I didn't call anyone insufferably self-righteous.
I just don't believe God compartmentalizes. I believe he looks at us as "whole" and not "the sum of our parts."
I believe strongly that during our time on earth we find fulfillment in our relationship with God and with other people. That we are meant to love and serve one another on earth.
And I believe that most people try to do that, even if none of us succeeds completely.
Sin is a bit of a mystery for me. I often feel more remorse for what I DON'T do (sins of omission) than for what I DO do (sins of commission.) The sins of omission might not show up in any magic formulae or rule books, but I know they exist. They exist whenever I give my "some" instead of my "all" to the people I love, to my career, to those who need my help.
As far as sins of COmission go, I'm past the age where things like birth control and sexual sins are a big temptation or, in the case of birth control, even biologically necessary.
But if I had to examine my conscience over my lifetime, the fact that I had a tubal 20 years ago would be one of the least of my sins, at least in my mind. "What I have failed to do" would trump 99% of the "what I have dones."
And I sometimes wonder whether people who don't practice birth control (for example) look at that as some magic amulet that will counter the "what one fails to do." Or whether they even worry about the "what one fails to do" since it isn't mentioned in any official rules.
I just don't believe God compartmentalizes. I believe he looks at us as "whole" and not "the sum of our parts."
I believe strongly that during our time on earth we find fulfillment in our relationship with God and with other people. That we are meant to love and serve one another on earth.
And I believe that most people try to do that, even if none of us succeeds completely.
Sin is a bit of a mystery for me. I often feel more remorse for what I DON'T do (sins of omission) than for what I DO do (sins of commission.) The sins of omission might not show up in any magic formulae or rule books, but I know they exist. They exist whenever I give my "some" instead of my "all" to the people I love, to my career, to those who need my help.
As far as sins of COmission go, I'm past the age where things like birth control and sexual sins are a big temptation or, in the case of birth control, even biologically necessary.
But if I had to examine my conscience over my lifetime, the fact that I had a tubal 20 years ago would be one of the least of my sins, at least in my mind. "What I have failed to do" would trump 99% of the "what I have dones."
And I sometimes wonder whether people who don't practice birth control (for example) look at that as some magic amulet that will counter the "what one fails to do." Or whether they even worry about the "what one fails to do" since it isn't mentioned in any official rules.
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