Sorry you ran into christians who try to force it on you-they shouldn't have. Many christians are CINO's-please don't confuse christians in name only with real ones.
Your behavior right here is part of the problem, not part of the solution.
Everyone born from a Jewish mother and Everyone who completely conversion is a Jew and every Jew is obligated to treat them as a Jew. Or as Jews sometimes say, "a Jew is a Jew is a Jew is a Jew is a Jew is a Jew. "
If you are a Christian, on the other had, if a Christian doesn't like you or disapproves of you for whatever utterly arbitrary reason, they they just decide you are a CINO (Christian in name only), or not a
real Christian and they are treated like an outsider.
I was often consider a fake Christian and treated as an outsider. Sometimes it was because I made mistakes and did sinful things (whatever happened to the 'we are forgiven' part? Oh yeah, that only applies to me. Everyone else has to be perfect or they are not real Christians) but most of the time it was because I didn't wear "Christian clothes," read unChristian books and comic books (no
real Christian (TM) reads Swamp Thing or Lovecraft), I listened to unChriistian music (
real Christians (TM) don't listen to Metallica) or did some other thing that was considered unChristian for utterly arbitrary reasons.
So fine. I'm not a Christian. But two can play at this game. None of the rest of you are Christians either. Since there are no Christians, stop trying to spread a religion that doesn't really exist.
Straight out, as long as there are fake Christians, I'm not going to convert. I simply am not going to ever again subject myself to that kind of treatment. When all of you, and I mean ALL OF YOU recognize all the rest of you, and I really do mean ALL the rest of you as Christians, come talk to me. Until then, forget it because I simply don't want to be a fake.