I hope you don't take this attitude out on your husband.
If I do, he must like it, we been married for 23 years now.
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I hope you don't take this attitude out on your husband.
If I do, he must like it, we been married for 23 years now.
Contraction- you said its out of love and charity and becuase you love God.
not out of a sense of duty. I said its a job... but you said no.
You are one big ball of contradiction.
You just justified a mother killing her own children because of things like "hormonal cycles" and "her husband not getting it".
Endocrinology (from Greek ἔνδον, endo, "within"; κρῑνω, krīnō, "to separate"; and -λογία, -logia) is a branch of biology and medicine dealing with the endocrine system, its diseases, and its specific secretions called hormones, the integration of developmental events such as proliferation, growth, and differentiation (including histogenesis and organogenesis) and the coordination of metabolism, respiration, excretion, movement, reproduction, and sensory perception depend on chemical cues, substances synthesized and secreted by specialized cells.
Endocrinology is concerned with the study of the biosynthesis, storage, chemistry, and physiological function of hormones and with the cells of the endocrine glands and tissues that secrete them.
The endocrine system consists of several glands, in different parts of the body, that secrete hormones directly into the blood rather than into a duct system. Hormones have many different functions and modes of action; one hormone may have several effects on different target organs, and, conversely, one target organ may be affected by more than one hormone.
In the original 1902 definition by Bayliss and Starling (see below), they specified that, to be classified as a hormone, a chemical must be produced by an organ, be released (in small amounts) into the blood, and be transported by the blood to a distant organ to exert its specific function. This definition holds for most "classical" hormones, but there are also paracrine mechanisms (chemical communication between cells within a tissue or organ), autocrine signals (a chemical that acts on the same cell), and intracrine signals (a chemical that acts within the same cell). A neuroendocrine signal is a "classical" hormone that is released into the blood by a neurosecretory neuron (see article on Neuroendocrinology).
Hormones act by binding to specific receptors in the target organ. As Baulieu notes, a receptor has at least two basic constituents:
a recognition site, to which the hormone binds
an effector site, which precipitates the modification of cellular function.
Between these is a "transduction mechanism" in which hormone binding induces allosteric modification that, in turn, produces the appropriate response.
Families need both mothers AND fathers. Children benefit immensely from having both parents in the home. Single parenthood does come at an emotional and mental cost for the children.
And I disagree that there is something ontological about women that makes them only "fitted" for working in the home. Just like I disagree that a woman is an imperfect man, and can only be saved in relation to her husband, where she learns how to act as an authentic human being (Aquinas). If I could have kids, yeah, I'd stay home with them - but my husband had better pitch in as well, because he would live in the house, too, and the "But I work all day" excuse doesn't count because.... Mothers work all day, too! 24/7!
But since I can't have kids, then I'm quite happy to be able to go out in the world and make a difference through whichever career I choose.Doesn't make me un-feminine or anti-woman. Women who have careers are NOT inherently materialistic. After all, is every man who focuses on a career materialistic? No? Then why does having a penis mean that he can work and only parent on weekends?
Also, it would be great if we could stop quoting popes on the subject of women from the 19th and early 20th centuries. They came from a time when women were property (Pp. Leo) and when women had only had the right to vote for 10 years and it was still debated (Pp. Pius). Viewing women as equally capable human beings as men doesn't strip women of their femininity and make them like men - it is just an acknowledgement of the fact that both sexes exhibit mental capacities for the same sorts of careers. Women are equally capable of being as critical and as discerning as men when it comes to politics, religion, and the world around us. In our universities today, it is the women who are excelling academically - not the men. In Canada, we have a magazine called MacLean's that publishes yearly issues on the state of universities in the country, and they have written numerous articles pondering why men aren't enrolling and excelling as much as the women are.
Having an education and workable skills doesn't make a woman anti-man, or even anti-woman for that manner. It just means that she's capable as a man is in most jobs (physical strength excepted due to biological reasons).
Anyway, I guess you guys have proved my point that you here want a woman who has no workable skills, no independence, and is completely dependent upon a man for her living and well-being. I'm glad that most of us don't live in the 19th century anymore. I'll be enjoying my potential nursing degree or my theological professorship, if that is indeed the career path that I choose.
Too many women have flooded the job market, lowering the wages, causing less jobs and demand. And now because of that many women, who wanted to stay home and be mothers, are forced into low paying jobs who have children. You have to ask yourself, who's the one really hurting women in the long run?
Also, it would be great if we could stop quoting popes on the subject of women from the 19th and early 20th centuries.
Meepy, there are many things that existed in the history of the Church that are no longer held. For example, we do not hold Aquinas' belief that a woman is an imperfect man. We do not hold his belief that female children receive a soul later than men do. We do hot hold his beliefs concerning the significance of sperm in the reproduction of children.
I am not talking about something far-fetched. An understanding of biology and psychology have revealed to us that women are equally as capable as men. Issues concerning societal roles are not matters of faith - as in, we won't go to hell if we think that a woman working to support her family, to keep them healthy and happy, is a good thing. However, if I believe that abortion is permissible, my soul will be in danger; likewise if I believe that pre-marital sex and contraception are permissible. But my soul is not in danger if I believe that it is okay for a woman to go to work.
You know as well as I do that we cannot read things in a vacuum. A woman was considered property of her husband in the 19th century - when she married him, she became his, as did any property or possessions that she owned. Not hers as well; his. This is a reality. Presently, we acknowledge a woman as an independent individual who has equal status in a married relationship - married couples co-sign mortgages, lease agreements, and loans. The things they own are considered shared, not inherent property of the husband alone. This is not a bad thing - if anything, it enhances the beauty of the "two become one" mentality that we Catholics have concerning marriage. One is not absorbed into the other, with the other being dominant; the two come together in a beautiful symphony.
I can quote lots of popes on things that the Church now has a different opinion on. Pope Pius X's encyclical on modernism, for example, condemns a great many things - it condemned biblical scholarship; it condemned anthropology; it condemned psychology; it condemned many other 'modern' studies of the human person and our history. Now, we understand that those studies are NOT inherently evil - but we also have the critical thinking skills to see what is and is not an authentic expression of the human person in the understanding of the Catholic Church.
I haven't seen anyone in this thread arguing that women can run around and sleep with whoever they want. I haven't seen anyone in this thread arguing that men need to be emasculated. I haven't seen anyone in this thread arguing that women don't need men for anything in life. All I have seen is women trying to explain to men what a difficult job mother is, and women trying to explain to men that a woman having her own hobbies, career, etc. is a good thing, and may make her a happier, well-adjusted woman in the long run.
I wish you well in finding the sort of subservient woman you hope for. Just understand that there is nothing sinful about women wanting to work and make the world a better place through that.
The Church does teach some things, like veiling are not dogma or necessary and directly states they are matters of discipline and custom. Veiling is directly stated as such:
"it must be noted that these ordinances [of Scripture], probably inspired by the customs of the period, concern scarcely more than disciplinary practices of minor importance, such as the obligation imposed upon women to wear a veil on the head (1 Cor 11:2-6); such requirements no longer have a normative value."
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Veiling is not dogma, but it definitely is Theologica Certa and more probably Sententia fidei Proxima.
IS this dumb thread still going??