Matthew 19:16-26
Matthew 19:16 - And someone came to Him and said, "Teacher, what good thing shall I do that I may obtain eternal life?"
Matthew 19:17 - And He said to him, "Why are you asking Me about what is good? There is only One who is good; but if you wish to enter into life, keep the commandments."
Matthew 19:18 - Then he *said to Him, "Which ones?" And Jesus said, "YOU SHALL NOT COMMIT MURDER; YOU SHALL NOT COMMIT ADULTERY; YOU SHALL NOT STEAL; YOU SHALL NOT BEAR FALSE WITNESS;
Matthew 19:19 - HONOR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER; and YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF."
Matthew 19:20 - The young man *said to Him, "All these things I have kept; what am I still lacking?"
Matthew 19:21 - Jesus said to him, "If you wish to be complete, go and sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow Me."
Matthew 19:22 - But when the young man heard this statement, he went away grieving; for he was one who owned much property.
Matthew 19:23 - And Jesus said to His disciples, "Truly I say to you, it is hard for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven.
Matthew 19:24 - "Again I say to you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle, than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God."
Matthew 19:25 - When the disciples heard this, they were very astonished and said, "Then who can be saved?"
Matthew 19:26 - And looking at them Jesus said to them, "With people this is impossible, but with God all things are possible." [NASB]
The incident with the young ruler prompted a brief message from Jesus to His disciples. He remarked how difficult it is for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven. In fact Jesus said it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle. Since the man was trusting his riches rather than the Lord to save him, he could no more enter the kingdom than a camel (one of the largest animals used by Jews) could go through the eye of a needle (rhaphidos, a sewing needle; not a small gate within another gate as is sometimes suggested). This needles eye was an extremely small opening. The astonished disciples asked, Who then can be saved? This showed the Pharisees influence on them, for the Pharisees said God bestows wealth on those He loves. So if a wealthy person cannot make it into the kingdom, seemingly no one can! Jesus answered that salvation is a work of God. What appears to be impossible with men is what God delights to do. [Bible Knowledge Commentary]
I think the problem here is viewpoint. It is assumed that the main focus of Jesus answer is to the young ruler. But the young ruler was an example, an example for millions of Christians to read about and learn from. Consider the miracle quoted below:
John 9:3 - Jesus answered, "It was neither that this man sinned, nor his parents; but it was so that the works of God might be displayed in him. [NASB]
This is the answer.
John 15:16 - "You did not choose Me but I chose you, and appointed you that you would go and bear fruit, and that your fruit would remain, so that whatever you ask of the Father in My name He may give to you. [NASB]