear' due to their desire to 'follow' that which fulfilled their desires rather than pleasing God.

I see this very concept in almost everything you offer. You are insistent upon viewing everything offered concerning the roles of men and women from your own desire to see things differently. And then insist that the Bible is not 'clear'. When the answer is: it's not clear to 'you' because you don't want to accept what it offers. But almost everyone else, it is perfectly clear.

I don't care if you choose to be a minister or run around calling yourself Christ. That is something that you are going to have to face the responsibility for. But when someone tries to influence others by saying that the Bible isn't clear about particular concepts that it 'IS' perfectly clear, I can't help but step in and do my best to defend God's Word.

Do I 'follow' God's Word to perfection? Oh my. Not even close. But there is a 'big' difference between understanding and following. What you continually attempt to do is indicate that you don't 'know' the truth. Even the things that I don't follow I accept as being 'unrighteous'. When we start to convince ourselves that we don't 'know' what is righteous or unrighteous we end up on a completely different path than that which leads to the truth. And it is the truth that we are to seek:

John 4:23
But the hour cometh, and now is, when the true worshippers shall worship the Father in spirit and in truth: for the Father seeketh such to worship him.

But you continually indicate that the 'truth' is 'subjective'. Taking words that are perfectly clear and insisting that they are not.
 
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The clay doesn't determine it's 'shape', it is the potter that takes the clay and forms whatever shape 'he' determines.

Exactly.
It wasn't my idea to be a preacher, it was his. For over 30 years I told God that I did not want a preaching ministry. I knew he had called me to do pastoral work in the Anglican church. I didn't know exactly what form that would take, and didn't mind, as long as it didn't involve preaching.
But saying, "no, Lord" is not an option. If there is any area of our lives that is not surrendered to him, then he is not Lord. If we commit our lives to God's service but are secretly holding one area back, then we are not committed to his service. He is the Lord and the potter. If we commit ourselves to him then he has the right to ask us to go anywhere and to do anything -and if we don't like that idea; we need to be careful before we enter his service.

Just as Jonah had to be prepared, as God's servant, to do something that he didn't want to do but he knew God did - so did I.
I am now a preacher in the Methodist church.

Your reasoning offered in every aspect seems to be more biased than those you oppose. You seem to have taken on an 'anti man' attitude that is reflected in almost everything you post.

Nonsense!
I've been asking questions about these "crystal clear" scriptures and trying to offer my own understanding, based on exegesis and on what I see in the rest of Scripture about the role of women.
All men and women should be free to use the gifts that God has given them and serve him in any way that he calls them to serve. I pointed out that the culture now is very different from that of Bible times - that is not an "anti male" statement, it's the truth. In Jesus' day, women had no rights, could be divorced on the whim of their husbands and the Pharisees daily praised God that he hadn't made them female. I hate that culture, but accept that that's how it was then. I think that places like Saudi Arabia sound quite dreadful and would be critical of anyone who tried to impose it on us, the church, from a misguided belief that unless we adopt Biblical culture and every one of their practices, then we are somehow not believing the Bible's teaching. But that doesn't make me anti men - I've been married to one for 25 years and grew up with 3 brothers.

When it is offer that: "a woman shall be 'saved' through 'childbirth', this is directed TO women. Yet you indicate that if it's 'good for the woman' then it must pertain to the 'man' as well.

I didn't say anything of the kind!
I was asking you what it meant. Women are not saved through, or by, childbirth; they're saved by Jesus, just the same as men are. Some Christian women had horrific experiences in childbirth, some may have died, whereas others, like me, have never experienced it. So what does Paul mean when he says that a woman will be saved through childbirth?

And I'm really confused where you find in the scriptures Priscilla having the role of 'teacher of men'.

I said that she taught Apollos, not that she was a teacher of men.
Acts 18 tells us that she and her husband explained the way of God more fully to Apollos. I conceded that she taught alongside her husband, but also pointed out that Scripture doesn't tell us how much of the teaching she did.
I also said that if it's wrong for a woman to teach, then it's wrong for a woman to teach, and she should not have done it at all. And that wasn't the only example that I gave - I said that prophecy and evangelism involve teaching, and referred to female prophets mentioned in the Bible.

But how about this: How about we approach this from a different 'angle'. How about you tell 'me' what Paul's words pertaining to women remaining silent in the Churches means.

I've already done that to some extent, with 1 Timothy 2:12, and have also written about it at length, elsewhere.
How about you answer some of my questions and tell me what these "crystal clear" scriptures mean?

