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why are you single ?

BlackIris

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I don't think that most of us know the "real" reason, or that it may be a combonation of things.

My cut and dry: waiting on God's will and timing. For that brings everything together.

I don't think it has to do with looks, personality, etc.

Ah, true. Well even though a lot of people my age already have boyfriends, I'm willing to wait if it's God's will. I'm not desperate anyway.
 
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I'm single because my ex-husband is an adultering jerk...

ummm...and I'm having the time of my life ^_^

I date...I dance under the stars...

As a Pagan there's not the same restrictions on dating adn such as in christianity, but I still find I'm rather particular and reluctant to engage in certain activities...

or maybe I'm just too old....heh

Either way...I'm single because I choose to be ... and I'm content :)
 
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I'm single because my ex-husband is an adultering jerk...

ummm...and I'm having the time of my life ^_^

I date...I dance under the stars...

As a Pagan there's not the same restrictions on dating adn such as in christianity, but I still find I'm rather particular and reluctant to engage in certain activities...

or maybe I'm just too old....heh

Either way...I'm single because I choose to be ... and I'm content :)

I'm sorry that your ex-hubby was an total jerk face and I would have add a few colorful adjectives but I'll prob be "warned" and so on...so hmm instead I'll give ya a :hug: and hopefully you can get a hunk one of these days :D

God Bless,
Drew
 
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It is? *checks a memo*

Ahhhhhhhhh you can just easily say you like to play hard to get tho ^_^

Trying to help :holy:

God Bless,
Drew

I don't play hard to get....I AM hard to get XD That dude's gotta have the right stuff :p
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penNpaper

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I don't play hard to get....I AM hard to get XD That dude's gotta have the right stuff :p
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Boys and Men attend the K9_Trainer 101 class and be prepared to "have the right stuff" you will be graded on K9_Trainer hand book. ^_^

Now I understand :D well whoever that special fellow is I hope you both shall be blessed in CHRIST :D

God Bless,
Drew
 
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I'm sorry that your ex-hubby was an total jerk face and I would have add a few colorful adjectives but I'll prob be "warned" and so on...so hmm instead I'll give ya a :hug: and hopefully you can get a hunk one of these days :D

God Bless,
Drew
I can think of a few adjectives as well...but in all seriousness...
In the end I'm much happier single...and will probably remain single for a looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong time ;)
 
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peacechild4

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I'm single because my ex-husband is an adultering jerk...

ummm...and I'm having the time of my life ^_^

I date...I dance under the stars...

As a Pagan there's not the same restrictions on dating adn such as in christianity, but I still find I'm rather particular and reluctant to engage in certain activities...

or maybe I'm just too old....heh

Either way...I'm single because I choose to be ... and I'm content :)

Glad you are happy now.. and I too am sorry your husband treated you that way..

You have a beautiful spirit..
 
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A woman is going to be single if she isn't good-looking (because that's how men choose their women), and a man is going to be single if he doesn't have enough money (because that's how women choose their men).

There may be exceptions, but this is the general trend. There is nothing more to it.
 
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peacechild4

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I am single because our marriage of 19 years disintergrated.. My husband needs GOD.. light and darkness don't mix... We both had our problems and he decided to walk out a year ago leaving me with 4 kids in the house.. He was very angry and didn't always treat me well.. I have no idea what is to come.. but I do believe in miracles.. and every day I am healing some with GODS help..
 
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I am single because our marriage of 19 years disintergrated.. My husband needs GOD.. light and darkness don't mix... We both had our problems and he decided to walk out a year ago leaving me with 4 kids in the house.. He was very angry and didn't always treat me well.. I have no idea what is to come.. but I do believe in miracles.. and every day I am healing some with GODS help..

no matter the belief system...there's a season for everything ;)
I hope you find loads of happiness in your children and your future and that you are blessed greatly :hug:
 
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peacechild4

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no matter the belief system...there's a season for everything ;)
I hope you find loads of happiness in your children and your future and that you are blessed greatly :hug:

Thank you so much.. it is great having fellowship whatever the belief system too!

We all have so much to learn from one another.. and add I believe too.. each experience in our lives draws us closer to the ones that really matter..
 
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I think I'm single for a zillion reasons. Some of the reasons are, I think I'm very unatractive, and because I don't think I'm good enough for anybody. I'm also very shy at first... it drives me crazy especially because people usually judge me right way instead of taking the time to get to know me and waiting unill I'm comfortable enough to open up.


All that and also, I'm just plain weird! :D
And you know, I'd like to say I'm waiting on God to bring the right guy. :)
 
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