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theres this boy...(looking for advise)

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Soo.. You like him bur you dont want To like him..
Why?

(Boys are okay in this thread because they can tell you what that boy that your talking about might want from you... :p )

Oh oh ohhh!! I know! Whenever he does like fun things be like.. " hahaha (name) I love you! hahaha! " In like a sarcastic kinda tone. Its like a love spell. The boy will think you actually do like him and then he will like start thinking. And Thinking is good.
 
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haha I know who you like! ;) But let me tell you. He Is Really Cool! I dont care i he's A Nerd! Nerds are cool! ^_^

And maybe you could be a bit nicer to him when he makes like a joke or something.. like dont call him stupid anymore.. :)
 
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Ok, first question for you: how old are you?

2nd: How old is he?

3rd: Why in the world are you thinking of this right now?

4th: What should your focus be on?

5th: Well, this isn't really a question, but its more of a statement; Its most definitely not wise to tell him how you feel, and you should avoid starting a relationship with him, 1.) until you've sorted things out in your mind, 2.) until he's got direction, vision, and means to support someone.

6th: Why in the world does their family come over to your house every other day?
 
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Ok, first question for you: how old are you?
14

2nd: How old is he?
14

3rd: Why in the world are you thinking of this right now?
i dont know!

4th: What should your focus be on?
good question...

5th: Well, this isn't really a question, but its more of a statement; Its most definitely not wise to tell him how you feel, and you should avoid starting a relationship with him, 1.) until you've sorted things out in your mind, 2.) until he's got direction, vision, and means to support someone.

6th: Why in the world does their family come over to your house every other day?
our families are really close
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Okay, a relationship at the age of 13 or 14 is most definitely not a good idea.

Now, really, what should your focus be on? As a Christian, what must you set your complete focus on?

Oh, and I highly suggest, especially if you're struggling with thoughts of a relationship: find a mentor. Find a woman, a strong Christian woman, who can advise you in your actions towards this boy.
 
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