To be continued.
 
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Continued.

You continually indicate that 'your way' is better or more preferable than God's way. That is, if we use the Bible as the source of our understanding.

No I don't.
I've been talking about our understanding of Scripture and the way we read it. I've been asking if you believe we should take it all literally and apply all of it to us today, even passages which obviously can't be applied to us literally and were never intended to be.

What does 'fair' mean? For it would seem that you are more 'caught up' in what 'you' perceive as 'fair' than any sort of 'order' we have been given in understanding. I believe that if you could simply 'get over' the concept of 'everything needs to be fair according to my view' you may find it much easier to accept words that are offered as clearly as they could be.

?? Where did I say that women have to be ordained/be preachers because otherwise it's not fair?

Now, a question: What source of information can we use to determine the 'truth'. If a woman 'claims' to have been 'called by God' to be ordained, what source of information can we faithfully turn to to know whether what she speaks is the truth or 'untruth'?

1. Scripture.
Scripture does not say "women cannot be ordained"; those exact words are not in the Bible anywhere. There are some verses where Paul talks about women being silent, and one or two more where he says that a deacon must have one wife, and people have read between the lines, put two and two together to make 5 and concluded that these verses prove that a woman cannot be ordained, but Scripture does not say that. If you are in favour of taking Scripture at face value, then that's a teaching that isn't there.

What Scripture does teach, and show, us is that in the chauvinistic world of the NT, Jesus treated women exceptionally well. The world, at that time, said that a woman was not allowed to learn, be educated - Jesus allowed Mary to sit at his feet, in the place reserved for the male students of Rabbis, and said that she had chosen the best way. Women, at that time, could be easily divorced - Jesus quoted the Scriptures which reminded them that God planned marriage to be for life. Women, at that time, were thought to be unreliable witnesses in a court of law (if they were even allowed to be in a court of law) - Jesus chose a woman to be the first witness to his resurrection.
Also in the NT I see a church which had no problem with women and treated them as Jesus had done; allowing them to be in the upper room after the ascension, allowing them to be deacons and deaconesses. Paul accepted and commended them as his co-workers, and Lydia was probably one of the founder members of the church at Philippi. Paul also gave teaching about how a woman should pray and prophesy, which means he agreed with them doing this, and did not teach, anywhere, that certain gifts of the Spirit are for MEN only.
Against all this background, it doesn't make sense for him to suddenly say, "women should be silent, I do not allow them to teach" - which is why I've been asking what he meant by those verses.

2. The church
Anyone who says they are called should submit that calling to the church; asking other Christians, who may be older, wiser and more experienced, to pray about it and discern the Lord's will and guidance. I don't know about some smaller churches, but mostly this is what happens. No one just stands up on a Sunday and says "I feel led to give the sermon today" or "I was called earlier in the week to lead this congregation". Scripture teaches that all matters should be brought before the church - like disputes - and prophecies should be tested.
So if a woman says "I believe God is calling me to be ordained", and the church prays about it, interviews her, tests and assesses her, trains her and finally ordains her - showing that they obviously agree with that calling. The church, incidentally, is all the people - the congregations - but is also made up of male clergy, theologians, bishops etc. If the church doesn't agree with a woman's calling to ordination, then she remains unordained, however strong her "feeling". She may leave and go to a church that does recognise this call to be from God, but if she stays in her own church she will have to continue as a lay person.

David Koresh influenced many to believe what he 'said'. Jim Jones convinced many to believe what he 'said'. But if any of those that were deceived had placed their faith in God's Word as offered, none of them 'could' have been deceived in such a manner.

Not quite true because people interpret the Bible in different ways. Moonies, Mormons, JWs and other cults claim their teachings are Scriptural. The Pharisees in Jesus' day quoted the Scriptures. This was not wrong, but they stuck rigidly to their interpretation of the Scriptures and missed the truth of what Jesus taught them. They were so wedded to the old covenant that they missed the new that had come and the new way in which God was working.

I see this very concept in almost everything you offer. You are insistent upon viewing everything offered concerning the roles of men and women from your own desire to see things differently. And then insist that the Bible is not 'clear'. When the answer is: it's not clear to 'you' because you don't want to accept what it offers. But almost everyone else, it is perfectly clear.

