Well Extraneous, the problem is that we DON'T know the gospel teaches good things. And the reason we don't know is because no one has ever been allowed to find out. Since we're now permitted to live if we ask questions, it's safe to start unpacking this thing.
All the goodness you speak of is the inbuilt PR of the faith. It's not a demonstrated fact. It's simply what you were taught. You could as easily have been taught that Charles Manson was necessarily good, and you'd now be finding ways to justify his actions in light of his necessary goodness. You'd be claiming his goodness has improved your life, etc. You'd be upset when people had the audacity to mention the fact that he's also a vicious killer or whatever.
The upshot is that you're trying to silence us, albeit in more peaceable and reasonable terms than the church has done for the past 1700 years. You don't want your god questioned, nor slighted in any way. I understand that. The thing is that our questioning and bringing to light the darker elements of your faith don't diminish your prior experience. Even if you decided tomorrow that it was all a big con, and there are likely no gods, it wouldn't diminish or remove any of your prior good experiences. They would not disappear. You remain the improved version of yourself that you are today. Why? Because you did all those improvements. They're not 'loaned' to you, to be repossessed at any time. They're yours forever.