But then, if there is such a God with the qualities identified by Christians, Jews, and Muslims, then He gets to be a moral relativist, or He would not be that God.
Well, I was addressing the argument "Without God there wouldn´t be absolute morality".
I hope you´ll understand that it´s impossible to address all the various god concepts out there with one and the same point.
But we don't even get to that point: The morality can be very justly related to a situation and circumstance. I think most people on this thread can agree, for instance, that uttering a falsehood might be a "good" thing or a "bad" thing depending on the circumstances and the intended outcome.
If a moral authority specifies beforehand that the circumstances of uttering falsehoods are good (such as transmitting misinformation to the enemy during war, or telling the Nazis "Those Jews you're looking for are not here") and the circumstances that uttering falsehoods are bad (such as when questioned by the moral authorities own executive agents), then there is not really a case of moral relativism. The "moral law" is not "lying is bad." The moral law is "Lying to me is bad; lying to my enemy is good."
Which pretty much does away with the distinction "absolute morality vs. relative morality" - which is significant in view of the fact that the absence of an absolute morality in case of there not being a god is brought up frequently as an advantage of theism.
However, there´s an even greater problem with the concept that even the grossest atrocities can be moral simply because we don´t have the divine knowledge required to judge things correctly: In effect and in every individual situation we are - just as is claimed to be the problem in the absence of a God - clueless about the moral value of a given action. The Holocaust may have been a good thing - after all, we can´t know whether and why God may have approved or even commanded it.
Which renders the moral argument for God´s existence toothless: God´s existence or non-existence makes no difference when it comes to making moral judgements.
IOW: The theist says (and I have seen Elioenai arguing that way more than once) "Without a God the Holocaust could have been permissible"; and I am responding "As it can have been with there being a God."
A bigger question here, though, is "what is morality and what is its basis?"
Indeed, and what we need first and foremost is a consistent definition that prevents false equivocations.
In my use of the term, morality is our ability and willingness to premeditate the consequences of an action in terms of desirability. The question "What is its basis?" doesn´t seem to be meaningful to me.
Interestingly, theists assert the existence of absolute morality and atheists tend to resist that concept...but everyone acts is if absolute morality exists.
I disagree, and I´d like you to substantiate that claim. Preferably by describing how a person would act as if absolute morality doesn´t exist.
On another note, in your first paragraph you did away with a meaningful distinction between absolute and relative morality - and here you are re-introducing it.
For atheists I pose this:
1. A broader definitoin of "god." I propose that every person's "god" = "That which is the bases of his moral decions." For whatever decision you make (especially a moral decision), whatever was the basis of that decision is effectively your "god."
Nobody here used the term "god" in this meaning here. I don´t think it´s a good idea to redefine terms in the midst of a conversation - particularly because that would mean that all previous statements are obsolete.
Besides, and to be honest, I am sooo tired of seeing believers ad hoc redefining "god" whenever their previous definition leads to a dead end in their reasoning.
2. Do you believe an absolute morality exists beyond your own judgment?
No, I don´t even know what that might be supposed to mean.
If so, how do you discern it?
I don´t and I don´t try to approach morality by means of discerning a supposedly absolute morality.
3. If you discern it by means of your own intellectual judgment, what makes your intellectual judgment superior to someone else's when they differ?
I don´t think that my moral valuations (be they intellectually, emotionally, instinctively or in whatever other way generated) are superiour to someone else´s when they differ, in the first place.
Furthermore, the idea that my moral valuations are superiour wouldn´t help me with anything. They wouldn´t remove the disagreement. People won´t stop doing what I don´t like simply because I claim my view to be superiour to theirs.
Which is "right" and how do you know it?
You keep asking as if I had claimed to be a moral absolutist. It doesn´t make much sense to ask me questions about my position when your questions are circled around ideas that make no sense from my position.