By children, I was roughly meaning any child.
I agree we should not depend upon the legal definition, but some are quite intent on saying we must use the legal definition, except when the legal definition disagrees with them.
That said, I am quite unsure when a minor should be allowed to consent. It is very dependent upon the individual. Not to mention, many of the arguments people use against a minor consenting apply to adults. For example, intimidation, it can be just as effective against adults as minors.
I don't understand. There is plenty of thread between a 15 and 16 year old of coercion. Isn't it better to actually just outlaw the use of coercion in general, instead of actions because there is a chance of coercion.
I think that, once we unpack our arguments, you and I are in agreement rather more than we are not.
Just a few things though-
'Children' is just the plural of 'child', which can mean pre-pubescents, anyone under the full age of adulthood, or the offspring of parents, regardless of age (e.g. child of the marriage- a legal term refering to heirs rather than dependents necesseraly). For the sake of clarification, I associate the term 'child' with someone up to the age of 12. After that, I think of them as 'teenagers', although I still consider there to be a marked distinction between a 13 year old and a 19 year old.
I am not big on insisting on a legal definition. When it comes to the phrase 'consenting adult', if it is not to be a tautology in that adult automatically implies consent (which, as you say, it
doesn't), then the word I am more concerned about is 'consenting'.
I don't have any issue with two 15 year olds who, in full possesion of the relevant facts, choose of their own free wills to have sex.
I DO have an issue with two 20 year olds where one of them feels pressurised into having sex. Specifically, I have an issue with the one doing the pressurising.
Which brings me to your coercion point- it is indeed quite possible for there to be coercion in the case of two teenagers below the official age of consent, and in the case of the 15 and 30 year old, it might be the 15 year old putting pressure on the 30 year old. I personally know of a case where a socially awkward 28 year old male was tricked by a 15 year old female into thinking that she was 18. She was the baddie, but he was the one who ended up on the sex offenders register, which also of course put paid to his teaching career.
We have laws regarding coercion- rape laws. Consent under coercion is not meaningful consent.
The matter of being able to prove coercion is a different topic, and tricky to prove, but that doesn't stop us from trying to deal with it.
So yes- I think we are, in the main, in agreement?