"Let go":
Taken as an extreme, that would mean utter detachment from the world. I do think there is scriptural support for that - being seperate from the world. When it comes to personal relationships its much more sticky, since we are also to 'love thy neighbor as thyself'. But that is the second command - our primary command is to 'love the Lord thy God with all your heart, mind, soul and strength'.
Here is another passage which I believe illustrates why Jesus sets the first command above the second:
Matthew 19:28-30
28Jesus said to them, "I tell you the truth, at the renewal of all things, when the Son of Man sits on his glorious throne, you who have followed me will also sit on twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel. 29And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or fields for my sake will receive a hundred times as much and will inherit eternal life. 30But many who are first will be last, and many who are last will be first.
"Let God":
Definitely a somewhat nebulous phrase. We should have faith that God's will is good and that He can accomplish all that He says that He will. But, when we are confronted with difficult questions and interpersonal difficulty, what should we do? Inaction and waiting on God do not seem to be the right answer at that time, but there is one thing that I have sometimes forgotten in 'trying to do the right thing'. The guidance and leading of the Holy Spirit. The "letting God" part sometimes actually does require action on our part IMO. The peace and guidance of the Holy Spirit allows us to do God's will in that circumstance.
So, that's my take on what that phrase means. I think that the Spirit is utterly invaluable when we are called to do what God wants us to do - that we will fail if we don't have the Spirit.
The scriptures you post are interesting.. especially the one you highlighted.. I randomnly opened a devotional book last night and that was the one that I read.. along with a very interesting write up that spoke directly to my heart..
Basically it was a write up about a young woman who got involved with a relationship that was leading her away from GOD.. and she had to leave him.. and concentrate on her studies.. in fact she didn't date at all during her crucial studying time.. giving that up.. though it pained her to end the relationship and also not be with someone..
GOD blessed her back in the future with a Godly husband and wonderful young man.. and the writer said what she gave up.. GOD blessed her back a hundred times better..
I have been pursuing him that is my husband.. not always.. but I have and get entangled in something one sided when I know he will not give me anymore.. giving up my heart and sigh.. honest here.. body to him.. I have tried to win back his heart.. but... the way he lives and the way he will give only certain things and nothing more.. the way I act around him and to be with him.. is not towards GOD perhaps even taking me away from GOD..
The thoughts I am having and as I pray and seek GOD.. I don't want to be divorced.. and funnily enough he is telling women who are apparently showing him interest.. that I won't divorce because I am a christian.. I asked if he was interested in anyone.. he said people are showing him interest.. and I asked don't they worry that we are still married.. and that is the answer he gave to me.. He says just a piece of paper..
Anyway... I believe that I need to stop pursuing him altogether though it is really really hard to do that.. because we are still married.. and he won't divorce me.. long story.. costs him and for me on a pension (hearing disability it is free) sigh he won't pay at the moment..
I need to stop giving him myself and being hurt that way and I am being silly I know it is one sided.. sigh.. and just deal with the issues with our children and live as a single woman so there is some things I too need to give up.. I need to give myself to my children.. giving myself wholly to GOD and them.. GOD will have to deal with my husband.. and LORD help me to give up everything.. for your best and better rewards for me..
I believe as this scripture above says.. GOD will reward me.. because I am doing right before HIM...
I opened the bible today to the story of Abigail and Nabal in the bible.. and she did right before GOD.. and to David and her husband and GOD took care of her in wonderful ways.. I just believe GOD will take care of me.. now I have to put myself completely under his wings.. and leave my husband to GOD.. and take my hands off.. sigh..
Sorry alot here.. and personal I guess.. that is me.. I hope others might gain something from my struggles.. and THANK YOU all..
I believe this scripture you shared is GODS message to me right now..
Bless you all for contributing.. I love you my family through GOD..
