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Do YOU have a crush on anyone? (31)

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Shadesofgray

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No. Every time I plan to have the DTR talk, she's super depressed or having problems with work, so I decide to hold it off. If things are OK this week, I might start poking around, asking questions that involve knowing what long-term relationship would be like.

That's probably a good idea. Timing is important. Just don't wait too long cause that could backfire too.
 
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Amber.ly

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No. Every time I plan to have the DTR talk, she's super depressed or having problems with work, so I decide to hold it off. If things are OK this week, I might start poking around, asking questions that involve knowing what long-term relationship would be like.

I would do it the time honored and tested to be true way. Send some flowers with a note that says:

Do you want to be my girlfriend?
Check yes or no

  • Yes
  • Yes
:p:D
 
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Thunder Peel

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Aaaaahhhhhhh......


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I would do it the time honored and tested to be true way. Send some flowers with a note that says:

Do you want to be my girlfriend?
Check yes or no

  • Yes
  • Yes
:p:D

Lawl. :p Knowing my luck, she'll cross out the second "yes" and put down "maybe."

That's probably a good idea. Timing is important. Just don't wait too long cause that could backfire too.

Yes definitely. Don't want to wait like...a year or something. It's far too easy to make excuses as a way of avoiding responsibility.
 
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Inkachu

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OK, Cool Guy has some more things going for him!

1. He sent me pics. He's CUTE! Tall and burly and teddy-bearish. Just my cup o' tea.
2. He doesn't live on the other side of the world! Only about a 4-5 hour drive. Not great, but definitely not terrible.
3. He's getting his private school teaching certification (aka he likes kids!). Word.

I sent him a few more pictures of myself, too. Let's see what happens... :sorry:

I wonder what cool name you'd give me... probably something along the lines of "So Cool he makes the sun freeze" or call me some really cool name like Cyrus :cool:

Shewt. You'd be "Beauty Obsessed Guy" :D

No. Every time I plan to have the DTR talk...

OK I may be the only person on the planet who doesn't know what "DTR" means... determine the relationship?
 
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You are thinking about marry so soon? I am surprised. I think you are still so young! Is that the normal way in there? I hope meeting your parents is going very well!

Oh no no no we're not going to marry any time soon. WE're seeing each other now or dating or however you want to define it - I just want him to meet my parents so that they'll know he exists. We won't get married for at least another 4 years or so, which would still be kinda young on our local standard. :)
 
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Nom De Guerre

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Oh no no no we're not going to marry any time soon. WE're seeing each other now or dating or however you want to define it - I just want him to meet my parents so that they'll know he exists. We won't get married for at least another 4 years or so, which would still be kinda young on our local standard. :)

Wait, you're engaged!? :D
 
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