Thanks for mentioning tiny Finland first!
Sure tickles our rather poor self-esteem!
Now, personally and as an anecdotal evidence, I have tried & lived the "expatriate life" in places like Canada, Kosovo, Lebanon, and the United States of America. Good memories & good experience, wouldn't trade it for anything, but as the cliche goes, there is no place like home. If anything, these stints confirmed my conviction just how incredibly lucky,
lucky I was to be born & carry a Finnish passport -- in Finland, we have this saying that to be born a Finn in Finland is like winning the jackpot in lottery, only better. I concur.
For one thing -- perhaps my DH's perspective is slightly different, though -- but as a woman "of certain age", I am acutely aware that Finland is truly the forerunner of gender equality.
DH and I enjoyed our time in the States and Canada; however, when it came to the question of starting a family of our own, it was no contest, no debate, really -- then and there, we relocated back to Finland.
To me, that says it all; that's
the bottom line.
Having tasted life both sides of the Big Pond, Finland was and is the best, most secure, with the best opportunities, health and education wise, place for a child to grow up.
I really, really appreciate the North American (Canadian and the USA) culture of "neighbourliness", if you like; we could certainly use some of that here in silent & taciturn everyone-just-mind-their-own-business Finland. I really appreciated the near Near East Kosovan and Lebanese culture of hospitality; families who had so little were still willing to share it all with near total strangers. And let's face it: no matter how the blonde Nordic woman in me tried, my Lebanese sisters are slated to steal the show regardless. I swear I don't know how they do it, but they look the way I could only wish, on a good day, 24/7!
But back to "real" politics.
As to the medical system, when I lived in the United States of America, I was lucky enough to be fully covered & insured by my DH's employer, so really, no complains there. However, I do recognize just how lucky and priviledged we were.
Here in Finland, I get to choose between public, private, and my employer (and in the past, University/Students' union) provided health care. I have used all systems rather eclectically, depending on my home adress, really. When we still lived in the immidiate downtown area, the public clinic was one block away, as was my (then) employer-paid private clinic in the opposite direction, so it was really just a matter of which system had available doctor appointment time when it suited me best.
As far as "policies" and statistics go, I
know I am lucky. As a Finnish woman, my life expectancy is better than my US sisters', my expectancy of years lived in good health is better than my US sisters', my chance of surviving pregnancy & child-birth excels my US sisters', my childrens' health prospects are far better than the avarage US child's (not to mention my kids' educational opportunities!) and so forth. Our democracy is stronger and so are our "freedoms".
Sorry, maybe the United States of America was that lone beacon of freedom & democracy & all things enviable some ten or twenty years ago, but clearly, as we have entered this new century, the United States of America has stagnated or even worse, slid back, whereas countries like mine have taken progress in strides, actually surpassing the United States of America as that elusive "good life" goes.
Coupled with my personal experience of that "everyday life" both sides of the Atlantic, I look at those numbers and clearly, sorry you guys, the quality of our life is better here in Finland. That's why we decided to relocate back in Finland to raise our family here and not there. So there's your answer whether I "envy" your life. Because I know one thing no amount of money can buy your child is that profound sense of safety & security we have managed to create here in Finland. There is no substitute for that.