EmmaXO: IMHO this is not apathetic. This is giving you complete freedom to choose, and after you choose, it is not feeling bad that you made your choice. I would not prefer that you choose against Jesus. But if you willfully do so, you do.
Your view seems to want someone always to blame for bad choices. I think this is not right. When you make bad choices, you must pay for them. That is why you don't want to make the wrong choice.
I have sympathy for the beggar on the street. Thus, I often give to them. I have great sympathy for the suffering of others and often think they suffer because their faith is not complete. If a person lacks faith to resolve their issues, then it is their choice. If they made a choice, how can I pity them? I have to only say, "It is their choice. I would not choose that. But they did. And so it is right to have allowed them to do so."
The alternative is for me to say, "You have no freedom. I will choose for you. You may not choose anything bad for yourself." This is not freedom but slavery. The Bible says Christ came to set us free. I prefer freedom over everything else.
Why don't you go to this thread
http://www.christianforums.com/t7620223/ and then you can see the proof of my belief?
I do not believe in Jesus just because someone said so. I believe because I keep seeing miracles.
Of course, you can insist that a miracle is not one and therefore not believe. Others have.
But you know the consequences of disbelief now, don't you?
So believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and be saved!