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What about pansexuality?

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I have never seen a discussion on pansexuality. For those of you unfamiliar with the term, according to Wikipedia a pansexual is:

Pansexuality, or omnisexuality[1] is a sexual orientation characterized by the potential for aesthetic attraction, romantic love, or sexual desire for people, regardless of their gender identity or biological sex. Some pansexuals suggest that they are gender-blind; that gender and sex are insignificant or irrelevant in determining whether they will be sexually attracted to others.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pansexuality

So really, it's person who is attracted to a person no matter their gender. It's not that same as being a bisexual. Someone who is pansexual can also be attracted to transgender people.

Since there's too much focus on homosexuality, I would like to expand the discussion a bit further.

Does one think pansexuality is unnatural and wrong? If so, why?
 

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I have never seen a discussion on pansexuality. For those of you unfamiliar with the term, according to Wikipedia a pansexual is:


Pansexuality - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

So really, it's person who is attracted to a person no matter their gender. It's not that same as being a bisexual. Someone who is pansexual can also be attracted to transgender people.

Since there's too much focus on homosexuality, I would like to expand the discussion a bit further.

Does one think pansexuality is unnatural and wrong? If so, why?

Is a true pansexual limited by just sexual orientation?
 
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I see no difference between this and bisexual. I think it's another term that was made up so people can slap the lable on themselves and feel claim to be "different". But thats just my opinion. It's really big among the high school crowd to claim to be pansexual....oh those kids.
 
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I think most bisexuals would accurately fit the definition of pansexual. But because the term bisexual is more commonly known, the binary concept of gender, and negative connotations that some have with pansexual the term bisexual is used.

I realize it may not be the most accurate method, but I would mostly label sexuality categories as heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, or asexual.
 
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I see no difference between this and bisexual. I think it's another term that was made up so people can slap the lable on themselves and feel claim to be "different". But thats just my opinion. It's really big among the high school crowd to claim to be pansexual....oh those kids.
Except that 'bisexual' only refers to being attracted to either of two sexes. When you are attracted to not just the two sexes, but everything in between, that's when the word 'pansexual' is appropriate.
 
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Except that 'bisexual' only refers to being attracted to either of two sexes. When you are attracted to not just the two sexes, but everything in between, that's when the word 'pansexual' is appropriate.

The problem is that we commonly use a binary system for sexes. It may not be accurate, but I don't think there are more than two recognized sexes to create exclusionary categories for bisexuals.
 
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some of you i think spend too long trying to provoke us good christians when we dont care. if you were really interested youd be discussing this at a more appropriate site. if someone thinks that homos*xuals are wrong then they are going to think pans*xuals are wrong as well and you no that so you are only doing this to get a reaction but i will not react to your smut.

i think all s*x is wrong and unnatural we are not animals, we are better then animals so i think you should only pass the tadpoles through syringe if you want babies and we should never have s*x under any circumstances.

please take your filthy talk elsewhere thank you very much and stop trying to pollute the minds of us good christians who have pure minds.

i pray for you that you manage to get satan out of your heads!


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some of you i think spend too long trying to provoke us good christians when we dont care. if you were really interested youd be discussing this at a more appropriate site. if someone thinks that homos*xuals are wrong then they are going to think pans*xuals are wrong as well and you no that so you are only doing this to get a reaction but i will not react to your smut.

i think all s*x is wrong and unnatural we are not animals, we are better then animals so i think you should only pass the tadpoles through syringe if you want babies and we should never have s*x under any circumstances.

please take your filthy talk elsewhere thank you very much and stop trying to pollute the minds of us good christians who have pure minds.

i pray for you that you manage to get satan out of your heads!
Is someone holding a gun to your head forcing you to read discussions such as this? If not, why do you choose to do so?
 
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some of you i think spend too long trying to provoke us good christians when we dont care. if you were really interested youd be discussing this at a more appropriate site. if someone thinks that homos*xuals are wrong then they are going to think pans*xuals are wrong as well and you no that so you are only doing this to get a reaction but i will not react to your smut.

i think all s*x is wrong and unnatural we are not animals, we are better then animals so i think you should only pass the tadpoles through syringe if you want babies and we should never have s*x under any circumstances.

please take your filthy talk elsewhere thank you very much and stop trying to pollute the minds of us good christians who have pure minds.

i pray for you that you manage to get satan out of your heads!

This is perfectly appropriate. If you don't like it, you can go to another part of the forum.
 
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some of you i think spend too long trying to provoke us good christians when we dont care. if you were really interested youd be discussing this at a more appropriate site. if someone thinks that homos*xuals are wrong then they are going to think pans*xuals are wrong as well and you no that so you are only doing this to get a reaction but i will not react to your smut.

i think all s*x is wrong and unnatural we are not animals, we are better then animals so i think you should only pass the tadpoles through syringe if you want babies and we should never have s*x under any circumstances.

please take your filthy talk elsewhere thank you very much and stop trying to pollute the minds of us good christians who have pure minds.

i pray for you that you manage to get satan out of your heads!
Well that just pretty much confirmed my suspicions.
 
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Yeah, I think it confirmed everybody's. Happily so!

I couldn't agree more! Reading the latter half of the 'Satan: behind atheist behaviour?' board really put a downer on my faith in humanity.
 
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I guess I don't see a real difference between being bisexual or pansexual - the term "bi" would seem to suggest there are only two sexes, but even if you can argue that from a biological basis (and it would still be difficult), gender is a lot more fluid. If you take ten biological females, each will express gender differently, some will define themselves as more femme, others more masculine, so for me it seems like the same thing. But whatever. Love between consenting individuals isn't wrong.
 
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Yeah. No kidding. Who else feels like a member of the Billy Goats Gruff Brigade?

As far as pansexuality goes - today I'm not terribly concerned with whatever labels consenting adults want to use for themselves. Bisexual, pansexual, asexual, whatever - it's all groovy. Variety is the spice of life...
 
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i didnt react to you trying to get a reaction. satan has already got to you i pray that you find jesus before its to late i really do.
I reiterate what others have already said: if you don't want to see discussions on sexuality, then the E&M really, really isn't the place for you. You might prefer here.

Although I don't know why I bother suggesting it.
 
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some of you i think spend too long trying to provoke us good christians when we dont care. if you were really interested youd be discussing this at a more appropriate site. if someone thinks that homos*xuals are wrong then they are going to think pans*xuals are wrong as well and you no that so you are only doing this to get a reaction but i will not react to your smut.

i think all s*x is wrong and unnatural we are not animals, we are better then animals so i think you should only pass the tadpoles through syringe if you want babies and we should never have s*x under any circumstances.

please take your filthy talk elsewhere thank you very much and stop trying to pollute the minds of us good christians who have pure minds.

i pray for you that you manage to get satan out of your heads!

Seriously?^_^
 
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I have never seen a discussion on pansexuality.

I think most people who are generally anti-anything-that-isn't hetero-normative struggle to fully understand homosexuality. When bisexuality is ever mentioned it seems to be in a context of, "oh, you must sleep with everyone." I suspect that a discussion about pansexuality would probably blow their minds...

So really, it's person who is attracted to a person no matter their gender. It's not that same as being a bisexual. Someone who is pansexual can also be attracted to transgender people.

Since there's too much focus on homosexuality, I would like to expand the discussion a bit further.

Does one think pansexuality is unnatural and wrong? If so, why?

I don't, no. We're all individuals, and I'm increasingly convinced that whatever our sexual orientation, that's how God made us. So how could it be unnatural or wrong? Live and let live, that's my motto.

David.
 
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