Why does God answer some prayers but ignore others?

[ObamaChristian]

Suppose me and my friend both prays that our son gets into college. There is only one spot left. If God grants my prayer, God cannot grant his.

Will God grant someone's prayer who is Christian over someone who is not?
Will God grant it based on the merit of how good the person is?
Or will God ignore both prayers?

 

[Hetta]

Suppose me and my friend both prays that our son gets into college. There is only one spot left. If God grants my prayer, God cannot grant his.

Will God grant someone's prayer who is Christian over someone who is not?
Will God grant it based on the merit of how good the person is?
Or will God ignore both prayers?

ISTM that God is not involved in the "small stuff". It will depend largely on which of these boys has the best qualification for the place, imo, and it may depend on who reviews the application.

 

[Viren]

God will grant what's best for both parties. The problem is we think we know what's best and don't trust God. Having trust is more important than gaining favors.

 

[ObamaChristian]

ISTM that God is not involved in the "small stuff". It will depend largely on which of these boys has the best qualification for the place, imo, and it may depend on who reviews the application.

So essentially what you are saying is that it is useless to pray unless it is for big things? Or are you saying it is useless to pray altogether.

 

[ObamaChristian]

God will grant what's best for both parties. The problem is we think we know what's best and don't trust God. Having trust is more important than gaining favors.

What then would be the point of prayers?

 

[Lollerskates]

Suppose me and my friend both prays that our son gets into college. There is only one spot left. If God grants my prayer, God cannot grant his.

Will God grant someone's prayer who is Christian over someone who is not?
Will God grant it based on the merit of how good the person is?
Or will God ignore both prayers?

Because He isn't a djinn/genie, and an answered prayer means an alignment to His will.

So, if you didn't get that job, or Lambo, then it probably wasn't His will or alignment for your life, and others.

 

[Hetta]

So essentially what you are saying is that it is useless to pray unless it is for big things? Or are you saying it is useless to pray altogether.

We pray out of obedience. I prayed when my youngest kid was up for a place at a very popular magnet school. I prayed because I believe that God is pleased when we turn to Him in prayer and in faith. My son was selected, but I suspect that had more to do with his high grades than anything else.

 

[ObamaChristian]

We pray out of obedience. I prayed when my youngest kid was up for a place at a very popular magnet school. I prayed because I believe that God is pleased when we turn to Him in prayer and in faith. My son was selected, but I suspect that had more to do with his high grades than anything else.

Why then wouldn't our prayers, simply praise God, instead of asking for favors. If prayers are about pleasing God, then why do so many ask God for things in prayers instead of simply praising him.

 

[Hetta]

Why then wouldn't our prayers, simply praise God, instead of asking for favors. If prayers are about pleasing God, then why do so many ask God for things in prayers instead of simply praising him.

I am not going to dictate to anyone else how they should pray and I'm not going to criticize them either. It is intensely personal.

Psalm 145:18 - The Lord is close to all who call on him, yes, to all who call on him sincerely.

Phil 4:6 - Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done.

There are lots more scriptures about prayer. You can look them up for yourself.

 

[Viren]

What then would be the point of prayers?

To have a relationship with God.

 

[PsychoSarah]

God will grant what's best for both parties. The problem is we think we know what's best and don't trust God. Having trust is more important than gaining favors.

What if what is best for either party is both succeeding, an impossible event at this point, and all other options end badly?

 

[Viren]

What if what is best for either party is both succeeding, an impossible event at this point, and all other options end badly?

What's success in God's eyes? According to the Bible his main concern is with the heart not worldly success necessarily.

 

[PsychoSarah]

What's success in God's eyes? According to the Bible his main concern is with the heart not worldly success necessarily.

Then add the context of "in the opinion of god"

 

[Viren]

Then add the context of "in the opinion of god"

It's the sun's opinion that it's energy will help life on earth. God want's to give people what they're yearning for, but people resist.

 

[ForJesusChrist]

Prayer is not a pass to get what you want. Just because you pray does not mean you will get it. God has a plan for us all and He knows what is best and He will do so. For example, if you prayed for someone to get hit, God would not just hurl a car at the person. God does answer every prayer, but keep in mind He does as He knows is right.

God Bless

 

[keith99]

We pray out of obedience. I prayed when my youngest kid was up for a place at a very popular magnet school. I prayed because I believe that God is pleased when we turn to Him in prayer and in faith. My son was selected, but I suspect that had more to do with his high grades than anything else.

This is why I like some Christians.

Might I also suggest praying that God will look out for any protect you and yours rather than for specific 'victories'?

Members of the 1942 Boston college Football team would agree.
HC vs BC: The 1942 Upset | magazine.holycross.edu

 

[ForJesusChrist]

We should not pray for an easier life, but rather guidance and aid from our Lord Jesus Christ.

God Bless

 

[Ana the Ist]

Suppose me and my friend both prays that our son gets into college. There is only one spot left. If God grants my prayer, God cannot grant his.

Will God grant someone's prayer who is Christian over someone who is not?
Will God grant it based on the merit of how good the person is?
Or will God ignore both prayers?

Perhaps god ignores all prayers and one of your sons just gets into college without any divine aid.

 

[PsychoSarah]

Perhaps god ignores all prayers and one of your sons just gets into college without any divine aid.

Or worse, god gets mad that people are asking for favors

 

[quatona]

Suppose me and my friend both prays that our son gets into college. There is only one spot left. If God grants my prayer, God cannot grant his.

Will God grant someone's prayer who is Christian over someone who is not?
Will God grant it based on the merit of how good the person is?
Or will God ignore both prayers?

I have never understood the idea that the guy with the great masterplan will change his ways on your demand.
And if assuming that - for whatever obscure reason - he really does, I am wondering how (being omnipotent and all that) he couldn´t spontaneously create an additional slot.