No I'm not. I've been asking what you understand by certain Scriptures, and trying to explain that I do not believe that they teach the things you claim that they do nor that they should be applied literally to us today. You seem to interpret that as "picking and choosing bits from the Bible that I don't like"; being selective in which teachings I follow.
And if this matter WAS "perfectly clear" to everybody else, then we wouldn't have all these debates and arguments - the church simply would not allow women to preach or be ordained. All of us who said "I believe God is calling me to do this" would be told to go away and not be so silly/disobedient/heretical. Does this happen today? No, God calls women to preach and be Ministers in his church, and the church agrees, is often blessed by the woman's ministry, and grows. Neither God, nor his church, prevents women from following his call.

I don't care if you choose to be a minister or run around calling yourself Christ. That is something that you are going to have to face the responsibility for.

Yes, when God says to me, "I called you to be a preacher; how did you respond to that call and use the gifts IO have given you?" I will need to answer. Just as if God says to some people - and I believe he will - "why did you prevent women from serving me, or insult them and belittle their calling?" they will have to have an answer.

What you continually attempt to do is indicate that you don't 'know' the truth.

What you continually demonstrate is that you don't read and understand Scripture in the same way as I do - and clearly it must be me who is wrong.

If you believe that the words "as in all the churches, a woman should be silent", or "I do not permit a woman to teach, she should be silent" apply to us today and are literally true, then great. I hope you obey and apply them. Maybe you should leave this conversation and forum so as not to risk being taught by a woman. Maybe you shouldn't read books/sing hymns written by women in case you learn something about God. And I hope that you don't allow your wife/sisters/daughters/female cousins to speak, read the Scriptures, pray or prophesy in church (even though Paul allowed the latter). You have the right, and in fact must, remain true to what you believe Scripture is teaching. Personally, I believe your interpretation to be wrong, but you sincerely believe it is what God is saying, so you must follow it - and I respect, and admire, your decision to do so. But I also have the right to follow, not only what I believe Scripture to be saying but what I believe God has called me to do. I have the right to do that without abuse/scorn from other Christians. IF I am disobeying God because I am preaching the Gospel, it is up to God to challenge, rebuke and remove me from that position.
I do not enter these debates to ask for permission to preach or to defend my position and ask "is it ok for me to do this?" The only opinions that matter are those of God and my church - if either were to say "no, you're not doing this", then I wouldn't. I wouldn't argue, say it wasn't fair or try to push for "equality" - I'd simply rejoice in obeying God's will and in not having to spend so much time writing sermons.

But you continually indicate that the 'truth' is 'subjective'. Taking words that are perfectly clear and insisting that they are not.

No I don't. You continually indicate that either you have not read my posts, or you don't understand them.

I look forward to you explaining these "perfectly clear" Scriptures to me and answering my questions.
 
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But how about this: How about we approach this from a different 'angle'. How about you tell 'me' what Paul's words pertaining to women remaining silent in the Churches means. If it was meant to tell both men and women to 'learn in silence', don't you believe that it would have been more general in it's delivery? So 'why' does Paul directly address 'women' with the words offered pertaining to authority and remaining 'silent' in the Churches?

Paul spoke in error. Those who chose to include some of his statements
about women also missed the error due to the culture they were raised in.
There are some passages that override Paul and they are ignored by men
and considered "not applicable" again, by men.

When I brought up a verse about how to "treat others, like you would want to be treated"
one person protested that I had cherry-picked my verses. I responded with 7 similar
versions of the golden rule in scripture. I wasn't the one picking on women who
are too mouthy in church after all.
 
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David Koresh influenced many to believe what he 'said'. Jim Jones convinced many to believe what he 'said'. But if any of those that were deceived had placed their faith in God's Word as offered, none of them 'could' have been deceived in such a manner.
Yet that is the direction you are taking.
 
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Yet you indicate that if it's 'good for the woman' then it must pertain to the 'man' as well. Why?

Because you:

May not direct others in ways you do not wish them to direct you in a similar fashion.

So "gender guidelines" are out. Paul spoke out of an immature understanding.
 
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Wow, SkyWriting: are you actually saying that Paul was wrong?

Many people are detail oriented. I am the opposite of that.
I recognise overarching principals that may guide the formation
of smaller and less researched local statutes.

So, can we back up Paul's controversial edicts with support
from other scriptural sources? Let's give him a fair shake.
Who else in scripture, is in favor of keeping women quiet?
 
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Does it matter? We could make the same claim regarding other statements that Paul makes: he's the only one to mention them.

Absolutely. Lets question his every comment.
 
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