Referring to baptism is a prejudice that you have imposed on the text, as the text contained in Romans 7 mentions nothing about baptism.
According to the marriage analogy inserted into this text in verses 2 and 3, the husband has to die before the wife is free to marry another husband. Using that example, verse 4 redefines the terms that the author presented so that it applies our relationship with the law and with Jesus Christ:
Therefore, my brethren, you also have become dead to the law through the body of Christ, that you may be married to another----to Him who was raised from the dead, that we should bear fruit to God.
The marriage analogy is presented first, and then the application of the analogy is given in the tenor of "likewise...". The first husband was the law, from which we need to be separated from before we can become married to another, Who is Jesus Christ.
The first half of Romans 7 is prefaced with the qualification "
for I speak to those who know the law", and the narrative you're having so much trouble with is sandwiched between these two antithetical points made by the author:
- the law has dominion over a man as long as he lives - 7:1
- But now we have been delivered from the law, having died to what we were held by - 7:6
The example of marriage was inserted between these to help lead the reader into the realization that one is bound (held, under dominion) to either the law or to Jesus Christ. It is not possible to belong to both, and redemption from the ownership of the law is a common theme most sabbatarians don't have a grasp of. Please remember that I was once a sabbatarian myself within the MJ community - and once redemption is understood, the exit door from sabbatarianism is only moments away. MJs also know the law a lot better than you do, and I was tempted to tell Frogster that there is no way you were a MJ. Your beliefs are more attuned to Adventism, but you display minor variances away from that belief system that I'm very familiar with.
Instead of following the flow of a narrative written by the author, you jump ahead and practice the same method of "line upon line, precept upon precept" that Isaiah 28:13 warns us to be a eisegetical trap and snare. No doubt that's why you grasp at baptism, which is foreign to Romans 7.
You had best reconcile that assertion with "
sin through the commandment". If you care to believe what Paul wrote, you would have recognized your out-of-context sound bite can't be reconciled with the previous verses you skipped over:
8 But sin, taking opportunity by the commandment, produced in me all manner of evil desire. For apart from the law sin was dead.
9 I was alive once without the law, but when the commandment came, sin revived and I died.
10 And the commandment, which was to bring life, I found to bring death.
11 For sin, taking occasion by the commandment, deceived me, and by it killed me.
In the longer narrative presented in Romans, you simply can't ignore the point made that sin is imputed by transgressions to the law in chapter 4. And unlike God, the law does not have the capability to forgive transgressions - it demands atonement by blood as its means of reconciliation.
As I mentioned, baptism is foreign to the narrative we're considering. I don't want to rely on what you know, but rather point you to reliance on the text you're staring at. Dying to the law is an old idiom that means that the law is powerless to affect you, and conveys the same meaning as the law has lost jurisdiction over you.
God didn't ask for your permission. As I mentioned before, direct quotes were furnished in many cases that show:
- The ten commandments was the covenant from Mount Sinai.
- We are not bound to that covenant that we have been delivered from and instructed to cast away.
It was God Who took the former covenant away, not mortal mankind, for it is Jesus Christ Who is referred to by "He" in Hebrews 10:9: "
He takes away the first that He may establish the second". The new covenant is not compatible with the covenant from Mount Sinai, which conveys the same point that you can't be married to Jesus Christ and the law concurrently found in Romans 7. To claim that you are is adultery and open defiance to the new covenant. That leads to the next point...
Don't refer to baptism anymore; it is not germane. You're apparently content to practice adultery and you're making excuses to rationalize your practice away in your own mind.
But you can't find that law, can you? There was no law describing marriage over Adam and Eve, and there was no ordinance describing adultery that had never happened in their lives. What you "know" is ridiculous to the point of inanity.

Does anybody know what this guy is talking about?